Sexual Disorders

[SweetCandy22]

Hello Everyone!

Yes, Candy has finally decided to start her own thread. I hope that this will get me a little more involved with the community.
I was wondering if any of you out there have had a sexual disorder and perhaps we can discuss it on this thread. I had a sexual disorder that just popped up a couple of weeks ago after I thought I was completely healed.
I used to have a problem with being very easy to orgasm, that is to the point of where I couldn't stop. Every inch of my body was very easy to orgasm, sometimes. There would be times when I couldn't move, because even the movement of my clothing against my skin caused me to orgasm. It was embarssing because there would be times when I was just sitting down and someone would touch my shoulder friendly-like and I would be struggling to keep my moaning inside. It seemed that whenever I was very stressed, I would have continual orgasms and sometimes even when I wasn't.
I finally decided that I need to change my outlook on sex. Being the christian that I am, I didn't have very positive ideas about sex. So I began reading and learning and praying. God showed me to this book that changed my life and began accepting my sexual urges for what they are, biologically natural. That was when my sexual disorder seemed to be gone. I was incredibly happy, thinking that my life would be great from now on. I still had the ability to have mental orgasms- which are INCREDIBLE and I could still easily orgasm, but now it just need a little bit of concentration.
After breaking up with my boyfriend, because he couldn't administer spankings to me- they kind of came back up again. I was in Bible study, trembling from the beginning effects! Luckily no one noticed, but now I'm beginning to worry if I need to accept the submissive side of me in order to be rid of this disorder once more.

Thoughts, comments, suggestions?

Thanks guys!

 

[Kajira Callista]

doesn't sound like a disorder to me *shrug*

 

[SweetCandy22]

doesn't sound like a disorder to me *shrug*

It is! Trust me! I couldn't control them. I would be orgasming in public and I couldn't stop. If your unable to control your own body, that's certaintly not normal...is it? It was a very embarssing thing to deal with and I couldn't really speak to anyone about it.

 

[justatramp]

Wonderful

As I said you'll find many here that want to talk about anything...I think you'll find many that wish to talk about this. If not we will later...I hope you find what you are looking for....

 

[catalina_francisco]

Doesn't sound real to me.

Catalina

 

[graceanne]

Doesn't sound real to me.

Catalina

I'm glad I'm not the only one.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

I'm glad I'm not the only one.

Fuck, me too.

The whole religion thing...

 

[catalina_francisco]

I'm glad I'm not the only one.

LOL. maybe I am going through one of my cynical phases I used to be famous for many moons ago, but I am finding a lot of difficulty in believing a good many posts here of late....think some very bored people have discovered our board and want us to be their entertainment. I know what they can do with that but I am too polite to say it.http://www.smilies4you.de/content/sonstige/c90.gif

Catalina http://www.smilies4you.de/content/smileypics/b19.gif

 

[SweetCandy22]

You don't believe it? It's true! Why would I lie about something like this? It's a curse that has plaqued me for months! My best friend has seen the effects.

I don't know what I could say to make you guys believe me... I guess I assumed that you guys could trust me, but maybe not.

I could answer any questions that you have it about it, but it's true!

My feelings are really hurt. I'm going to take a long shower and cry while listening to gospel songs...

 

[Ms_Lilith]

My feelings are really hurt. I'm going to take a long shower and cry while listening to gospel songs...

That. That right there. That's why *I* don't believe you. The orgasm thing, yeah, far-fetched, but hell, you might have a brain or nervous disorder. ANYTHING is possible.

But THAT. That religious bullshit you're throwing in there with your hurt feelings and orgasm-prone body. That's just bunk.

FFS, why do you even care what a bunch of strangers think anyway? If you know it's true, then let it lie. *shrug*

 

[graceanne]

The whole thing together makes me suspicious. I guess it's possible that she's got some weird disorder. And it's possible she's a Christian. But the whole melodramatic way she's put everything together make me suspicious.

But I'm a suspicious person. I expect people to be trying to pull the wool over my eyes. Especially here, where it happens to often. If I'm wrong I sincerely apologize. I've just never heard of something like this.

 

[catalina_francisco]

You don't believe it? It's true! Why would I lie about something like this? It's a curse that has plaqued me for months! My best friend has seen the effects.

I don't know what I could say to make you guys believe me... I guess I assumed that you guys could trust me, but maybe not.

I could answer any questions that you have it about it, but it's true!

My feelings are really hurt. I'm going to take a long shower and cry while listening to gospel songs...

Well perhaps gospel songs are what you are needing. Hmmm, I once orgasmed to a Chris Isaak riff while caught in a traffic jam, but that was a rarity and was not without my being hot in the first place....not to mention music can do a good many things to me. I think what you are finding is we have been the recipient of many who post in the manner you have, but when you live it on a fairly regular basis you begin to pick the genuine from the entertainment minded posts. I have found people here are rarely off the mark. One of the best signs for many of us are the poster who appears out of nowhere, posts contradictory posts as you have (EG: saying in a former post you have had problems orgasming in the past but here saying the opposite....saying in other posts you have no history with D/s and in others saying you have been into aspects of it...not to mention the 'I am a virgin' bit). It just does not add up as a combined picture. Maybe you are for real but my advice is to post real and not contradictory otherwise you get written off quick and find it difficult to gain others trust from that point forward.

Catalina

 

[SweetCandy22]

(EG: saying in a former post you have had problems orgasming in the past but here saying the opposite....saying in other posts you have no history with D/s and in others saying you have been into aspects of it...not to mention the 'I am a virgin' bit). It just does not add up as a combined picture. Maybe you are for real but my advice is to post real and not contradictory otherwise you get written off quick and find it difficult to gain others trust from that point forward.

Catalina

I didn't think I posted contradictory posts. I had problems orgasming when I was 15 years old...and that was only twice, after that- never again. I'm 22 years old now.

I don't really have any history with D/s, I just went to this party where this guy kind of manhandled me and it has brought d/s feelings up, but he never kissed me or saw any body part- he just bit me really hard, smacked my ass with a whip and pulled my hair. Which I consider to kind of be some aspects of the d/s relationship, but we weren't exactly D/s. Do you get what I'm saying here? Am I wrong in assuming this?

Perhaps I haven't been completely clear as to my circumstances, but everything that I have said is true. I try to be as realistic as possible.

It might have been my fault for not completely explaining, but this is my first time 'coming out' to all of these new experiences and I'm a bit shy in being incredibly detailed. Although I am a detail oriented person. I could give a full account of the party if intrested.

The sexual disorder that I had happened when I was about 17 and lasted until I was 20/21. It has nothing to do with an incident in which I was having trouble orgasming, completely different times.

My sincerest apologies if it looked to be that I was contradicting myself. Experiences that I had just popped into my head and I never thought them to be so different that I should explain the circumstances and such.

 

[SweetCandy22]

That. That right there. That's why *I* don't believe you. The orgasm thing, yeah, far-fetched, but hell, you might have a brain or nervous disorder. ANYTHING is possible.

But THAT. That religious bullshit you're throwing in there with your hurt feelings and orgasm-prone body. That's just bunk.

FFS, why do you even care what a bunch of strangers think anyway? If you know it's true, then let it lie. *shrug*

Why do I care what a bunch of strangers think? I guess because you guys seem to be so odd, so different from the norm. I consider myself very odd as well and I kind of hoped that I could be accepted into your community. I don't really have anyone that I can speak about these odd cravings, and I guess I thought you guys would understand.

I'm a sensitive person and yes, a little melodramatic- I tend to exagerate my emotions a lot and I feel rejection easily. *shrug*

 

[SweetCandy22]

But I'm a suspicious person. I expect people to be trying to pull the wool over my eyes. Especially here, where it happens to often. If I'm wrong I sincerely apologize. I've just never heard of something like this.

I accept your apology sincerely, I over reacted. It just took me a lot of courage to put myself out there and when I didn't recieve a positive response I wanted to leave the board completely. Immature, I know...but I'm a sensitive soul, sadly.

I understand that you have never heard of such a disorder. I've looked everywhere for information, in books on the internet. I even allowed this guy to manipulate me because he claimed that he had information about it but it turned out that he was just using. That's whole other story, though...

I finally got the courage to tell my therapist about it, she thinks it has to do with the sexual abuse that I endured. She says that I'm 'sexually confused' and need to go to counseling. She's also a human sexuality teacher, so who would know even more about such things?

 

[O'Mac]

It is! Trust me! I couldn't control them. I would be orgasming in public and I couldn't stop. If your unable to control your own body, that's certaintly not normal...is it? It was a very embarssing thing to deal with and I couldn't really speak to anyone about it.

Actually, my girlfriend had the same sort of affliction for a couple months quite a few years back. It was not so much a sexual disorder that many would assume, but rather was due to some faulty wiring in the nervous system brought on by a hormonal imbalance. Apparently the use of some prescription drugs (especially allergy medicines) can cause these effects as well. I wasn't around to see first-hand the effects, but I can certainly believe it to be a rather problematic condition.

Ask your doctor about it, it could lead to further health deterioration if left unchecked.

As an aside, I've never orgasmed to any gospel music I've heard.

 

[SweetCandy22]

As an aside, I've never orgasmed to any gospel music I've heard.

LOL! I wasn't taking a shower to orgasm, silly! I just needed to hear about God, that's all. *giggles*

 

[shy slave]

I admit i got a little bored reading the thread and the 'cured by God' thing doesnt work for me but...

I have heard of a condition whereby the person continually orgasms.
As far as I remember its a neurological condition and can appear / disappear without warning.

I believe that condition exists, I don't recall having read any of sweetcandys other posts so I can't comment on whether other posts are credible or not.

There are many people on Lit who are commited Christians or who have strong faith beliefs.

If sweetcandy wants to believe God helped I have no quarrel with that either.

Its what she believes thats important not a bunch of internet people.

The only issue I have is the overall tone of the post.

God cures multiple orgasms, breaking up with a boyfriend because he couldn't administer spankings (why couldn't he ) and the slight naive, possibly sinister, question that seems to want to tie orgasms, the Bible, God, spankings and submission all together.

Just as Lit is international and multi-lingual its also multi-faith, not everyone has a belief or interest in God.

 

[O'Mac]

Just as Lit is international and multi-lingual its also multi-faith, not everyone has a belief or interest in God.

And they have a right to not take part in the discussion if they so wish.

 

[catalina_francisco]

We are not odd and though it doesn't bother me, you will find some are extremely offended to be referred to and judged as such...and 'norm' is a subjective and IME impossible variable to measure. Believe me, there are many of us here who are sensitive and with good reason....lol, those of us who are in the super senstive camp usually lurked a long time before we dared post, and have had more than one or two moments of anguish here despite the fact this is one of the friendliest and most welcoming boards encountered by most posters. Most of us have learned if you post you have to accept not everyone is going to agree with you, like you, or automatically believe all you say...that is something which is true in everyday living as well.....not everyone is going to like or agree with a particular person 100% of the time, and if it is someone unknown, they are going to be a bit reserved or wary in most cases until they see more of you and who you are over a period of time. It is also a good thing to remember when entering into relationships, though sometimes difficult.

As to the condition being real or not...that was not the question for me but more so whether the post was real as it just didn't all add up intuitively for me and seemed to begin in an 'hey look, I am here' style which always puts me on guard as to the genuineness and intention.

Catalina

 

[shy slave]

LOL. maybe I am going through one of my cynical phases I used to be famous for many moons ago, but I am finding a lot of difficulty in believing a good many posts here of late....think some very bored people have discovered our board and want us to be their entertainment. I know what they can do with that but I am too polite to say it.http://www.smilies4you.de/content/sonstige/c90.gif

Catalina http://www.smilies4you.de/content/smileypics/b19.gif

Oh Catalina the boards are making me so bored at the moment.

Some of the posts I just sit and think 'What the Fuck is this!'

Do you think school is out and there is a mix of school children, bored housewives and school teachers who have nothing better to do than hang around here?

Reading some of the rubbish makes me think the belong in the GB/Playground/Am Pic thread or just keep on moving to another site.

Sometimes I can be a bitch

 

[catalina_francisco]

Oh Catalina the boards are making me so bored at the moment.

Some of the posts I just sit and think 'What the Fuck is this!'

Do you think school is out and there is a mix of school children, bored housewives and school teachers who have nothing better to do than hang around here.

Reading some of the rubbish makes me think the belong in the GB/Playground/Am Pic thread or just keep moving to another site.

Sometimes I can be a bitch

LOL, never!!! I thought perhaps I was just getting old and too busy filtering through male subs which has been keeping me very busy and on my toes. Interesting though.

Catalina

 

[shy slave]

LOL, never!!! I thought perhaps I was just getting old and too busy filtering through male subs which has been keeping me very busy and on my toes. Interesting though.

Catalina

Thats the problem with r/l its often more entertaining than online

 

[incubus'_sub]

I'm glad that I'm not the only one to be fed up with the recent rubbish threads. Catalina & Shy are right, this one is not real, just another bored kid entertaining herself at our expense.

 

[catalina_francisco]

My advice would be to lose the virginity Sweet has said still remains, get some experience, bless men and/or women with those non-stop orgasms, then see what happens...could be just the problem of hanging on to it while wanting to explore sexually which is at play......sort of like things which make us orgasm in fantasy and masturbation but would horrify or make us physically ill in reality....you get to a point where you have to release the tension.

Catalina