Sharing bi fantasies

[amalfiguy]

Curious as the next guy but never really acted out my fantasies. A few years ago I found a chat room where curious types talked about their fantasies. Quite a bit of fun. I guess all types were there but it was obvious who was really curious and wanted to fantasize with someone in a similar situation. Would be fun to spend time with a cyber buddy periodically and make a mess together. It's about a close as I'll get to the real thing.

Oh, I', 48, 5'11", 205 lbs. and married. The missus definitely wouldn't approve.

 

[Bill3250]

Most Fantasies are my Memories!!!!!

I've been bi all my life and sucked my first cock the same summer I licked my first pussy, and enjoyed both very much.

One memory I often jerk off remembering is: I was fucking Lucy (a model I had once photographed) and Lucy was blowing my buddy Bob, and I couldn't resist kissing Lucy's cock stretched lips. She smiled (with her eyes only) and took Bob's eight incher out of her mouth and offered it to me. The instant I had Bob's cock in my mouth, we both came! and came! and came!

I have many other experiences, as well as fantasies to share. Let me know if you are interested.

By the way, my wife knows I am bi and understands. I'm very lucky.

 

[stiff_leg]

My Fantasy . . .

Well, here's my fantasy:
We meet at the hotel and get comfortable talking to each other, then adjourn to your room. I rub your cock in your pants and feel how big and hard you are, you begin to do the same. I unzip you and stroke you, feeling your warmth and precum, then bend down and lick your shaft. I pull your pants down, and pull off your shoes pants and underwear. I finally get to suck your head and lick up and down, feeling the veins running up your cock. Since you're already on the bed, I pull you closer to the edge and suck your balls gently, getting them wet and making you moan, then I lick a little further and rim your ring. A finger gently inside makes you clench, and you're really getting hot.
Now you want more, so I give you the lube. You rub some inside my hole, gently moving your finger in and out, and making my hole loosen up. You put some on your shaft, then you place your cockhead at my entrance. I'm on my back with my legs over my head giving you full access to my body. You slowly push in, you feel how tight my ass is and I feel how big you are. After slowly pushing in, you start to pull out, then in. Finally we're both REALLY hot and you start pumping really fast.
I've never felt anything like it, you're rubbing my prostate and you're almost there --- right along with me! Suddenly you push in and hold it, I feel your warm cum flood inside me and then I cum all over my belly. I cum without you even touching my cock! I've never done that before!
You'll be my first man (since I was 12) and better than any woman I've ever been with. We relax for awhile, and then when I start playing with you, you start to get hard again.
I start rubbing your cock you start to moan, I get up my courage and take your cock in my mouth for the first time ever. you taste salty from your cum that’s still on your cock. And I like it I move down and take your balls into my mouth. You moan loudly making me take you back into my mouth and take you as deep as I can. I gag a little as you slide down my throat.

In reality I'm still a virgin. But I wonder if I'll ever get to live my fantasy?
Mike

 

[lovesbistories]

to Bill

You sound rught up my alley but I think your too far away..um nc and my wife doesnt know..wish i could but shed freak

 

[stiff_leg]

Now the reality . . .

I'm married with kids, wife doesn't have any idea of my feelings. I've tried to hook up on some business trips but it seems that either no one shows or - if I go to them - they can't get it up. The last has happened about a half dozen times so we end up sucking or rubbing each other, but it's still not my fantasy.

 

[Javagirl]

I'm curious about something...

I'm a bi, single female and when I get married I plan to tell my husband that I also like women.

Is it just me or are there a LOT of married bi and bicurious men out there and my other question, do I have to worry when I get married that my future spouse might lie to me that he is curious about men? I'm starting to wonder now. Hmmmm.

Also, what stops you from sharing your feelings with your partner? She will automatically think you're gay? Is that it? too conservative? too prudish to understand?

I'm really fascinated...so much so, that I may just write an article about it..it seems like there is very much a "hidden" population of bicurious men out there who are married.

Anyone care to shed light on this matter for me? I'm just really curious.

 

[Javagirl]

Hmmm

...and is it true? Do men give better head than women? It's the same question that bi women ask...is a woman better at oral than a man? I've had good oral from both men and women so I can't say one is better than another. Although, a woman seems to find those magic spots a bit faster ha!

 

[alaskabibear]

I'm a bi, single female and when I get married I plan to tell my husband that I also like women.

Is it just me or are there a LOT of married bi and bicurious men out there and my other question, do I have to worry when I get married that my future spouse might lie to me that he is curious about men? I'm starting to wonder now. Hmmmm.

Also, what stops you from sharing your feelings with your partner? She will automatically think you're gay? Is that it? too conservative? too prudish to understand?

I'm really fascinated...so much so, that I may just write an article about it..it seems like there is very much a "hidden" population of bicurious men out there who are married.

Anyone care to shed light on this matter for me? I'm just really curious.

First, you are right to tell your future mate about who you are. To fail to do so will probably lead to problems. Only thing, I suggest you tell him before you get married not after. This may actually open him up to tell you about something that he has kept hidden. Second, I think you can see from the posts that there are a lot of bi/bi-curious men. I personally believe there are even more than we all think. But, is it any wonder that they don't want to open up and tell the world? Our society is not ready for that and they don't want the embarrassment or persecution that might result.

The other issue is almost too big to actually get a handle on. Why don't/can't some men tell their wives. Given a hundred men, I'm sure you would get a hundred different answers. Many couples hide everything from each other. Other (like me and mine) share everything. I have an opinion that my way is best, but it probably just will not work for many. I think you need to be open in all things. Learn to trust and accept each other from the very beginning. That takes work and honesty right from the start and continues thoughout the marriage.

Probably didn't help much, but good luck!

 

[limplizzard]

some good conversation, I told my wife about my desires to have sex with other men, she just asked that I not bring any STD's home. She has had affairs with women so now we swap stories. She gives much better head than any man I have ever been with, she also has an orgasm while giving head. According to her
I come in second place to her favorite girlfriend.

 

[mikevsmith9999]

...and is it true? Do men give better head than women? It's the same question that bi women ask...is a woman better at oral than a man? I've had good oral from both men and women so I can't say one is better than another. Although, a woman seems to find those magic spots a bit faster ha!

Well, I don't really have a representative sample ... but I've had fabulous blowjobs from women ... and one almost heart stopping one from a man! He deep throated me so perfectly that when I said (screamed, actually) that I was going to cum, he sank my cock down his throat untils his lips touched my balls, and started swallowing even before I started cumming. He drank it all down (and it was quite a bit!), and then kept sucking me until he'd got every drop and I started getting soft.

Then he sat up and said ... yumm ... a little salty - I LIKe it

Unfortunately, due to a lack of practice, I give pretty bad blowjobs ... but I'm willing to learn.

As to oral sex on women - well, let's just say that every women who was no longer in a relationship with me (for whatever reason) wanted to get together for (at least) one more thorough licking, fingering, and fucking - so I'll take that as a compliment

 

[esalenguy]

Bi Females more socially acceptable than Bi Males, but

I'm a bi, single female and when I get married I plan to tell my husband that I also like women.

Is it just me or are there a LOT of married bi and bicurious men out there and my other question, do I have to worry when I get married that my future spouse might lie to me that he is curious about men? I'm starting to wonder now. Hmmmm.

Also, what stops you from sharing your feelings with your partner? She will automatically think you're gay? Is that it? too conservative? too prudish to understand?

I'm really fascinated...so much so, that I may just write an article about it..it seems like there is very much a "hidden" population of bicurious men out there who are married.

Anyone care to shed light on this matter for me? I'm just really curious.

There DEFINITELY are many more bisexual or bi-curious males than what appear to be. I have always been bi-curious, but simply about sucking cock. I am not attracted to other men, I do not eyeball them the way I check out attractive women, and I have never thought romantically about other men. What I have found from forums like Lit are that I am not alone with this narrow curiosity of mine.

I think male bisexual curiosity is natural, especially among men who are naturally curious about things in general. Men who wonder what it would be like to fly, sail, SCUBA dive, etc., also wonder about sex. BUT, in the USA, male bisexuality is far less acceptable than female bisexuality. So such feelings are usually kept hidden. How many of the posts here at Lit are followed by a note about the wife not knowing?

Thinking about getting married, and your intended does not know about your interest in bi? Get it out and talk about it before marriage. If that's a deal breaker, better to know now than too late. I told my Significant Other about my curiosity years ago. She doesn't truly understand, thinks may be I am really gay and trying to deny it, but she would rather me explore than be repressed.

I am curious why you plan on telling your husband about your feelings towards women "when you get married." Why not before? Why not well before that, albeit not on the first date? More interesting is your worry about a husband-to-be lying to you about his interest in men. The way you phrase the question, it sounds like you would disapprove if he were, and thus your need to worry that he might be lying. Is there a double standard?

 

[marriedmale47]

Would love to chat, can't wait for my first mouth full .

 

[Clarmane]

Am i not the lucky one?My wife and i are both bi,and had some good fun with other couples.But it was not easy telling her.Don't u think most people hide behind homofobia,as with racesism to mask their true personal feelings?

 

[Clarmane]

Am i not the lucky one?My wife and i are both bi,and had some good fun with other couples.But it was not easy telling her.Don't u think most people hide behind homofobia,as with racesism to mask their true personal feelings?

 

[alaskabibear]

Am i not the lucky one?My wife and i are both bi,and had some good fun with other couples.But it was not easy telling her.Don't u think most people hide behind homofobia,as with racesism to mask their true personal feelings?

I too am one of the lucky ones.
I am a big advocate for being honest in relationships. Yes, it is hard to start being honest. Yes, it may not turn out as one had hoped. But I think life is too short to be lived in a shadow of deception.

Why do people "hide"? I think it starts as children. We quickly learn that truth can lead to a "bad" result. So yes, we do learn to hide and mask our true personal feelings (actually, we are taught to lie). As time goes on we build our walls of deception so no one can hurt us. And just like concrete hardens with time, so also our walls become so strong that it takes a lot of effort and resolve to tear them down.

Once we are mature enough to decide that we want to be true to our own thoughts regardless of what others may think, we begin to realize what a heavy burden the lies and deception have become.

It is just very sad that the burden can't even be laid aside with the one we have chosen to be united with in marriage. Then the question becomes; shall I perpetuate the lies, shall I carry the burden to the grave, or trust that truth shall be the better course regardless of the consequences.

 

[esalenguy]

Baked Alaska

I too am one of the lucky ones.
I am a big advocate for being honest in relationships. Yes, it is hard to start being honest. Yes, it may not turn out as one had hoped. But I think life is too short to be lived in a shadow of deception.

Why do people "hide"? I think it starts as children. We quickly learn that truth can lead to a "bad" result. So yes, we do learn to hide and mask our true personal feelings (actually, we are taught to lie). As time goes on we build our walls of deception so no one can hurt us. And just like concrete hardens with time, so also our walls become so strong that it takes a lot of effort and resolve to tear them down.

Once we are mature enough to decide that we want to be true to our own thoughts regardless of what others may think, we begin to realize what a heavy burden the lies and deception have become.

It is just very sad that the burden can't even be laid aside with the one we have chosen to be united with in marriage. Then the question becomes; shall I perpetuate the lies, shall I carry the burden to the grave, or trust that truth shall be the better course regardless of the consequences.

AlaskaBiBear... a common dilemma. How far are you from what your wife sees you as? Have you ever tried a threesome, and if so, did she enjoy it and want to try it again. That would seem a perfect way to introduce something "new".

I think the worst secrets are those of deception. They are the hardest for the deceived to accept, let alone forgive. But a secret desire should be something that could make a softer landing, given the right time. Maybe next time she is sucking you, moan about how good it feels, then wonder what it must feel like to be the giver...

Find a gentle way. Best of luck. BTW, how are things in Alaska? Have visited once and cannot wait to return.

 

[nipers]

Same here

I would like to chat about this also.Just drop me a line.

 

[alaskabibear]

I wasn't clear (AGAIN!)

Sorry, I wasn't clear in my post.

When I said that "I too am one of the lucky ones", I should have added "because my wife knows and is in fact turned-on by male/male sex."

But I agree with your comments "esalenguy", my sentiments exactly. And Alaska is great, do come again.

 

[dj_organ_donor]

...and is it true? Do men give better head than women? It's the same question that bi women ask...is a woman better at oral than a man? I've had good oral from both men and women so I can't say one is better than another. Although, a woman seems to find those magic spots a bit faster ha!

I would have to say the same but in reverse. My buddy that i play with semi regularly gets me off quicker than anyone else, but that may be partially to the extra excitement factor.

 

[Clarmane]

I too am one of the lucky ones.
I am a big advocate for being honest in relationships. Yes, it is hard to start being honest. Yes, it may not turn out as one had hoped. But I think life is too short to be lived in a shadow of deception.

Why do people "hide"? I think it starts as children. We quickly learn that truth can lead to a "bad" result. So yes, we do learn to hide and mask our true personal feelings (actually, we are taught to lie). As time goes on we build our walls of deception so no one can hurt us. And just like concrete hardens with time, so also our walls become so strong that it takes a lot of effort and resolve to tear them down.

Once we are mature enough to decide that we want to be true to our own thoughts regardless of what others may think, we begin to realize what a heavy burden the lies and deception have become.

It is just very sad that the burden can't even be laid aside with the one we have chosen to be united with in marriage. Then the question becomes; shall I perpetuate the lies, shall I carry the burden to the grave, or trust that truth shall be the better course regardless of the consequences.

well said!!

 

[alaskabibear]

Clarmane, wouldn't it be an interesting "experiment" to combine a group of babies from many different races and raise them together with no racist input. I think we could all visualize and believe that these children would grow up w/o any racial prejudices at all. Now do the same thing, only eliminate all sexual prejudice. It would be interesting to see what sexual preference people would eventually choose if given that freedom. Oh well, nice thought but not reality.

 

[amysboytoy]

I'm 47, been divorced about 11yrs. I had told my ex about some of my bi feelings, wish to crossdress etc. She thought I was a "sex freak" and did not really want to participate. She did let me wear "undies" at times but had no desire to let me explore my bi side. Even in today's culture, it still seems to be a stigma when a man wants some good, hard cock. I still like women and pussy, but man, a hard cock would be good to find.

 

[lemmesee]

Curious as the next guy but never really acted out my fantasies. A few years ago I found a chat room where curious types talked about their fantasies. Quite a bit of fun. I guess all types were there but it was obvious who was really curious and wanted to fantasize with someone in a similar situation. Would be fun to spend time with a cyber buddy periodically and make a mess together. It's about a close as I'll get to the real thing.

Oh, I', 48, 5'11", 205 lbs. and married. The missus definitely wouldn't approve.

....I'd like to sit in the same room with a fellow....and have both of us masturbating and talking about it as we do it....and both of us actually ejaculating....

 

[mannis]

How far?

Who can tell how far you might go, a lot depends on the scenario, the atmosphere, and the person you are with. Emotions can suddenly overpower you and you do things you never though possible, you may be just doing some mutual masturbation while watching some top line porn with a guy or gal, and next thing you have your lips around a hot hard throbbing cock, or you are kneeling between your g/f,s thighs and licking her pussy, who can ever tell. I dont know about you gals, but one thing is for sure and that "A standing cock has no Master".

Anyway, why should only gals have all the pleasure of sucking a nice big fat jerking cock, and getting the spermy result splurged in your mouth.

PMs welcome