SexandSubmission.com

[Marquis]

It has been a time of much wankery recently and with it comes the inevitable spelunking of the darkest depths of the internet for precious pornography to assist me. It seems that the window of porn that is neither too disgusting nor too mundane is ever narrowing, with the former standard relaxing far slower than the latter standard becomes more strict.

I have found recently a provider of erotic audiovisual productions that I wish to share with you all. I find it most refreshing, not merely because it exemplifies the kind of female subjugation which I find a prerequisite to any kind of sexual enjoyment, but because it does so in a very PC way.

Now, PC is a word that has always been entirely inconsistent with sexual excitement in my mind. Not that political correctness isn't a useful thing in and of itself, just that it is generally at odds with my erectile function, something like metal in the microwave. The girls who can dilate their assholes wide enough to give birth through their rectums giving bashful gasps and wimpering crocodile tears as some life-support-system-for-a-cock sticks his member in her buttocks stopped doing it for me a long time ago. I have long preferred the amateur female, ocassionally caught off guard or even slightly frightened by the surge in possessive vigor of her fellow actor. Or perhaps the nastier and more sensual films made in Europe by men like Rocco Siffredi who actually know how to fuck a woman and not just thrust in a variety of preordained positions while the female poses like a centerfold for the wide-eyed, tongue gaping public who couldn't tell the difference between ground chuck and tenderloin fillet.

So what do those of us who don't smother our porn in ketchup watch when it's time to get the blood flowing in the right direction?

We watch Max Hardcore brutalize the bodies and egos of young failed models out in LA or we watch Dirty Sanchez and the bangbus crew verbally abuse young single moms right down here in South Florida.

All of these films come far closer to the primal instincts of sexuality than the gajillions of big tit, pretty face, 0 personality flicks sold to the general 9-5 public who need to use mandelay to see the end of a Jenna video. However, while these all pull at the core of my sexuality in a very basic way, I have yet to find media that truly exemplifies the Master/slave dynamic that comprises many of my more sophisticated fantasies.

SexandSubmission.com not only capitalizes on the guttural instincts that make D/s hot for me, but actually provides it in the medium of true BDSM scening, as scening should be done. Tense and visceral, while at the same time controlled and equitable. Never have I seen the trimmings and trappings of the BDSM subculture put to use so well. This is coming in a time where I was ready to abandon my latex and handcuffs for the more traditional fake smile and expensive cologne. Forego the search for women who are simply sexually sophisticated and settle for the stupid and impressionable.

Who knew SSC could be so hot?

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

That Stacy Burke has some bad fake boobs just an observation.

 

[Blushing Bottom]

I have found recently a provider of erotic audiovisual productions that I wish to share with you all. I find it most refreshing, not merely because it exemplifies the kind of female subjugation which I find a prerequisite to any kind of sexual enjoyment, but because it does so in a very PC way.

Now, PC is a word that has always been entirely inconsistent with sexual excitement in my mind. Not that political correctness isn't a useful thing in and of itself, just that it is generally at odds with my erectile function, something like metal in the microwave.

Who knew SSC could be so hot?

I thank-you so much for sharing.

It can be difficult for a girl to know which sites she may find not only pleasing but enlightening.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Dunno, resembles some of the sites I browse when bored and which get into a more extreme D/s than the very posed for type, but they all still come across as commercially designed to appeal and especially this one which has most of the subs all given a nice make up job with lovely styled hair etc., and lots of expensive props. While those things can be nice, I am much more into the real amateur types where the props if any are often homemade, inexpensive or substituted items, and the women and men do not look so well picked...IOW more average bodies, even out of shape ones, no plastic surgery, no make up, real bruising and blood, and what appears at least to be real scening for the most part.

It is difficult to find the real thing, and especially now so many commercial operators have jumped on the amateur wagon and start a site on that premise, but are far from amateur or even real D/s players. We were approached a couple of years back to make videos for a company which I have to believe were interested in presenting real people who were in the lifestyle....shame we accidentally deleted the contact as it is now something we might consider doing.

Catalina

 

[Marquis]

Dunno, resembles some of the sites I browse when bored and which get into a more extreme D/s than the very posed for type, but they all still come across as commercially designed to appeal and especially this one which has most of the subs all given a nice make up job with lovely styled hair etc., and lots of expensive props. While those things can be nice, I am much more into the real amateur types where the props if any are often homemade, inexpensive or substituted items, and the women and men do not look so well picked...IOW more average bodies, even out of shape ones, no plastic surgery, no make up, real bruising and blood, and what appears at least to be real scening for the most part.

It is difficult to find the real thing, and especially now so many commercial operators have jumped on the amateur wagon and start a site on that premise, but are far from amateur or even real D/s players. We were approached a couple of years back to make videos for a company which I have to believe were interested in presenting real people who were in the lifestyle....shame we accidentally deleted the contact as it is now something we might consider doing.

Catalina

The more extreme videos that I've seen tend not to include sex. I'd be intierested in seeing ones that do if you can recommend some.

These videos are certainly not that extreme, but I'm not into the ultra-hardcore stuff regardless. Gimme a pretty smile and nice tits over blood and bruising any day.

 

[m wisdom]

From what I can see on the preview part, it looks like they might have some good material.

Those of you that have a membership, what is the quality off the material?
I would hate to pay $20 to find that the 529movies they say they have are 10sec clips

 

[Marquis]

I don't have a membership, but I can tell you that the clips are not 10 seconds long.

Probably worth the money, if you care to spend money on things like that.

 

[shaymless]

membership

I have a membership and the movies vary between 25 and 40 minutes long and they are downloadable as well as streamable (is that a word?), although you have to download in pieces.

There's about 3 minutes at the beginning of each with a discussion of limits and likes and dislikes. Since it's a new site for this company, there are only 20-ish "movies" right now, but they've been updating more frequently and occasionally toss in a bonus update.

shay

 

[greenmands]

To me, it looks very similar to wiredpussy.com, hogtied.com, etc from the BDSM Cafe.

 

[m wisdom]

I have a membership and the movies vary between 25 and 40 minutes long and they are downloadable as well as streamable (is that a word?), although you have to download in pieces.

There's about 3 minutes at the beginning of each with a discussion of limits and likes and dislikes. Since it's a new site for this company, there are only 20-ish "movies" right now, but they've been updating more frequently and occasionally toss in a bonus update.

shay

Thanks
How is the quality of the movies? DVD or free internet porn quality

 

[m wisdom]

To me, it looks very similar to wiredpussy.com, hogtied.com, etc from the BDSM Cafe.

It could because it's the same company behind all those sites

 

[Xelebes]

*bangs on gong*

 

[Quint]

To me, it looks very similar to wiredpussy.com, hogtied.com, etc from the BDSM Cafe.

They apparently are sister sites; they advertise for them on the main page.

I'm the most intrigued by their buddy waterbondage.com. Girls getting sprayed and smacked is definitely sexy in my book.

 

[sexslut]

Pc?

My friends and I have had several conversations on the PCness of the various SexandSubmission sites you have refered to. I don't like the first three minutes and the last when they are goin' on about how much they like or liked the things their gonna do or have done or if they don't want something. I'm paying for it, shut-up already. It breaks my suspension of disbelief. It's really too much like negotiation. My master would not ask me if I wanted to do something. He would know what is best and what I need. I think those minutes are pandering to people who do not understand and probably should not be watching...My bf likes that part though. Go figure.

 

[catalina_francisco]

They apparently are sister sites; they advertise for them on the main page.

I'm the most intrigued by their buddy waterbondage.com. Girls getting sprayed and smacked is definitely sexy in my book.

That explains why I saw a distinct similarity with the sets etc., and like you, I like lots I have seen on waterbondage.com. LOL, give me some good old fashioned brutality anyday.

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

The more extreme videos that I've seen tend not to include sex. I'd be intierested in seeing ones that do if you can recommend some.

These videos are certainly not that extreme, but I'm not into the ultra-hardcore stuff regardless. Gimme a pretty smile and nice tits over blood and bruising any day.

Have seen some that do include sex and some that don't, but usually hint at it occuring at some point after the tape finishes. A big part of them tends to be SM, humiliation and degradation. Our too few collection are still boxed somewhere and not of the higher end quality, but still manage to give a hint of good things to come. Somewhere down the track I wouldn't mind investing in some of the better ones.As to nice tits and a pretty smile....hmmm, well like the tits if they are natural and the smile is OK if it looks about to be wiped into the next week.

Catalina

 

[greenmands]

I may have to join one of those sites then.

 

[lne_iii]

Hogtied is the most intriguing to me, as I don't think I'll ever have the paitience or the confidence to learn to rig like they do.

Or be as brutal and gung ho as they do.

 

[DVS]

I'm a member of whippedass.com, which is a sister site of sexandsubmission. When S&S started, we were given a freebie and asked to evaluate how we thought the site would be accepted.

Personally, I think all of the sites, whippedass, sexandsubmiision and the several others are pretty good quality sites. Although I stopped my membership to wiredpussy.com, becuse I didn't think they provided updates often enough.

Although whippedass is good, I am thinking of switching to hogtied.com, if the price is right. I enjoy certain models/actresses, and to get the vids I'm wanting, I have to become a member. I do hate being picky, but I am. And, I can't afford being a member of more than one site, so I would be forced to withdraw from one to join the other.

Right now, I pay $45 for three months of whippedass and they have updates every Friday and every other Tuesday. The shoots are always at least 20 minutes in length and you can watch it in total, online. They also provide the shoot cut up in scenes for you to download in realplayer or windows media player format.

Yes, it really needs a fast internet connection, if you want to download. They have settings for slow connections, if all you want to do is view online. They also provide pictures of the shoots, if that's your thing.

I would like to be a member of sexandsubmission, but I tend to prefer the more kinky type of woman. Although what we were shown was very good, in both quality and kink, there are just too many other sites in the group that still draw my interest more. I am intrigued, though, that I understand the shoots are based on the woamn's sexual fantasies and they try to create them for her. I do think that is an intersting idea for a site.

With whippedass, it's all fem on fem. They stopped any male Doms about a year ago. I do enjoy watching women submit to women in different scenarios. Who knows better what causes a woman pain than another woman? I even seem to prefer watching women on women over a male dominating a woman. Now, don't get me wrong...I enjoy seeing a woman dominated, be it by male or female, but with whippedass, you get to see two naked women and that seems to be double the fun, depending on what they do.

As for quality, we are requested to critic the shoots for any flaws we see, kinks we prefer or even those we see them show too often. They will even provide your kink, if it's within the realm of their means.

The model/actress flow is mostly newbies being Dommed by one of a crew of regular Dommes. That crew sometimes changes, and there are some who have moved to other of the sister sites, that I wish would return. But, times change, and we all have to deal with it.

Whippedass deals with a lot of different kinks, but they do seem to revolve around what the members request. OTK spanking, flogging, some canes, gaggs (dildo and ball gags), foot worship, face sitting, rimming, bondage and anal and vaginal sex with strap-ons. Sometimes the bondage is damn good, and sometimes it's kind of lame.

I've enhoyed some of the bondage rigging of recent shoots. One girl was bound by her shoulders, from the ceiling, her arms behind her back. She was just above a padded table where the Domme fucked her ass that way. That particular shoot had two Dommes, and they swung this girl around and used her back and forth.

There have been several sandwich scenes where one Domme is in back fucking her ass and another in front fuckng her mouth. I enjoy that, because I'm a perv.

It's all just like anything else. Sometimes it's good, sometimes it's OK. But, every so often, they have a shoot that is fucking fantasic and it makes up for all of the lame stuff. Nobody really knows when something is going to be good. A lot of it is the chemstry between the two actresses and what happens in the shoot, the scenario and setting, and the acting, if any.

Why am I going on and on about whippedass.com? Sexandsubmission is a sister site, run by the same people, so I would assume that because it is run by the same people, it would be the same good quality productions. And, when I was a member of wiredpussy.com, that was good, too. Personally, I think there are enough of the sites within this group of sister sites that you can find one you like.

All of them tend to have a little of each kink mixted in with whatever the basic of the site is. I thiink sexandsubmission could turn out to be a pretty good site. After all, it's only been in business for a few months, while some of the other sister sites have been in business for a few years.

 

[Marquis]

They fuck on whippedass.com? I had no idea, do they fuck on hogtied?

 

[Netzach]

I believe they fuck on whippedass, wiredpussy, fuckingmachines (with machines) and Kim Wylde gets REALLY nastydirty with the guys on meninpain.com. It's hot.

I'm not much for mixing sex with my SM, it's kind of superfluous for me. I'm more of a seriousbondage.com or house of gord kind of freak, I like lots and lots and lots of improbable gear and that space alien look.

 

[Marquis]

My friends and I have had several conversations on the PCness of the various SexandSubmission sites you have refered to. I don't like the first three minutes and the last when they are goin' on about how much they like or liked the things their gonna do or have done or if they don't want something. I'm paying for it, shut-up already. It breaks my suspension of disbelief. It's really too much like negotiation. My master would not ask me if I wanted to do something. He would know what is best and what I need. I think those minutes are pandering to people who do not understand and probably should not be watching...My bf likes that part though. Go figure.

Those are my favorite parts. I've always enjoyed it when the director includes scenes like that, as the growing trend seems to be. Particularly in these videos though, because the girls make getting whipped and choked sound so jolly.

 

[Marquis]

I believe they fuck on whippedass, wiredpussy, fuckingmachines (with machines) and Kim Wylde gets REALLY nastydirty with the guys on meninpain.com. It's hot.

I'm not much for mixing sex with my SM, it's kind of superfluous for me. I'm more of a seriousbondage.com or house of gord kind of freak, I like lots and lots and lots of improbable gear and that space alien look.

I think I know someone who was in wiredpussy. Haven't had much luck finding that clip through the usual sources.

The space alien look is hot by the way.

 

[DVS]

My friends and I have had several conversations on the PCness of the various SexandSubmission sites you have refered to. I don't like the first three minutes and the last when they are goin' on about how much they like or liked the things their gonna do or have done or if they don't want something. I'm paying for it, shut-up already. It breaks my suspension of disbelief. It's really too much like negotiation. My master would not ask me if I wanted to do something. He would know what is best and what I need. I think those minutes are pandering to people who do not understand and probably should not be watching...My bf likes that part though. Go figure.

Whipped ass started the before and after talks and asked if we wanted them to continue. Some members said they hated them and wanted them to go away. But, I was amontg the group that wanted them to stay. I enjoy hearing what the subs liked about the shoot. A lot of the time they are very new to BDSM and it's interesting to hear them talking about something new they just found out about and now love.

For the beginning talks, they don't do that all the time. And, it isn't usually the Domme asking the questions. And, we all know the shoots are mostly planned and although the Domme can decide some things for herself, limits have been decussed and a basic "plan of attack" has been pre-arranged. And on whippedass, they don't ask them anything about what they like and don't like. They just ask name, age, etc. They ask if they have ever done anything like this before, if their nervous, too. It seems like a pretty straight forward interview.

Sometimes, it's the Domme that asks the basic questions, as she's tying the sub's hands behind her back and slowly stripping her. Hearing the sub answer these questions as she's being bound and stripped is kind of fun to watch. Sometimes, she's gagged, if she takes too long to answer.

 

[marieR19]

eekkkk! hehe My favorite porn site, whippedass!!! *smiles* I'm addicted. Completely. And the sucky part is that I have nooooo money right now, so I can't even buy a membership.... yet. Key word is yet.
Oh, and if you go to the site of the company that does all of those sites.... Damn, I can't think of the company's name right now... you can read about how to apply for modeling and stuff there, and I've been seriously thinking about doing some stuff for whippedass... 'cause it'll be totally amazing to experiance, and hey, money for what I totally love!
Anyways, I've only been to sexandsubmission a few times, but I think now I'll have to check it out again.


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