Sex with a woman: a man's POV

[August_Bouvier]

Gents,

I'm interested in how hetero sex feels to you. I'd like to focus on the sensory details of sex with a woman. With you being authors, you'll likely have more adjectives than "good".

Focus:
1. The difference in sensation and texture between protected and unprotected sex.
2. Describe the minutes leading up to and including your own orgasm.
3. How does hers feel?

Describe these as sensory experiences, please.


Thanks,

August

 

[gauchecritic]

Most of the male authors and quite a few female authors have already done that. Just read our stories

 

[Trinique_Fire]

Gents,

I'm interested in how hetero sex feels to you. I'd like to focus on the sensory details of sex with a woman. With you being authors, you'll likely have more adjectives than "good".

Focus:
1. The difference in sensation and texture between protected and unprotected sex.
2. Describe the minutes leading up to and including your own orgasm.
3. How does hers feel?

Describe these as sensory experiences, please.


Thanks,

August

Are you gay or something? Just seems like an odd topic.

 

[NoJo]

Most of the male authors and quite a few female authors have already done that. Just read our stories

Yes, but the stories have all that other crap to wade through

 

[August_Bouvier]

Are you gay or something? Just seems like an odd topic.

Odd topics usually bring about new ways thinking and observing. I like that.

I was hoping for ideas that would serve as a springboard for a different way of writing from a man's POV. And yes, I've waded through stories.

 

[slyc_willie]

Gents,

I'm interested in how hetero sex feels to you. I'd like to focus on the sensory details of sex with a woman. With you being authors, you'll likely have more adjectives than "good".

Focus:
1. The difference in sensation and texture between protected and unprotected sex.
2. Describe the minutes leading up to and including your own orgasm.
3. How does hers feel?

Describe these as sensory experiences, please.


Thanks,

August

This might help, might not:

When I use a condom, I'm conscious of a loss of tactile sensation. I can still feel the heat, and to an extent the wetness inside a woman, but there is a lot that's lost. For example, I'm partially circumcised (just a 'snip of the tip') so when I'm moving in and out of a woman, there's the added sensation of the foreskin sliding as well. When I pull back, the foreskin partially envelops the head, and when I push forward, the skin slides back. It's a very pleasurable sensation that I suppose could be described as a 'gentle pop.'

An orgasm is really tricky to describe sometimes. I feel it as a tightness between my testicles and anus, a sudden increase in sensitivity just beneath the head of my cock. The moment before orgasm is when I am hardest the most. There's a feeling of pressure, then a physical rush that begins in my stomach and radiates out through my cock.

I can't always feel it when a woman orgasms. I've known some women whos only signs were changes in breathing and expression, and others who literally squeeze so hard with their vaginal muscles that it makes me falter. It's like a thick, hard/soft aperture that squeezes around the shaft, and an increase in heat beyond. A woman most often feels tighter when she is on her hands and knees, or if her legs are curled back toward her chest.

Granted, this is all as regards to penetration. Going down on a woman is a much more sensory experience.

 

[August_Bouvier]

Thanks.

 

[Lalah]

Insructing description slyc_willie.

Now I'm curious about anal...

 

[slyc_willie]

Insructing description slyc_willie.

Now I'm curious about anal...

I've only had a little experience in that area. It's tighter, to be sure, and hotter. A little rougher, too.

That's something I'd need more experience in before I can really describe it.

 

[starrkers]

This might help, might not:

When I use a condom, I'm conscious of a loss of tactile sensation. I can still feel the heat, and to an extent the wetness inside a woman, but there is a lot that's lost. For example, I'm partially circumcised (just a 'snip of the tip') so when I'm moving in and out of a woman, there's the added sensation of the foreskin sliding as well. When I pull back, the foreskin partially envelops the head, and when I push forward, the skin slides back. It's a very pleasurable sensation that I suppose could be described as a 'gentle pop.'

An orgasm is really tricky to describe sometimes. I feel it as a tightness between my testicles and anus, a sudden increase in sensitivity just beneath the head of my cock. The moment before orgasm is when I am hardest the most. There's a feeling of pressure, then a physical rush that begins in my stomach and radiates out through my cock.

I can't always feel it when a woman orgasms. I've known some women whos only signs were changes in breathing and expression, and others who literally squeeze so hard with their vaginal muscles that it makes me falter. It's like a thick, hard/soft aperture that squeezes around the shaft, and an increase in heat beyond. A woman most often feels tighter when she is on her hands and knees, or if her legs are curled back toward her chest.

Granted, this is all as regards to penetration. Going down on a woman is a much more sensory experience.

*Saves in "research" folder*

 

[dr_mabeuse]

It feels to me like tennis shoes in a dryer.

But a good dryer. A soft, wet, warm and understanding dryer.

No. I'm being a smart ass. What are you? A girl or something?

 

[rosco rathbone]

Gents,

I'm interested in how hetero sex feels to you. I'd like to focus on the sensory details of sex with a woman. With you being authors, you'll likely have more adjectives than "good".

Focus:
1. The difference in sensation and texture between protected and unprotected sex.
2. Describe the minutes leading up to and including your own orgasm.
3. How does hers feel?

Describe these as sensory experiences, please.


Thanks,

August

This sounds like something written by an android afraid of being "retired" if it fails the Turing Test. Where do these people come from?

 

[Guest]

It feels to me like tennis shoes in a dryer.

But a good dryer. A soft, wet, warm and understanding dryer.

No. I'm being a smart ass. What are you? A girl or something?

All I can envision is ka-thump, ka-da-thump, bump, ka-thump, ka-da-thump -

 

[slyc_willie]

All I can envision is ka-thump, ka-da-thump, bump, ka-thump, ka-da-thump -

Yeah, that's what I heard from someone's room last year, too . . .

 

[Guest]

Yeah, that's what I heard from someone's room last year, too . . .

I am certain I know nothing about that sound.

Ever.

Hell, I don't even do the laundry!

 

[slyc_willie]

I am certain I know nothing about that sound.

Ever.

Hell, I don't even do the laundry!

Well, someone's clothes were definitely tumbling . . . .

 

[ms.read]

Well, someone's clothes were definitely tumbling . . . .

Were you in my bedroom? Naughty Boy!

 

[Carnevil9]

1. The difference in sensation and texture between protected and unprotected sex.

Since most of sex is emotional (to me, at least), the difference here is one of degree only. "Protected" sex (I'm assuming you mean "with a condom") is sort of like listening to your favorite head-banging music, but with the sound turned down way too low. It still sounds good, but you have to listen extra hard.

2. Describe the minutes leading up to and including your own orgasm.

Actually, I find the minutes leading up to the first CONTACT much more interesting and intense. The first kiss: will it happen? When your lips touch, will there be sparks? Or an embarrassing vacuum of feelings? And when it does happen, the relief and excitement are generally overwhelming. The minutes leading up to orgasm, nice though they are, pale in comparison.

3. How does hers feel?

Hers does not "feel" to me at all; however, *I* feel a sense of accomplishment at helping her to achieve one.

Hope that helps!......Carney

 

[Frank Noir]

Yes, but the stories have all that other crap to wade through

Mine don't.

 

[Lalah]

Mine don't.

Your stories are only about describing two people in the middle of having sex?

 

[3113]

I can't always feel it when a woman orgasms.

Of course, when one is writing erotica, this fact becomes moot In erotica, everyone orgasms (often so intently that they nearly faint) and everyone feels each other's orgasm.

It feels to me like tennis shoes in a dryer.

But a good dryer. A soft, wet, warm and understanding dryer.

My vagina spins and tumbles? And just what do you do about the static cling?

 

[starlightqueen]

I've queried my bf on these things in the name of research in the past (kind of like grownup "why is the sky blue?"), so August, you're not alone in weird questions .

On the "protected" front he said it's kind of like still having the pressure, but losing the texture sensations.

For "moments leading to/of orgasm" the best I could squeeze out was that there's a point where he knows he is gonna and could keep going or stop. But after the "keep going", I didn't get much other than "good".

On the "feeling her orgasm" he said sometimes he can, but only if he's not moving at the same time.

Hope this helps

 

[CharleyH]

Yes, but the stories have all that other crap to wade through

You've been wading through too many anal stories, SJ.

 

[August_Bouvier]

Thank you for your unique analogies (music, appliances), humor and responding in the spirit intended for this thread.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I've queried my bf on these things in the name of research in the past (kind of like grownup "why is the sky blue?"), so August, you're not alone in weird questions .

On the "protected" front he said it's kind of like still having the pressure, but losing the texture sensations.

For "moments leading to/of orgasm" the best I could squeeze out was that there's a point where he knows he is gonna and could keep going or stop. But after the "keep going", I didn't get much other than "good".

On the "feeling her orgasm" he said sometimes he can, but only if he's not moving at the same time.

Hope this helps

Gotta love an eloquent man!

A musician told me that it was "red fire" in his spine and perinium, and "black, with drops of light" in the back of his head, all of which made me worry about syphilis! But it turned out he was one of those cross-sensory types.

On another of these threads, one of our guys here told us this;
while in the shower, lather up your hands. Push one finger into the other fist, and pump it a little, and that's what a cock feels like inside a pussy...

I'm almost positive there's more to it than that, though. Right guys?