sexual asphyxia

[Aphrodisiac]

Hello,

I don't know if this would fall under BDSM but maybe someone will have some information concerning this little topic.

I was just wondering about this and if anyone had any experience when it comes to this...

I tried to look it up on the net' but I could not find much info...

I know this can be dangerous and stuff ...

Just wondering if anyone has some information to share besides the "horror" stories I have been getting lately...

Thanks in advance....

 

[Ms_Lilith]

hi honey, I posted in the How To board. Just thought I'd let you know.

 

[Aphrodisiac]

hi honey, I posted in the How To board. Just thought I'd let you know.

Oh' thanks....

I posted it first in the " how to" but somehow not many replies and it was suggested I try over here...

 

[bunny bondage]

ooh ooh ooh, we just had this topic not long ago. can anyone remember the title and link her up?

 

[lark sparrow]

ooh ooh ooh, we just had this topic not long ago. can anyone remember the title and link her up?

Choking

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=131848&highlight=choking

 

[Aphrodisiac]

Thank you for the link.

 

[RisiaSkye]

Hello,

I don't know if this would fall under BDSM but maybe someone will have some information concerning this little topic.

I was just wondering about this and if anyone had any experience when it comes to this...

I tried to look it up on the net' but I could not find much info...

I know this can be dangerous and stuff ...

Just wondering if anyone has some information to share besides the "horror" stories I have been getting lately...

Thanks in advance....

Yeah...I play this way, mostly on the receving end.
I'm turned on by my own fear just as much as the other person's. And if they care about you, tapping into that level of control can be very scary.

It's very dangerous, though. Particularly because you can lower the oxygen level of the brain without even really realizing it, which can have long term effects. Proceed slowly.

A good way to start is using breath control exercises, where the Top/Dom/me uses commands to determine when the bottom/sub breathes. This can help warm you up for it, and expand your view a bit to determine whether you want to pursue it.

Be aware, though, that this is pretty much never SSC--so if something goes wrong, legally you're going to be fucked.

RS

 

[NemoAlia]

Yeah, Risia (unlike me!) can afford to lose a coupla brain cells.

I, on the other hand, plan to be first in line when an oxygen bar opens up in the midwest!

 

[P. B. Walker]

posted by RisiaSkye

A good way to start is using breath control exercises, where the Top/Dom/me uses commands to determine when the bottom/sub breathes. This can help warm you up for it, and expand your view a bit to determine whether you want to pursue it.

A good exercise for improving your lung capacity and breathing ability, plus puling more oxygen into your blood from each breath is swimming. Trust me. It is a great exercise for your cardiovascular system. Just swimming once a week for 15 mins to an hour will give you tons of improvement.

I would think having a very health cardiovascular system is key for this kind of play. If you have any sorts of breathing problems or heart problems, I would not engage in this kind of play without consulting a physican.

Just adding my two cents...

PBW

 

[sheath]

I've tried this once...

I've been on the receiving end, and the giving end, one time each.

Doing this to the man I was with was an incredible rush. He had a serious thing for being in control, and when he wasn't in control he got more turned on than ever. He was tied down really well. It took one hell of a lot of trust. We used scarves and the restriction was very light...just enough that he had to struggle to breathe. That was enough. He came like a rocket. After that, though...the loss of his control was so shattering to him that he didn't want to do it again. It would have been nice...

When he did it to me...I didn't like it all that much. I didn't have an orgasm. I trusted him, but the sensation was just not what I expected it to be...

We went very slowly. And we DID do the most important thing other than going slow...He had a necklace that he always wore, and when things got uncomfortable for me, I reached up and pulled the necklace. His response was to immediately loosen the scarf. Of course, I wasn't tied down. When he was tied, he held that same necklace in his hand. If he dropped it, playtime was over. He never did.

Hope this helps!

S.

 

[Aphrodisiac]

sheath,

Thank you for sharing ...

He is the one who wants to try it and would like me to help him out in this ... I am still a little unsure about this .. and we are going to talk about it some more and see what developes.

 

[UCE]

sheath,

Thank you for sharing ...

He is the one who wants to try it and would like me to help him out in this ... I am still a little unsure about this .. and we are going to talk about it some more and see what developes.

I hope you don't have a phobia in this area? Some cluastrophobics do, and for such people, it would be a horrendous experience.

 

[Aphrodisiac]

I hope you don't have a phobia in this area? Some cluastrophobics do, and for such people, it would be a horrendous experience.

No, I don't have a phobia and he is the one who wants me to help him ...