Sex without Kissing

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Does sex always include kissing for you? If not, when are kisses missing? Horny quickies with a partner? Meaningless one-night-stands? I can't recall an encounter that did not involve some mouth to mouth, but heard a colleague mention a hot but kissless encounter. Share you tales of how important kissing is to your sex life and when it is and isn't included.
 
I personally think kissing is more intimate that sex...

Which you know, according to PRETTY WOMAN is why prostitutes don't kiss...
 
It's just such a strange concept to me. I'm not always the biggest romantic by any means, but odds are, if I'm attracted to you and interested in you enough to fuck you, I'm gonna want to kiss at least some parts of you. I'm gonna want to taste and lick you, too. That's just how I am.
 
I personally think kissing is more intimate that sex...

Which you know, according to PRETTY WOMAN is why prostitutes don't kiss...

I agree with this! I love kissing by itself or kissing with sex. Even when I was working I did not mind kissing clients with a few exceptions. Many times they did not want kissing on the lips or tongue kissing.
But I love kissing and being kissed.
 
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For me, sex is always accompanied by kissing.

Sex is a very emotional experience for me, and kissing is how I make that initial connection. On top of that, it's how I can gauge my partner's level of arousal (Does she want to be gentle or rough?) and how I can communicate how I'm feeling. It's also a great break or transition, and a way of checking in with my partner and reinforcing our connection.

I can understand it being foregone, though, especially in a situation like a one night stand, where emotions could be the last thing on your mind--or you're actively trying to avoid them.

Kissing can't be left out in a relationship. To me an important role in foreplay.
 
It doesn't always involve kissing for me. Such as a spontaneous quickie, but most of the time, it does involve kissing.

I remember one of my guy friends telling me that he loved sex but he didn't want the woman to kiss or cuddle him. Weird because he seemed rather romantic to me such as bringing me flowers every time we met.
 
There's that old joke: "Kiss you? I shouldn't even be doing THIS!"
 
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Kissing is a MUST for me anyways😉

It shows passion which if we're f**king then it better be HOT and PASSIONATE!!!

Only time I expect there not to be any kissing is when doing ummmmm " doggie style " for the obvious reasons s helloo!!??
 
I got out of a relationship about a year ago...there was more than one reason, of course, but one of them was she was not a good kisser, or at least, we had different ideas on the subject. Good sex was beyond reach for me, absent great kissing. Wet, sloppy, tongue down the throat, spit swapping kissing.
 
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Kissing is a MUST for me anyways😉

It shows passion which if we're f**king then it better be HOT and PASSIONATE!!!

Only time I expect there not to be any kissing is when doing ummmmm " doggie style " for the obvious reasons s helloo!!??

If I go doggy-style with a girl, I often like to kiss her neck and shoulders while doing it.
 
It's just such a strange concept to me. I'm not always the biggest romantic by any means, but odds are, if I'm attracted to you and interested in you enough to fuck you, I'm gonna want to kiss at least some parts of you. I'm gonna want to taste and lick you, too. That's just how I am.

But kissing body parts, tasting, licking...I think he was referring to mouth to mouth kissing. I believe that all the other kissing is still there. Yes, sexual encounters can occur without mouth to mouth. Focus on the good stuff. Mouths will be busy doing other things. My fwb and I dont kiss, we dont need to. We're good the way we are.
 
It's just such a strange concept to me. I'm not always the biggest romantic by any means, but odds are, if I'm attracted to you and interested in you enough to fuck you, I'm gonna want to kiss at least some parts of you. I'm gonna want to taste and lick you, too. That's just how I am.

One more thing. Dont get me wrong though, I do like to kiss.
 
I get mouth ulcers from stress and my love of diet coke, so during the school year, there are times when kissing is painful. so, I can have sex without kissing as long as I can get that intimacy in other ways like handholding while fucking, deep eye contact, neck kisses.
 
For whatever reason my wife doesn’t like to kiss. She used too, but something happened/triggered something in her mind and off went the kissing switch. Not sure why. Just is. She can’t figure it out either.
 
Does sex always include kissing for you? If not, when are kisses missing? Horny quickies with a partner? Meaningless one-night-stands? I can't recall an encounter that did not involve some mouth to mouth, but heard a colleague mention a hot but kissless encounter. Share you tales of how important kissing is to your sex life and when it is and isn't included.

Sex without kissing - Fucking

Sex with kissing - Making love

Period
 
Does sex always include kissing for you? If not, when are kisses missing? Horny quickies with a partner? Meaningless one-night-stands? I can't recall an encounter that did not involve some mouth to mouth, but heard a colleague mention a hot but kissless encounter. Share you tales of how important kissing is to your sex life and when it is and isn't included.

I need the kissing. For me, kissing doesn’t necessarily mean I’m madly in love with you, but it does mean I’m attracted to you. A man I met recently, we kissed quite a bit and he left me dripping and some very wet panties. I was so turned on, just from kissing, I knew that everything that followed would be so hot and so satisfying. Kissing is definitely a part of seduction process for me. I’m a touchy feely person anyway so this is something I want and need. I love to kiss not just the mouth, but anywhere else my mouth and lips can reach. It is such a turn on to start kissing someone and working your way down their body.

I get hot just thinking about it.
 
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One thing about kissing is, you never know when that first kiss is going to happen. You could be leaning in toward each other, breathing hard, both thinking about it. But if you've never kissed each other before, you can't be sure it will happen, until it does. And that moment is magical.

Unlike fucking, where you KNOW it is going to happen as soon as you start groping each other and yanking off clothing. You know it at least several moments in advance, and possibly several hours, or even days.
 
I could never envisage any sexual fun or encounter without kissing.
It's such a massive turn on. the bedrock of sexuality and sexiness in my opinion x
 
When we were younger we used to have kissing sessions as foreplay and it was hot to the point we both nearly came, then we would have oral sex and fuck our brains out, now, we get right to the orgasms, and kiss after!
 
I need the kissing. For me, kissing doesn’t necessarily mean I’m madly in love with you, but it does mean I’m attracted to you. A man I met recently, we kissed quite a bit and he left me dripping and some very wet panties. I was so turned on, just from kissing, I knew that everything that followed would be so hot and so satisfying. Kissing is definitely a part of seduction process for me. I’m a touchy feely person anyway so this is something I want and need. I love to kiss not just the mouth, but anywhere else my mouth and lips can reach. It is such a turn on to start kissing someone and working your way down their body.

I get hot just thinking about it.

Valuver, you seem like quite an erotic lady! I can imagine your lips would be pleasing. Thank you for posting.
 
I'm pretty sure I've posted this before, but it fits here as well. One reason I prefer handjobs to blowjobs is that you can kiss during a handjob, and that's the hottest thing ever.

You can't kiss during a blowjob unless you have two women (or one woman with two heads, and real long necks).
 
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