Sexually Frustrated

[alias_hotmail]

Ok, this is my rant, I’m trying to improve my sex life at home but nothing seems to be working, here is the latest:

My wife is not kinky at all. It's pretty much all missionary. To get anything else I have to beg and plead (which is not a turn on for me). Just the other night, I asked her to put on a g-string, she has a few, but never actually wears them out (which I adore), she only uses them just before sex. Anyhow, I asked her to put on a g-string and her high-heels. (she hardly ever wears heels, and only has 1 decent pair). So I got her all dressed up, and then make her cum, first with my fingers, with her looking at us in the mirror. Then I leaned her up against her dresser and licked her pussy until she cam (for the second time). Then I proceeded to fuck her for a little, bit, teasing her clit with my cock, then I went down on her again and made her cum a third time (each time there are several mini orgasms you understand, I'm just explaining the big ones). Anyhow, all this before I fucked her pussy for a few more minutes and cam in her.

Now, with all that mind-blowing sex, you would think that I would get it more often right? But like 2-3 nights later I ask her to dress up and you'd think I was asking her to rotate the fucking tires on my car. I mean WTF! She was like, do I have to wear the heels! That night, I had to pull out the high heels (a real kink of mine) and she put them on, but then wobbled around in them (not even trying to act sexy). This time I ate her pussy first, bringing her to orgasm, then started fucking her, and teasing her clit with my cock again. I fingered her clit as I fucked her and brought her off again before exploding in her.

My wife is very beautiful, she has a great body, but it’s just her level of excitement and willingness to try new things, and to be sexually open and I guess her attitude toward our sex life that I have a problem with.

Oh after those two great sessions, it’s been about two weeks now and nothing, I ask she says later. LATER!

Ok, done ranting, I’d love to hear responses, good, bad, or ugly, give it to me straight.

 

[ShyGuy68]

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[alias_hotmail]

good question

Well, I guess it's a plea for some attention from some lovely lit ladies, and in that sense an invitation, perhaps even an advertisment seeking some distraction. How's that suit you?

 

[LORDG]

no problem

no problem
have you got a digital camera and video camera?
tell her that you want to photograph her naked.
publish some of the photos here, and let her see the replies.
buy the story of o and basic instinct 2 on dvd.
hang a bullwhip over your bed.
go to the gym 3 times a week and pump up your muscles.
get yourself an arab strap, cock ring and a leather thong.
army stores sell sas style masks.
let her see you in your rapist's outfit.
you will be fucking her arse in a few weeks.
make sure you film it to show her.
lordg

 

[Lupi]

You Are Not Alone

My wife and I have been married for almost six years. The first few years our sex life was great. She was adventurous would try most things at least once. After a few years of infertility her sex drive went out the window. Now I am lucky if we have sex once a month and pretty much missionary.

I have tried numerous things to get her sex drive back in check. Right now she only associates sex with infertility. So what can I do! I have tried to get her to counseling but she won't go.

 

[alias_hotmail]

infertility

I also went through the whole infertility thing, and yes it does suck. I have no good advice for you. Good Luck.

 

[Lupi]

That might be your wife's problem as well. Nothing you can do it just sucks!

 

[Timmyd719]

I actually saw an episode on tv somewhere about couples losing touch with their sexuality. It essentially talked about how couples stop kissing and touching so much and that is a leading factor to a decreased sex drive. If you already kiss and touch your wives a lot then I'm not sure what to tell you, but if you don't just try to increase that and maybe the increased contact will get her juices flowin'. I'm no marriage counselor and I'm certainly not married, but this seemed like pretty logical advice to me.


Best of luck guys.

 

[WantonWitch]

Guys an girls.... foreplay is not something that is done just before sex.

If you show your spouse that you find them attractive both in an out of bed you'll get further....complaining 'cos she don't want to wear high heels n stuff does not help... to be honest we like to know that you fancy us with that just got out of bed after a late night and look really rough look as well.. pretty sure you guys are the same
If you want sex that night... start in the morning... walk up behind him/her and whisper in thier ear something like... mmmm you look good this morning... give them a little kiss or nibble on the neck... shoulder... when you leave for work.. forget the peck on the cheek... try taking them in your arms and really kissing them..... make the effort to text/phone them during the day

Remember what it was like when you were courting and couldn't wait to be together.... it's hard work keeping the same amount of zing.... but well worth it in the end

 

[Stryderthorongil]

Interesting...can't argue with you there Witchie. Where is the romance? If you want her to dress up did you offer to take her somewhere where she can wear the clothes and look and feel sexy? What are you doing to look sexy yourself? Where is the suit, g-string, boxers, etc.? What does she find sexy in a man? Have you asked? Being a guy, anything I would expect the woman in my life do, I better be ready to do it too. Communication is the key and feeling free to communicate what you feel and think.

One of my favorites is to dress nice and meet the woman in my life in a bar/restaurant. She can dress sexy, flirt with other guys, but in the end, she goes home with me. Sometimes it ends in hot sex, other times...lol, a game of putt-putt in heels and a short skirt (for her that is) me in my suit, with lots of secret touching and kissing. It can't just be, hey you, tonight wear this. She has to join in the fun and you have to also.

Just a thought...

 

[Dolphin2940]

Ok, this is my rant, I’m trying to improve my sex life at home but nothing seems to be working, here is the latest:

My wife is not kinky at all. It's pretty much all missionary. To get anything else I have to beg and plead (which is not a turn on for me). Just the other night, I asked her to put on a g-string, she has a few, but never actually wears them out (which I adore), she only uses them just before sex. Anyhow, I asked her to put on a g-string and her high-heels. (she hardly ever wears heels, and only has 1 decent pair). So I got her all dressed up, and then make her cum, first with my fingers, with her looking at us in the mirror. Then I leaned her up against her dresser and licked her pussy until she cam (for the second time). Then I proceeded to fuck her for a little, bit, teasing her clit with my cock, then I went down on her again and made her cum a third time (each time there are several mini orgasms you understand, I'm just explaining the big ones). Anyhow, all this before I fucked her pussy for a few more minutes and cam in her.

Now, with all that mind-blowing sex, you would think that I would get it more often right? But like 2-3 nights later I ask her to dress up and you'd think I was asking her to rotate the fucking tires on my car. I mean WTF! She was like, do I have to wear the heels! That night, I had to pull out the high heels (a real kink of mine) and she put them on, but then wobbled around in them (not even trying to act sexy). This time I ate her pussy first, bringing her to orgasm, then started fucking her, and teasing her clit with my cock again. I fingered her clit as I fucked her and brought her off again before exploding in her.

My wife is very beautiful, she has a great body, but it’s just her level of excitement and willingness to try new things, and to be sexually open and I guess her attitude toward our sex life that I have a problem with.

Oh after those two great sessions, it’s been about two weeks now and nothing, I ask she says later. LATER!

Ok, done ranting, I’d love to hear responses, good, bad, or ugly, give it to me straight.

You are lucky to get what u are getting. Me I have not been touched in almost a year and I have been married to my hubby for 11 yrs and when I ask him to come to bed he says later on and never comes in and then i have to take care of myself and batteries only last so long.

 

[dose]

Poor you! Your husband must be crazy! I wouldn't needed to be asked twice!