Sexuality question?

[wheelchair27]

I have a sexuality question, how can a straight man lose his virginity if he is unable to have traditional sexual intercourse?

The reason i ask is because i am severely disabled and i physically can't have traditional sexual intercourse.

 

[Edensgarden]

I have a sexuality question, how can a straight man lose his virginity if he is unable to have traditional sexual intercourse?

Could you have untraditional sexual intercourse?

 

[subwannabe]

What is your technical definition of "losing your virginity"?

 

[jman1968]

Do you have feeling where you can "get it up"?
If so I would say a blow job or hand job would suffice as losing virginity.
If it has to be vaginal then she can get on top.

 

[Blase]

My first and probably best thought is that you should seek the help of a sex therapist. Perhaps surrogate therapy would provide a solution.

 

[sunandshadow]

For people who are anorgasmic, including non-disabled people, giving a partner an orgasm seems to be an acceptable substitute.

 

[Stella_Omega]

This is really helpful, I think;

 

[UrKillingMe]

I have a sexuality question, how can a straight man lose his virginity if he is unable to have traditional sexual intercourse?

The reason i ask is because i am severely disabled and i physically can't have traditional sexual intercourse.

Sexual arousal is controlled largely by the autonomic nervous system, so, yes.

 

[Erochic]

Yes!

I made an account just so I could answer this thread

I think that flow chart is a great way to look at it
If you and/or your partner are having sexual pleasure then you are having sex - no matter if the sex is not the traditional "penis in vagina" kind.

I had the most wonderful sexual relationship with a lovely man who was quadriplegic. He was paralysed from the neck down so there was no way he could could an erection or feel any sensation down there.

However, he was not paralysed from the neck up And oh my, what that man could do with his tongue!!
Also because he could feel sensation from the neck up, he could orgasm from having his neck kissed and caressed. And it was a really good intense orgasm

So maybe he couldn't get hard or ejaculate, but covered in my juices and moaning in orgasm I think he would have said that we definitely had sex

 

[photobuff56]

Apperntly he's not responding. But I have seen videos of people with cerabal palsy masturbating I on cam so not sure what his prob is.

 

[wheelchair27]

Thank you for all of your replies to his thread.

 

[JM100]

Hey there - A bit off the topic here but to know your disabled, I just wanted to say kudos to you for posting here! I know how hard it is for one to be open, but all I can say is, be yourself, who you are and go for what you want. The most important thing in life is to enjoy whatever it is your doing.