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MysticFlight_69

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I am copying this thread from another post I made. Just looking for feedback! :)

In the interests of exploring my own experiences vs. My deepest desires, I thought I would start this thread.

this can be about anything really, but, just to get it going...

In my life I have had one male & three females want to give me oral and that's all they wanted to do. Anybody else experience this? Or is this a preference for anybody here? Just curious!
 
I am copying this thread from another post I made. Just looking for feedback! :)

In the interests of exploring my own experiences vs. My deepest desires, I thought I would start this thread.

this can be about anything really, but, just to get it going...

In my life I have had one male & three females want to give me oral and that's all they wanted to do. Anybody else experience this? Or is this a preference for anybody here? Just curious!

Yes, I've had one partner like this...it was the best head I ever received.
 
In my life I have had one male & three females want to give me oral and that's all they wanted to do. Anybody else experience this? Or is this a preference for anybody here? Just curious!

I personally enjoy pleasuring a partner orally. Since I am limited to the number of orgasms I can enjoy in an evening and women are not; treating a lover to as many as she can bear is very exciting and enjoyable to me. Having a woman beg me to stop because she can't cum anymore - before we have sex - is a delightful thing ... :)
 
Yes

I personally enjoy pleasuring a partner orally. Since I am limited to the number of orgasms I can enjoy in an evening and women are not; treating a lover to as many as she can bear is very exciting and enjoyable to me. Having a woman beg me to stop because she can't cum anymore - before we have sex - is a delightful thing ... :)

Yes, but, sex must follow for me I think. It doesn't matter how many clitoral orgasms I receive, just not as satisfying!
 
Yes, but, sex must follow for me I think. It doesn't matter how many clitoral orgasms I receive, just not as satisfying!

Absolutely. However, In my experience, having several orgasms before sex does heighten the Lady's experience and satisfaction immensely ...
 
What about Tantric Sex? Anybody experience this IRL? :)

As far as Tantric sex is concerned, I did have two experiences with a lady of my acquaintance. It is an incredible feeling, a rush of energy that moves up the body from the root chakra. We felt the energy flow all the way to the heart chakra once and to the throat chakra on another occasion. Very powerful sensations indeed ...
 
Lucky You! :)

As far as Tantric sex is concerned, I did have two experiences with a lady of my acquaintance. It is an incredible feeling, a rush of energy that moves up the body from the root chakra. We felt the energy flow all the way to the heart chakra once and to the throat chakra on another occasion. Very powerful sensations indeed ...

Was she experienced - like a Dakini? Did she teach you? Or was this something you decided to try together? Would you seek it again?
 
Was she experienced - like a Dakini? Did she teach you? Or was this something you decided to try together? Would you seek it again?

We were both experienced in meditation techniques and quite well matched, so we decide to try to achieve a Tantric state, several times, with only two successes.

I would enjoy trying again, the feeling was quite extraordinary ...
 
We were both experienced in meditation techniques and quite well matched, so we decide to try to achieve a Tantric state, several times, with only two successes.
So it takes quite some training and a good match?
 
So it takes quite some training and a good match?

Yes, meditation training and some understanding of the Kundalini helps. As far as a match goes, it is a mental state, more than a physical one. Both times we achieved the energy flow were very relaxed and mentally in sync with each other ...
 
this is a preference for me. I love giving oral, but I love everything else as well and would never limit a partner to just that. Maybe in part it's because my wife rarely lets me go down on her, I think that's part of why I crave doing it so much.
 
Sadness...

this is a preference for me. I love giving oral, but I love everything else as well and would never limit a partner to just that. Maybe in part it's because my wife rarely lets me go down on her, I think that's part of why I crave doing it so much.

I have heard this before. I cannot imagine why a woman wouldn't let her mate go down on her. On the same note: I have never known a man not to want oral! :) LOL!
 
I have heard this before. I cannot imagine why a woman wouldn't let her mate go down on her. On the same note: I have never known a man not to want oral! :) LOL!

True indeed. However, in my experience, it's a rare woman enjoys giving more than receiving ... :)
 
It should be equal - to keep the energy positive! Don't you think? :)

There are special times when one should pay more attention to the other, such as an evening devoted solely to his or her pleasure. Overall though, it should be mutually pleasurable and reciprocal ...
 
There are special times when one should pay more attention to the other, such as an evening devoted solely to his or her pleasure. Overall though, it should be mutually pleasurable and reciprocal ...

True! There are times when one partner may need or want more special attention. Or, you may wish to give that attention as a gift! But, ultimately, there should be Balance! :rose:
 
What about your 1st time? :)

How old? Positive experience? Etc. :)

me: 15 & yes :)
I have never been focused on receiving oral from a partner, however, I generally love to perform for her. There have been two occasions when I've been comfortable/relaxed enough with a woman thus enabling me to climax thoroughly and with absolute abandon strictly from her oral stimulation's. I attribute this to a mutually established feeling of safety between us as both friends and lovers...or, a commonly shared psycho sexual awareness of one and other stemming from a genuine appreciation and compassion.

me: 21st birthday, & nothing to write home about.
 
May I ask?

I have never been focused on receiving oral from a partner, however, I generally love to perform for her. There have been two occasions when I've been comfortable/relaxed enough with a woman thus enabling me to climax thoroughly and with absolute abandon strictly from her oral stimulation's. I attribute this to a mutually established feeling of safety between us as both friends and lovers...or, a commonly shared psycho sexual awareness of one and other stemming from a genuine appreciation and compassion.

me: 21st birthday, & nothing to write home about.

May I ask, did you ever have a negative experience? Or do you just truly not care for it?
 
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