I am so frustrated and depressed. Last year I had surgery for prostate cancer. After the surgery I was much shorter than I was before. The best that I can do now is get two inches and then it is not real hard. And of course I cannot ejaculate. There is nothing there. I can masturbate and get some of the feelings. I don't think that I can get it up enough to even get it into my wife. Has anyone had sex with someone in my situation? What did you do, or what would you do. My wife has been sick so I have not had sex in over three years and I am going nuts. I would love to get laid but what woman would want someone like me? Just curious.