Sexual Bucket List

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I am realizing more and more these days that many of the fantasies I have and things I'd like to try sexually are probably never going to happen. I love my wife, I really do, but she's just not very interested in anything other than missionary sex once a month. I can't stop thinking about all of the other things I'd like to be trying. At first I thought about posting this with the goal of possibly meeting up with somebody likeminded to cross some items off the list, but at this point I feel like even just chatting or emailing somebody about it would be a bonus. I've been a fan of this site for a long time but never really used these forums so I'm new to this. If you'd like to see my "list" or share your own please get in touch.
 
I am realizing more and more these days that many of the fantasies I have and things I'd like to try sexually are probably never going to happen. I love my wife, I really do, but she's just not very interested in anything other than missionary sex once a month. I can't stop thinking about all of the other things I'd like to be trying. At first I thought about posting this with the goal of possibly meeting up with somebody likeminded to cross some items off the list, but at this point I feel like even just chatting or emailing somebody about it would be a bonus. I've been a fan of this site for a long time but never really used these forums so I'm new to this. If you'd like to see my "list" or share your own please get in touch.

When in doubt, cheat. :)
 
it's called middle age. you're not the first to go through it.
 
I love my wife, I really do, but she's just not very interested in anything other than missionary sex once a month.

If your wife doesn't want to fuck you, what makes you think that anyone else would?
 
I am realizing more and more these days that many of the fantasies I have and things I'd like to try sexually are probably never going to happen. I love my wife, I really do, but she's just not very interested in anything other than missionary sex once a month. I can't stop thinking about all of the other things I'd like to be trying. At first I thought about posting this with the goal of possibly meeting up with somebody likeminded to cross some items off the list, but at this point I feel like even just chatting or emailing somebody about it would be a bonus. I've been a fan of this site for a long time but never really used these forums so I'm new to this. If you'd like to see my "list" or share your own please get in touch.

Just a suggestion , open yourself up a little more by adding some bio information in your signature panel. You've entered a global space that literally gets thousands of views a hour.

Be pro -active posting in threads that interest you , try the fetish and sexuality section. There's a lid for every pot , they come in all shapes and sizes. You would be be surprised at how many *lurkers ( those that don't post on a regular basis there are here. Just like the age range , it varies.

Best of luck , don't give up
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I am realizing more and more these days that many of the fantasies I have and things I'd like to try sexually are probably never going to happen. I love my wife, I really do, but she's just not very interested in anything other than missionary sex once a month. I can't stop thinking about all of the other things I'd like to be trying. At first I thought about posting this with the goal of possibly meeting up with somebody likeminded to cross some items off the list, but at this point I feel like even just chatting or emailing somebody about it would be a bonus. I've been a fan of this site for a long time but never really used these forums so I'm new to this. If you'd like to see my "list" or share your own please get in touch.


Get your wife to make a bucket list and then help her to fulfill it. If she starts having some fun then she might be willing to entertain some of your list. You should allow her to her to have some non sexual items on her list as well.
 
I would make a massive effort. Plan some romantic evenings. Offer to give her a nice massage. Treat her to a few little gifts. Do this for a few weeks and don't expect anything sexual in return.

Hopefully it will set off a spark again and she'll want to do something in return, but that shouldn't be your motivation or end goal. Your motivation needs to be putting a smile on her face.

If you're in a loving relationship and you are happy. Work on it. Like they say 'a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush'

If my sex life is lowering, these are the things I do to get it back on track.


I am realizing more and more these days that many of the fantasies I have and things I'd like to try sexually are probably never going to happen. I love my wife, I really do, but she's just not very interested in anything other than missionary sex once a month. I can't stop thinking about all of the other things I'd like to be trying. At first I thought about posting this with the goal of possibly meeting up with somebody likeminded to cross some items off the list, but at this point I feel like even just chatting or emailing somebody about it would be a bonus. I've been a fan of this site for a long time but never really used these forums so I'm new to this. If you'd like to see my "list" or share your own please get in touch.
 
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