Sharing My Wife!

[Pee4Fun]

I was married for 18 years to a gorgeous woman. She was blonde, 5'4", 118 lbs., and measured 34-25-37. She was only an A cup, but I'm not into large breasts. Her figure was like an hourglass, with the best legs and ass I've seen...to this day. Oh, and a very pretty face. She was ultra feminine too. She always wore makeup, earrings, and dressed very sharp.

I don't know why, but I started to fantasize about sharing her with another man a few years into our marriage. I didn't tell her, but would think about it during sex. This continued for several years. Then, one night, during sex, I told her. She was taken back at first, but gradually got used to the idea. Our "sharing" talk continued for a few years. I would cum so hard as she talked about what she'd do with another guy. It was so erotic!

I told a friend about my desire to share her. My wife had said that IF she ever did it, he would be the guy she would choose. My pal was really up for it! I had shown him very graphic photos of her and she approved of that. This only fueled my desire to share her.

So, during sex over a few months, I told her about his interest. We even spoke about it when we weren't having sex. She seemed like she would do it. I cannot describe the arousal I was feeling during all of this.

Then, she said she would NOT do it. She explained that she might enjoy it, but that I would regret it and that I would resent her and consider her a slut. I had to agree that this was possible. I know, it seems strange that I thought she was right.

However, she did continue to dress really sexy in public and do things that turned me on, like dancing slutty in a crowded bar. I loved it!

Now, over 20 years later, I'm actually glad we did not do it. Well, that's my story. We divorced in 1998, but not because of this sharing issue. I think some things should remain just a fantasy.

 

[magicalmoments]

Just out of interest, do you know if she ever hooked up with your friend after you divorced?

 

[Pee4Fun]

Just out of interest, do you know if she ever hooked up with your friend after you divorced?

LOL! No, she did not. He had since married and had kids. She moved out of state and is remarried. Perhaps I didn't make it clear that she was only going along with me on the whole idea. So, deep down I always knew it would never happen.

 

[MKvDeepSea]

Hey Pee4Fun,

All relationships require a lot of work, honesty and communications, it's not a 50/50 proposition as some mistakenly think; it requires a 100/100 effort to make it work. For some folks an open/shared relationship can work, but, it requires a lot of honest communications, understanding and, at times, forgiveness.

We've been married for 47 years. We explored an open marriage after five years of marriage. I had reenlisted in the Navy and she was in college. After we sowed our wild oats for several years we drifted away from it. We still have fun recalling some of our various sexual adventures as they still turn us on.

The main reason we drifted away from it was we'd rather spend the time and effort required to entertain someone else with each other. Of course the only times we did go out with someone else was when I was deployed or sent to military school or training for long periods of time.

This has been our experience. Best of luck to you.