Sexually aggressive women

[MILFSauce]

How do you men feel about women who are sexually aggressive and openly express their desire for sex? Do you like it? Or do you prefer to be the one to make the first move?

Ladies, how do you feel about being sexually aggressive? Do you like being the one to initiate sex? Will you approach a man you don't know? Would you ask him out? And if it's a man you know and have never gone to bed with, but now you want to, will you make the first move to get him into bed?

 

[SgtSpiderMan]

How do you men feel about women who are sexually aggressive and openly express their desire for sex? Do you like it? Or do you prefer to be the one to make the first move?

Ladies, how do you feel about being sexually aggressive? Do you like being the one to initiate sex? Will you approach a man you don't know? Would you ask him out? And if it's a man you know and have never gone to bed with, but now you want to, will you make the first move to get him into bed?

I occasionally enjoy being treated as a piece of meat.

 

[johnnieblue44]

How do you men feel about women who are sexually aggressive and openly express their desire for sex? Do you like it? Or do you prefer to be the one to make the first move?

Ladies, how do you feel about being sexually aggressive? Do you like being the one to initiate sex? Will you approach a man you don't know? Would you ask him out? And if it's a man you know and have never gone to bed with, but now you want to, will you make the first move to get him into bed?

I think I'm not too different from most men when I say that I enjoy a sexually aggressive woman who makes no pretense as to what her intentions are. However, once in the bedroom (or other comparable sexual arena), my alpha and dom instincts take over and I want to be the aggressor, to take charge.

For me, a sexually aggressive woman takes all the guesswork out of a man's greatest fear of being rebuffed or rejected, so what's not to like?

 

[dz2681]

I think it's even sexier when a woman knows what she wants and isn't afraid to make it happen. Nothing wrong with a sexually aggressive woman in fact makes it easier for the guy, wouldn't mind more women being that way takes the pressure off lol. Don't run into too many then again haven't really been paying that much attention for a long time now.

 

[Ahi_Viking]

Love

I love when a woman is open and aggressive. I'm not good at reading minds. Tell me what you want baby and I'll give it to you in spades...

 

[Sebastian_Plz]

As the other posters have said, I, as a male, do not mind it when a woman is sexually aggressive. However, the caveat on that, just like with men approaching women, it really has a lot to do with the context and environmental conditions. Case in point, I cannot stand it if I am approached in the gym. I'm doing a dreaded treadmill workout and I see this lady standing behind me just staring. Creeps me out. Or having the literal aggressor stop me while I am running just to give me her stuff. Yes, I appreciate the compliment, but dude, seriously? You could not wait for a more opportune time? Or, and this is just my own experience, being approached by an aggressor who I simply am not into. And to have her fawning over me after a polite rejection is quite annoying. But if this is a woman whom I have already known or am dating, no, I prefer when she is completely open and honest about her thoughts and desires. If she wants to get down with the clown...yea, tell me. Chances are I am as well, but even if I am not, at least know we both know what she wants, when she wants, and I can adjust (as necessary) so that both folks are happy.

Now if I am just walking around town and am approached, I don't mind the sexual aggression after mild discussion/commentary. I equate it to a woman in the bar, no one wants a guy to just upright say: 'I have a ten inch penis....around! Do me in the bathroom!' But the idea can be acceptable, and even said, if after some basic conversation, we have a feel for one another's intentions and the situation is clearly presenting itself. I sound rather prude in that sense, but really I think, and its just my thoughts, what is confusing is the difference between being AGGRESSIVE and being blatantly Sexually EXPLICIT. An aggressive woman is one who, walks up to me, says her piece, and then saunters off with or without me or my information. And explicit woman is usually that drunken 50yr old divorcee at 2AM who is just grabbing everyone's junk as they pass by hoping someone will give her a nibble. The former is great and rare to encounter in today's world of online personas. The latter, well, yea, I just avoid like the plague just like everyone else.

But again, it really all depends on the context of the situation. And different strokes for different folks. my $.02

 

[knottygirl]

I'm aggressively seductive. I don't usually initiate first contact, but I will invite it.

 

[hardcollege4]

I love it, in my experience though when girls don't physically initiate, but do something seductive to make it irresistible that is incredibly hot. Like waiting in a very inviting position giving you the come hither look or opening her mouth for you ready to submit...

 

[Rox88]

Men fear sexually aggressive woman just like they fear any women who aren't shackled to the kitchen sink.

 

[LockedDarius]

I would love for a woman to be more aggressive in sexual matters. The women I've slept with made it feel more like I was humping a pile of pillows...they really didn't do anything other than lay there.

Hearing some of the sexcapades of other people, exaggerated or not, really makes me want more than that.

So I'd gladly accept a more sexually aggressive woman who contributes a little more than, as my friend put it one time, "a hole to masturbate into."

I also think this comes into play with sexually unfulfilled women. If all you do is lay there and take it, you have no right to complain. Help out, make it more pleasurable for both people.

 

[MILFSauce]

I love it, in my experience though when girls don't physically initiate, but do something seductive to make it irresistible that is incredibly hot. Like waiting in a very inviting position giving you the come hither look or opening her mouth for you ready to submit...

Good point. I once dated a man who told me he wished I was more aggressive, and that I would initiate sex more often.

As much as I love sex, I'm really not comfortable being the initiator, except on rare occasions when I'm in just the right mood. However, I decided to force myself to try it for a while. To make a short story shorter, I didn't really like it, and I don't think he did, either, despite what he said.

On the other hand, I don't necessarily want to wait around for a man to decide to make a move, either. And as one of you pointed out above, it's not fair to expect a man to read my mind.

So in the end I just decided to try and make my signals more obvious. When I'm with a man that I'm interested in sexually, I touch him more often, and in more suggestive places, like his leg or his neck. I press my breasts against his arm. I smile at him more. I pay closer attention to him when he's talking.

If he doesn't get the message after all that, he's pretty clueless.

 

[October46]

How do you men feel about women who are sexually aggressive and openly express their desire for sex? Do you like it? Or do you prefer to be the one to make the first move?

Ladies, how do you feel about being sexually aggressive? Do you like being the one to initiate sex? Will you approach a man you don't know? Would you ask him out? And if it's a man you know and have never gone to bed with, but now you want to, will you make the first move to get him into bed?

I love aggressive woman, they are such a turn on!

 

[Rox88]

Why is it then when women are in leading roles in politics, religion, business and society, they cop no end of crap from the opposite sex but looks like you don't mind if it's only in the sex dept they can play the lead role..

Why am I not surprised.....

 

[sereneone4u]

I'm aggressively seductive. I don't usually initiate first contact, but I will invite it.

This

 

[twister947]

I'm a submissive male. I don't just like an aggressive woman, I need one.

 

[wrant]

Because some men don't have the balls t accept women as their intellectual equals. Those men are morons.... lol

 

[MILFSauce]

I'm aggressively seductive. I don't usually initiate first contact, but I will invite it.

I love the graphic in your signature

 

[xrxomcyd]

Good point. I once dated a man who told me he wished I was more aggressive, and that I would initiate sex more often.

As much as I love sex, I'm really not comfortable being the initiator, except on rare occasions when I'm in just the right mood. However, I decided to force myself to try it for a while. To make a short story shorter, I didn't really like it, and I don't think he did, either, despite what he said.

On the other hand, I don't necessarily want to wait around for a man to decide to make a move, either. And as one of you pointed out above, it's not fair to expect a man to read my mind.

So in the end I just decided to try and make my signals more obvious. When I'm with a man that I'm interested in sexually, I touch him more often, and in more suggestive places, like his leg or his neck. I press my breasts against his arm. I smile at him more. I pay closer attention to him when he's talking.

If he doesn't get the message after all that, he's pretty clueless.

I tend to be clueless. I also prefer not to be the initiator, because I do not like to be rebuffed or to make my girlfriend feel that because I am in the mood, she has to go with it. I tend to be ready to go at almost any time (as many guys are), so it is a matter of waiting for the green light.

Like you said, it is rarely as simple as her saying "Sex now?", or greeting me at the door in lingerie. When it is, great. Otherwise, I usually tend initiate every night. And sometimes, right after lunch.

I actually like when my girlfriend is "aggressive" during sex as well. This does not have to be her on top or any D/s arrangement, but simply being explicit with what she wants in the moment. "Slow down a bit", "Flip me over", "Play with my tits", "Deeper, harder"; great words to hear. :~) And yes, I do try to do the same, but since I am already getting what I want, I usually have a little less to say.

 

[MILFSauce]

Why is it then when women are in leading roles in politics, religion, business and society, they cop no end of crap from the opposite sex but looks like you don't mind if it's only in the sex dept they can play the lead role..

Why am I not surprised.....

I'm not exactly sure what point you're making. Can you explain it to me?

I don't think taking a certain role in the sex act is directly comparable to taking roles in society. One is based to a significant extent on biology and anatomy, the other isn't. I'm perfectly happy letting my sex partner take the lead ... most of the time ... he's the penetrator, I'm the penetrated. That's ok with me.

But that's quite different from an assumption that a woman can't be a leader in society.

 

[LockedDarius]

I'm a submissive male. I don't just like an aggressive woman, I need one.

I also fit into this a bit. I wouldn't go as far to say I'm "submissive," but I am a very neutral personality. I think my ideal is to have a very equal relationship, whether its who initiates sex or any other part of the relationship.

 

[knottygirl]

I love the graphic in your signature

Thanks!

 

[Leigh81]

I was very vanilla and only ever been with just my husband. I'd say I was more submissive for lack of experience. When my husband brought up sharing me and cuckolding that's when things began to change. With him turning submissive I started feeling dominate and aggressive.
With my husband I'm really aggressive with him. It has really opened up other parts of my life besides just sexual.
My husband wouldn't know what to do if I wasn't giving him instructions. I get my pussy eaten as often as I want. Part of his duty as a little cuck boy.
He also always wanted to try eating his own cum. He could never achieve this because as soon as he climaxed he lost interest and it wasn't arousing then.
Well, when the cuckolding started that was the first problem I fixed. I'd let him cum in my mouth and I would kiss it back to him in a very long kiss. Now no matter when he cums, he eats it whether it's with me or with him masterbating.
He's also taken care of his curiosity for sucking another mans cock. He loves sucking cock and having his suck buddy feed him. I also have a lover. However he isn't really into the whole bi cuckold thing, but my husband cleans me when I come home. He gets more cum than most girls.
That is what I do as a sexually aggressive woman. I'm in control and he prefers that.

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[Daniel_Hart]

Love it!

A woman who knows what she wants and is willing to ask is a perfectly lovely situation. I have had gfs in the past who were very in touch with their sexuality and others who were not. Both can be fun in their own way. One is playing the teacher, the other is holding on for the ride where ever that may lead....

 

[Helen46]

I think "aggressive" is quite a loaded, negative term. What we're really taking about is women who are confident in themselves and have the self-assurance to initiate matters. I find that sort of assertiveness very attractive, both as a bi woman and also as someone with submissive tendencies. I might hint at what I want to a partner, but I prefer if they make the first move. Perhaps I'm just lazy!

 

[MILFSauce]

I think "aggressive" is quite a loaded, negative term. What we're really taking about is women who are confident in themselves and have the self-assurance to initiate matters. I find that sort of assertiveness very attractive, both as a bi woman and also as someone with submissive tendencies. I might hint at what I want to a partner, but I prefer if they make the first move. Perhaps I'm just lazy!

Yes, I prefer they make the first move too. But I want to send signals as to what's on my mind. I see that as my way to be "aggressive". Or maybe you're right that "assertive" is a better word. I want to fine-tune my signals so that they're unmistakable, yet not overly gauche. I want to convey the message that I'm ready to be fucked, but in a classy way.