Sexy Man In Church

[Samuelx]

Yesterday, something strange happened.



It was rather shocking, and a first for me. I ran into a guy I hadn't seen in a long time. Foster is his name. Think of an arrogant, handsome bad boy. Foster is one of those. He was my rival in high school. He excelled in basketball, I was an excellent freestyle wrestler.
We both had the same Physics class and he would always try to outdo me. We both liked the same girl even. I think Kassandra was her name.


A tall, attractive Cape Verdean girl whom both Foster and I liked and went for but she turned both of us down. Foster and I both graduated high school in 2003. I went to a small private college in Boston. He moved back to Florida.


Yesterday, I saw him in a church where my somewhat conservative and homophobic pals Jeff and Ralphie took me. Anyway, I'm always worried about having my cover blown around those two but for some reason, I like to hang with them, if only because I like Ralph's young aunt.


Anyway, I saw Foster at the church. I was so surprised to see him. We shook hands and hugged. We walked around the neighborhood before mass started and talked about old times. Next thing I knew, we had gone inside Dunkin Donuts and were talking for hours. We left to return to church and passed through the park. Foster saw that my tie was messed up and began fixing it for me. Next thing I knew,
the super-macho supposedly hetero stud Foster was kissing me and I was kissing him !


He told me that he was bi and had liked me for some time. I told him that I was bi too and had liked him since high school, in spite of our rivalry. We returned to church. He gave me his cellphone number and email address. He asked me if I could hang out with him sometime. I agreed to meet him THIS wednesday, so that we could hang out.


I feel EXTREMELY attracted to Foster. He's awesome !!!!! Like my dream guy or something. I had no IDEA that he was bi !!!!


I'm nervous as hell about our "date" this Wednesday.


Oh, and he sent me a picture of his through email. It's on my wallpaper, right now !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Ain't life grand ?


How should I go about things with Foster ? I like him and I don't want to screw things up !!!

 

[revolution724]

That's great! Best of luck.

 

[playwithlezli]

Wow

And to think that the ladies are still agonizing over " is she or isn't she" and you've already got a date. Maybe it's true that we are always waiting for someone to take the iniative while guys are used to being the iniator (sp?)

Good for you, have fun and as I say to my sons-play safe :

 

[neonflux]

Hey Samuelx!

You go, guy! Congratulations! It sounds infinitely hot! I suggest just being your normal sexy, intelligent self and letting it go where it will.... And let us know how it goes, please!

~ Justine

 

[Samuelx]

Well, I'm back with the news....


I met him at the BPL yesterday in Boston. He was wearing a black jacket over a red shirt, black jeans and boots. His short hair was concealed by a durag. He looked really good. He had shaved since sunday. Tall, dark and handsome. Smooth-looking. I was wearing a beige shirt, black dress pants and black Timberland shoes. When I saw him, he smiled at me and then we shook hands. I kinda hugged him. He seemed surprised but smiled and hugged me back. He commented on how I looked.



We headed toward the station. At some point I dropped my pass(accidentally !) and he bent down to pick it up. He has a really nice-looking behind. We took the bus to Harvard Square where we watched a double feature, "Pride and Prejudice" followed by "Brokeback Mountain". We both enjoyed the movie.




Afterwards, we went back to the Back Bay and ate together inside Prudential. It was nice inside. Just two young Black men, well-dressed and enjoying each other's company. He seemed to be riveted to my every word when I told him about the 374-page collection of bisexual erotica which I had written. He congratulated me. I'm dark but I blushed. It just wasn't visible...lol.



While we were walking, he asked me what my type was. I told him that I liked tall girls, athletic boys, BBWs and women of color, and sometimes, just sometimes, trannies. He laughed. His interest was mainly in men, he told me. He said that he had a thing going on with a teammate of his but they split a month ago. He laughed as he told me that he hadn't had sex since then and was ready to burst. I'm thinking of helping this young stud release his pent-up sexual energy....someday soon !!!!!!


We chilled inside the BPL while checking out some comic books. While we were walking, we sort of walked closer to each other than two guys normally would. We weren't touching or holding hands or anything, but we were close.



Afterwards, we took the train and went to his car. We drove back to my town. Then, he dropped me home and that was it. He came in and said hello to some of my family members. My uncle remembered him from my high school days. He sat in the family room and told some jokes. He can do a really cool "Bernie Mac" impression. I'm more of a fan of Steve Harvey's brand of Black Comedy. We went to my room and I showed him some of my things. My books. My CDs. My messed-up computer.






All in all, It was a really nice night !!!!! I can't wait to see him again. One thing does bother me a little, though.....when we walked together, he checked out both men and women left and right....I said nothing, heck, I'm a man and I often do it too but.....the moment I saw him in church last Sunday....I had forgotten about every other man and woman
on earth....seriously.


Since Sunday morning, every time I go to bed, I find my sex in my hand
and thoughts of him in my mind....


I hope he likes me. I really want to see more of him.....


If you want to know what he looks like, think of Lee Thompson Young, the Black stud who starred in The Famous Jett Jackson. He looks like that, only light-skinned....like a black angel.


Can't wait to see him again.


- Sam.

 

[neonflux]

Congratulations and good wishes

Samuelx,

Your friend sounds heavenly, roving eye not withstanding. I hope that you get more of all of that incredibly arousing high of anticipation soon and that it leads where you will! It definitely sounds like it is headed in that direction. Thank you for the detailed (and very sexy) update.

~ Justine

 

[Samuelx]

Why, thank you neonflux. We've been having a lot of fun together lately. He's got his own apartment in the city. We have lots of privacy to watch movies together, play cards or....whenever we get in the mood, which is often, plenty of room to "play". So far, I really like him. He's great. He's on a college Basketball team and I've gone to his matches. I've even met his coaches and a few of his teammates. He's gorgeous and masculine, like a Black version of Colin Farrell or something. We have similar tastes in a lot of things. He likes Rap music and Action movies. I like Rap, Hip Hop and Science fiction movies.




Yesterday night, we lay in bed and watched Smallville, a show we both loved. It was the episode when Clark Kent met the handsome Aquaman. Lois Lane was there too. I admitted to finding both Tom Welling and Alison Mack to be extremely sexy. He laughed at that. Of course, I think my new guy is sexy as hell.



There's a Gold Gym where he works out. We went there for a workout the other day. Women are always flirting with him. From the blonde receptionist to a black female bodybuilder who wants to "spot" him. When we're walking around together, he gets checked out by women and men all the time and loves the attention. I don't mind, somewhat.


In public, he is affectionate, but in a "straight-ish" way. Behind closed doors, he is affectionate and sexual almost beyond belief. I like that about him.



I hope this relationship works out. I have changed a bit in 2005. I've had relationships with both men and women that year. Even after admitting to myself that I was a bisexual Black man, I still wanted to eventually meet a woman and settle down with her and have kids and all that. Yet, after hanging out with my current guy and waking up next to him after a night of passion, I think to myself : "Would it so bad to spend the rest of my life with a man ?"



I am open to whatever life throws me. I hope it's good things. If I am meant to be with a woman, then let it be. If I am meant to be with a man, that's MORE THAN OKAY BY ME !!!!! In fact, I'd almost prefer that. Almost.



Anyhow, I just thought I'd share this with you guys.


Peace.

 

[Wolfman1982]

Samuel: you make me smile, and wish I could see you and him together

Heck I would clap if I saw you kissing

I think it is great you have found a wonderful partner

Congratulations from here !

 

[neonflux]

Congratulations and good wishes for the new year!

Samuelx,

Thank you for sharing so much of this journey - your new man sounds fantastic! I second all that Wolfman1982 said and wish you and he only the very, very best for this coming year!

~ Justine

 

[Samuelx]

Hey, guys. I've been wanting to give you an update. This happened recently.


I recently ran into my ex-girlfriend. You might remember her. Melanie, the girl wrestler from BSC. Anyhow, I ran into her at Prudential. She was there with a guy. I could tell that they were an item. I happened to be there with my guy, Foster. Melanie noticed me walking by at the same time that I noticed her. She was holding hands with her guy. She said hello, and conversation ensued. It went something like this :


Melanie : "Hi, Teejay ( my nickname). How are you doing ? This is my boyfriend Jerry."

ME : "Uh, hi. Mel. Long time no see. Hey, man ( to her guy). What's going on ?"

Melanie : " I'm just spending some time at the mall with my boyfriend."

(She looked at me pointedly, then glanced at Foster)

"Who is he ?"

Foster put his arms around ME and said : " I'm spending time at the mall with my boyfriend."

Man, I have to tell you that I hadn't felt that happy in years. Melanie looked shocked. Her boyfriend looked uncomfortable. They both said bye and quickly left. Foster and I looked at each other and smiled, before heading to the Food Court.


I'm becoming more and more comfortable with myself, my sexuality and my relationship status.

What can I say ?

 

[MissBri]

 

[Samuelx]

Why, thank you. Right now, I'm in my college library, done with reviewing for a test tomorrow. Foster is in the school gym, practicing. He's one of the best players on his team. It bothers me when so many girls seem to want a piece of him but I'm confident he's gonna stick with me. You are right about Boston being open-minded. I've gone to meetings for members of a bisexual support group and they're pretty cool. They even have events in the open, like in hotels or learning centers. Maybe someday all GLBT folks will enjoy the same rights as their hetero counterparts.

 

[MissBri]

 

[BT-NJ]

Hey, guys. I've been wanting to give you an update. This happened recently.


I recently ran into my ex-girlfriend. You might remember her. Melanie, the girl wrestler from BSC. Anyhow, I ran into her at Prudential. She was there with a guy. I could tell that they were an item. I happened to be there with my guy, Foster. Melanie noticed me walking by at the same time that I noticed her. She was holding hands with her guy. She said hello, and conversation ensued. It went something like this :


Melanie : "Hi, Teejay ( my nickname). How are you doing ? This is my boyfriend Jerry."

ME : "Uh, hi. Mel. Long time no see. Hey, man ( to her guy). What's going on ?"

Melanie : " I'm just spending some time at the mall with my boyfriend."

(She looked at me pointedly, then glanced at Foster)

"Who is he ?"

Foster put his arms around ME and said : " I'm spending time at the mall with my boyfriend."

Man, I have to tell you that I hadn't felt that happy in years. Melanie looked shocked. Her boyfriend looked uncomfortable. They both said bye and quickly left. Foster and I looked at each other and smiled, before heading to the Food Court.


I'm becoming more and more comfortable with myself, my sexuality and my relationship status.

What can I say ?

Good for you!!!!!!!

 

[Raimondin]

Yesterday, something strange happened.



It was rather shocking, and a first for me. I ran into a guy I hadn't seen in a long time. Foster is his name. Think of an arrogant, handsome bad boy. Foster is one of those. He was my rival in high school. He excelled in basketball, I was an excellent freestyle wrestler.

I feel EXTREMELY attracted to Foster. He's awesome !!!!! Like my dream guy or something. I had no IDEA that he was bi !!!!


I'm nervous as hell about our "date" this Wednesday.



How should I go about things with Foster ? I like him and I don't want to screw things up !!!

Samuel, what a romantic (and coincidental) reunion of sorts I'd say. Adds a whole new meaning to the phrase, "See you in church!"
I'm a strong believer in the fact that these type of things always seem to happen in the least likely of places, when you least expect them. That's the surrey with the fringe on top in life.

I always have felt that if you follow your feelings you can't go wrong. That's when you start to become more comfortable with being yourself as well. It's when we deny or try to avoid our feelings that we tend to get in trouble.

Good luck to you and Foster.

 

[Wolfman1982]

Melanie : "Hi, Teejay ( my nickname). How are you doing ? This is my boyfriend Jerry."

ME : "Uh, hi. Mel. Long time no see. Hey, man ( to her guy). What's going on ?"

Melanie : " I'm just spending some time at the mall with my boyfriend."

(She looked at me pointedly, then glanced at Foster)

"Who is he ?"

Foster put his arms around ME and said : " I'm spending time at the mall with my boyfriend."

Boyaah instant karma on her behalf

and great karma for you

 

[Samuelx]

Boyaah instant karma on her behalf

and great karma for you

Wolfman, thank you very much for these kind words. Yeah, Fos is a real gem. I think I might be falling for him. Recently, he introduced me to his
dad. His dad is a stocky older black man who runs a small restaurant in south boston. It was an honor to meet the man. Foster introduced me as "his number one guy". A funny way of saying that I matter to him without letting the whole world know that we aren't exactly platonic pals. I understood the reasons behind it. Neither of us is ready to come out of the closet yet. I'm in my third year of college. I want to have my degree, a steady job and a place to stay before I try anything like that.
Foster is a college athlete on scholarship. It may be 2006 but the college
athletic scene is still not ready for an openly bisexual Black male in its locker rooms. Foster is a great guy.

I don't always get along with my family but they think highly of him. When I mentioned him to one of my cousins, he said : "dude, that's the kind of guy you should be hanging out with. A smart brotherman who's going somewhere, just like you." I've met some of the other players on his team. As far as I can tell, they're all straight men with girlfriends. They're okay, I guess. The only thing that bothers me is that since Foster is a star player, so many chicks hit on him on a regular basis. He loves the attention. I grit my teeth, smile and say nothing. It shouldn't bother me. At all. Yet it does.


We have so much in common. It's almost scary. Spiderman comics collection ? Check. Star wars fan ? Check. NBA fanatic ? Check. Bisexual ?
Check. NFL fan ? Check. Competitive ? Check. He loves reading my stories. I've printed them, had them bound and gave him a signed copy.
I read some of them to him sometimes. Even when he is away, he emails me to ask questions about me and the stories. I really hopes this last.

 

[Wolfman1982]

We have so much in common. It's almost scary. Spiderman comics collection ? Check. Star wars fan ? Check. NBA fanatic ? Check. Bisexual ?
Check. NFL fan ? Check. Competitive ? Check. He loves reading my stories. I've printed them, had them bound and gave him a signed copy.
I read some of them to him sometimes. Even when he is away, he emails me to ask questions about me and the stories. I really hopes this last.

Collecting Marvel comics , check bisexual , check, I like Starwars, check, as long he doesn´t fuck around, you just have to bite it in you. Since if he is monogamous, I think you don´t have anything to fear.

But the other things , in the closet , check now there are three of us in the closet, it is beginning to tight in here

Heck, just beat off(masturbate) to the hitting girls, if they are attractive, heck maybe even he does that too. and you have nothing to be afraid of yet, if he doesn´t fall in love with one of them.. then you got a real problem on your hands.

Heck just love the guy, sleep with him, eat with him. Fuck with him, and just enjoy for maybe the first time, that you have a real loving boyfriend, who is also a lover to you

Since I became a member here, I have learned so much from one single person, she is BALUS, and I have loved her dearly, in many ways. But enough of my past. Your future, and my future , and the future of all here, is in front of us.

Just enjoy, you got a boyfriend

And be proud, and loud

 

[Samuelx]

Thanks, Wolfman. You're a cool guy and a good friend. You're ever in Boston, give me a howl. I've gotta leave now. Got an early class tomorrow. In college, they don't let you sleep in class. profs love hearing themselves talk and want you to hear them too...lol. Have a good one. Peace.

 

[neonflux]

I understand....

The gritting of teeth, and the fact that you know it shouldn't bother you I personally think that he'd be hard pressed to find anyone else as wonderful or well-suited to him as you

I hope for the rest that it just keeps getting better, and better and better...

~ Neon

...The only thing that bothers me is that since Foster is a star player, so many chicks hit on him on a regular basis. He loves the attention. I grit my teeth, smile and say nothing. It shouldn't bother me. At all. Yet it does.

We have so much in common. It's almost scary. Spiderman comics collection ? Check. Star wars fan ? Check. NBA fanatic ? Check. Bisexual ?
Check. NFL fan ? Check. Competitive ? Check. He loves reading my stories. I've printed them, had them bound and gave him a signed copy.
I read some of them to him sometimes. Even when he is away, he emails me to ask questions about me and the stories. I really hopes this last.

 

[Samuelx]

The gritting of teeth, and the fact that you know it shouldn't bother you I personally think that he'd be hard pressed to find anyone else as wonderful or well-suited to him as you

I hope for the rest that it just keeps getting better, and better and better...

~ Neon

Thanks, Neon. It's been some time but we're still together and going strong. I've got summer classes in July but in August '06, we plan on going to NY together !