sexualized Work place

[agedmac]

I've mentioned this elsewhere, but I'm working on an idea but haven't gotten very far with it.

I want to start a simple story (probably mature for female, younger for male) of a woman who where the work environment with a younger guy goes from 'normal' to 'sexualized' very slowly. Maybe he's a young guy with a few open relationships; she's a married woman raised fairly conservatively. For a long time (maybe even a couple of years) they work around each other and become friends but there just a few things that begin to 'happen' to make things more sexualized at work.

Like what?

I start with a simple idea that she drops something one day, bends over to pick it up and he is walking by and sees her panties on display. Maybe that had happened before but this time, she sees him and realizes what happened and she blushes and he sees her blush.

Maybe as simple as that. Ladies, have you had that experience? Something completely innocent that you and your fellow worker suddenly both turn it into something sexual?

 

[Fantasies_only]

I've mentioned this elsewhere, but I'm working on an idea but haven't gotten very far with it.

I want to start a simple story (probably mature for female, younger for male) of a woman who where the work environment with a younger guy goes from 'normal' to 'sexualized' very slowly. Maybe he's a young guy with a few open relationships; she's a married woman raised fairly conservatively. For a long time (maybe even a couple of years) they work around each other and become friends but there just a few things that begin to 'happen' to make things more sexualized at work.

Like what?

I start with a simple idea that she drops something one day, bends over to pick it up and he is walking by and sees her panties on display. Maybe that had happened before but this time, she sees him and realizes what happened and she blushes and he sees her blush.

Maybe as simple as that. Ladies, have you had that experience? Something completely innocent that you and your fellow worker suddenly both turn it into something sexual?

Although I'm not a woman (don't know if you're new here) I'm sure it happens all the time, but stories on this site tend to rush things, and in this scenario you would have to take it slow, from flirting to sexual teasing, from that to romancing, from that to subtle intimate dating, from that to a long relationship, only then can sexual activity take place (arousing fetishes not sex yet).

 

[agedmac]

well I don't like to rush things, and haven't done so in my stories on Lit so far..don't see why I would on this one. In fact if I get a complaint on my writing (other than the @##oles who just want to attack any story of a woman enjoying herself with someone other than her mate) is that I tend to leave things hanging sometimes...

 

[Roamme]

One way

I had a job like that. I worked as a combinator (I made the insides of locks and made keys to match). All of us combinators are women (most older). We would forget men were around sometimes and just girl talk. A lot of the older women were perverted. They got to turning a lot of what we did and said into perverted talk. If I would slip and say, "It's stuck”, they might respond, "Well did you try to LU BRI CATE IT?" It was a normal reply except how they said it. Nothing too bad but a lot of sarcasm and over dramatization. Well all of the supply and shipping people are men and would sometimes over hear or walk in on us talking. We liked to get them to blush sometimes.

Talking with them is how I found out about "The Green Door" in Las Vegas and what they do in there. One of the women went and told us about it. The Green door and swinging became a topic for a month. We had been talking about everyone in the building before so trying to figure out who else might have gone or want to go was fun for us.

I don't work there anymore and now I live in Las Vegas but I still haven't gone to the Green Door yet. I was married for a while and without children and left after I got pregnant. Anyways, the point is we can get just as perverted as men but we (our group) liked to do it at our own pace. I think your story might be more believable to me if we women start the perverted talking. This way we won’t get turned off too fast.

Maybe we tease a cute guy with accusation and innuendo, he teases back, and then it starts like you want and slowly gets to be more. It was grinding, repetitive and competitive work but I liked working there because of the others there. It was the first place I ever worked where I was around perverted women. I thought about more perverted stuff there than ever before anywhere. I had been told women had all kinds of fantasies but had never been around other women that talked about things like that before. They even admitted what they had tried or might like to do. We talked about everything. Working there got me to think and talk about things I never expected to even think about.

Anyways, I think that was the kind of work that might set your kind of story up. We women get comfortable and a cute young guy hears, is teased and then starts to tease back and eventually your couple hooks up.

RoamMe

 

[agedmac]

good point, Roamme. I see the story as a quiet one between a more mature woman and a younger man that work around each other though. I see your point though; wouldn't a group of gals who like to tease and talk sex then end up 'ganging up' a bit on one younger guy (especially if they can get him to blush a bit)...lol..sounds like a whole other story, maybe a little dominant female/sub male?

 

[Deadwood]

Going slow is great and I love that style myself, but to really reel readers in, you really have to appeal to the,. When the topic is sex...well you kind of need sex pretty close to the beginning of the story.

So how can you do both? Flashbacks.

I found it to be a wonderful technique. It can be difficult to pull off, but when done correctly, you get a good sex scene right up front and then once the reader is drawn in, you can proceed with your slower paced lead up get your story line done quite well.

Just a technique that might work for you in this case...I am certainly not telling you how to write just offering a potential solution.

 

[Deadwood]

I worked as the only guy in the accountant section of a railroad a few years ago out of state. I was in safety, but the accountants were all women. One woman was my age (30) and despite being a very conservative, mid-west, tradional and professional office...I found out she loved anal sex.

How do you find out such powerful information.

We were discussing another woman who had a pretty bad reputation for liking the engineers and conductors that slipped through the office needing this or that. Since she liked to gossip, she came to me looking for the male stories guys will say about girls they have been with. I mentioned that I heard this other person "loved anal sex", and that was when she innocently said, "well so do I."

It was so off the cuff it was unbelievable. Perhaps if you used a similar conversation...one where they are gossiping about a women in the mail room or something...you could make the conversation work.

I am thinking a reply like, "that's so dirty, but you know I've often wondered what that would feel like."

 

[JRaven]

One possible way to work in extra sex outside the story line is the young guy and his wife.

The older women ask him point blank, "does your wife give you as good a blowjob as Betsy here can give?" Betsy blushes only a little as she looks up at Young Guy and licks her lips. Young Guy stammers, "um... well... they get the job done."

His wife had never gone down on him. But that night, he tries to get her to suck him off. She's not getting anywhere with it and they end up screwing.

Weeks later, the older women ask him, "you've done anal, haven't you?" He tries to get his wife to do anal that night.

Maybe its the same older woman asking him these things. And it's her that he developes the relationship with.

Just my thoughts,
Jenny

 

[Fantasies_only]

Going slow is great and I love that style myself, but to really reel readers in, you really have to appeal to the,. When the topic is sex...well you kind of need sex pretty close to the beginning of the story.

So how can you do both? Flashbacks.

I found it to be a wonderful technique. It can be difficult to pull off, but when done correctly, you get a good sex scene right up front and then once the reader is drawn in, you can proceed with your slower paced lead up get your story line done quite well.

Just a technique that might work for you in this case...I am certainly not telling you how to write just offering a potential solution.

You're right.
I do like to read sex early, but I like a good buildup too.

The thing about flashbacks is it's too easy to screw them up.
If the story begins "She threw me down on the desk, and started ripping off my clothes, yada-yada-yada..."
It not only doesn't turn me on, but turns me off and I stop reading it altogether.

Let's say the story starts off with a break up, and it's from the point of view of everything leading up to it (eg: Forrest Gump), it would be a little better then.
Better still:
"I remember in her wilder days she was a real handful and very horny. We worked in the same office and kept giving each other winks and cheeky grins.
After work when everyone left, she thew me down on the desk and started ripping off my clothes like a wild women!"
Now wasn't the second way much hotter than the first?

One possible way to work in extra sex outside the story line is the young guy and his wife.

The older women ask him point blank, "does your wife give you as good a blowjob as Betsy here can give?" Betsy blushes only a little as she looks up at Young Guy and licks her lips. Young Guy stammers, "um... well... they get the job done."

His wife had never gone down on him. But that night, he tries to get her to suck him off. She's not getting anywhere with it and they end up screwing.

Weeks later, the older women ask him, "you've done anal, haven't you?" He tries to get his wife to do anal that night.

Maybe its the same older woman asking him these things. And it's her that he developes the relationship with.

Just my thoughts,
Jenny

Personally I would want the dialog a little more realistic.
Do people on the first date really talk about blowjobs and other graphic details?

 

[gringo91730]

Well I can tell you that working as the only guy in a department filled with women most between 30 and 60 that as long as the guy is fine with all the girl talk you can find out a lot of information. I work in a hospital and I have only worked there about two months and I am the only guy in the department of 10 women and it didn't take long for them to start saying who was sleeping with who, what each of them liked in bed or what they wished men would do to them in bed. You get a group of women together they can be way more perverted than men.

I would say the woman or group of women should start the dirty talk so that they won't be surprised or turned off when the guy starts saying things. If you have the guy blush or get a little embarrassed from hearing the women talk like that it will only encourage the women to do it more.

 

[Englandboy2]

I worked with a girl who was really shy and quiet. Or so it seemed. I was in a pub one night and I saw her out with her mates. It was hard to believe it was the same girl. She looked like a total slut. It turned out she was a real party animal, and nothing like the way she appeared at work. When she finally came out of her shell at work, all she talked about was how many cocks she'd had over the weekend, what positions she'd been in, etc.

In your story, maybe the guy thinks the woman he works with is just a happily-married, middle-aged woman. Until he's out one night and sees her in an alley, sucking the cocks of a small group of men. Maybe she's got her tits out. Anyway, after that, he starts seeing her in a new light, and things go from there.

 

[sexyhornymom]

Perhaps it all starts innocently. As suggested, she bends down to pick something up and he sees up her skirt. They are both embarrassed and to avoid a more awkward atmosphere she starts flirting with him. He eventually flirts back. They're both happily married / in relationship and it just starts out as innocent fun.

As it goes on, they start thinking about the other more and more (like fantasising about the other whenever he or she has sex with their partner or even masturbating).

One day, one of them makes the move and they end up in bed having mind blowing sex lol

 

[Fantasies_only]

Perhaps it all starts innocently. As suggested, she bends down to pick something up and he sees up her skirt. They are both embarrassed and to avoid a more awkward atmosphere she starts flirting with him. He eventually flirts back. They're both happily married / in relationship and it just starts out as innocent fun.

As it goes on, they start thinking about the other more and more (like fantasising about the other whenever he or she has sex with their partner or even masturbating).

One day, one of them makes the move and they end up in bed having mind blowing sex lol

Great, just what I was thinking, except for the mind blowing sex.
Remember outside the office they are virtual strangers when it comes to their personal lives.

I was thinking a few shared fantasies, dressup foreplay, daring (almost public) fetishes.
I don't think they would right away jump in bed together.

 

[Deadwood]

You misunderstood what I was saying regarding the flashbacks. You don't need to start with sex immediately, because as you noted, it is a huge turn-off, but you turn people off too if they read 200 paragraphs without sex.

If I have a story idea that is well plotted, but will take a bit before the sex begins, then I look at flashbacks as a potential to get sex into my story earlier. My rule of thumb is to get a sex scene in within the first 3 pages of a Word document.

 

[sexyhornymom]

I didnt mean to imply they would jump into bed straight away. Its a slow build up with mild flirting giving way to outright flirting and they only end up in bed after a few months of flirt-dating lol