Sex while pregnant

[Beck31]

Wondering if there is a more comfortable/safer position?

 

[avrgblkgrl]

If you aren't ready to pop. Lay on your side. Have him to raise your leg slightly and let him do you from behind.

 

[COCK_STAR]

Just put it in her mouth, and take care of her in 9 months. Pregnant wife.... Gross

 

[Beck31]

Just put it in her mouth, and take care of her in 9 months. Pregnant wife.... Gross

I don't see why that is gross. Sorry. Yeah that is an option I suppose.

 

[COCK_STAR]

Pregnant chicks are just one of my many hangups... I had nightly weigh ins for my wife when she was pregnant... She only gained 11 pounds over her entire pregnancy, and I still found her gross.

 

[bailadora]

I don't see why that is gross. Sorry. Yeah that is an option I suppose.

Ignore the troll, Beck. He faps to pissing people off.

WRT your question: A lot depends upon what stage of pregnancy she's in. If I recall correctly, a pregnant woman really shouldn't lie on her back after the fourth month, because the weight of the uterus can compress the vena cava, which would restrict blood flow to the baby. If she's comfortable with it, that's the time you might want to consider her being on top, or side positions, with a pillow under her belly for added support.

In the later months, she may or may not be interested in sex. My belly was so huge in comparison to the rest of me, that there wasn't any position that I found comfortable.

 

[Strawberryslip]

I quite enjoyed spooning when I was heavy. It allowed me to still rest and have lots of fun at the same time

 

[bailadora]

Pregnant chicks are just one of my many hangups... I had nightly weigh ins for my wife when she was pregnant... She only gained 11 pounds over her entire pregnancy, and I still found her gross.

Seriously? For the average weight woman, a gain of 25-35 pounds is considered normal for a healthy pregnancy. If a woman doesn't gain sufficient weight, it's considered a complication and it can have a severe, negative impact on the babe.

It amazes me that someone would be selfish enough to put his aesthetic values over the well being of his child.

 

[Beck31]

Thanks

For the responces. I appreciate the advice as well.

 

[AzUp4fun]

Just put it in her mouth, and take care of her in 9 months. Pregnant wife.... Gross

To each his own but I find a pregnant partner quite appealing. The heightened libido, the enlarged breast and sensitivite, and not to mention the lactation all are wonderful in my minds eye. So for me not gross at all.

 

[COCK_STAR]

8 pound 7 ounce healthy baby boy.... Gaining a bunch of weight because of pregnancy is just an excuse for lazy women to let themselves go. My wife doesn't have one stretch mark, and her vagina is as tight as before. (Talked her into an elective c section)

Seriously? For the average weight woman, a gain of 25-35 pounds is considered normal for a healthy pregnancy. If a woman doesn't gain sufficient weight, it's considered a complication and it can have a severe, negative impact on the babe.

It amazes me that someone would be selfish enough to put his aesthetic values over the well being of his child.

 

[smokeypearl]

Wondering if there is a more comfortable/safer position?

I think it depends on what is comfortable for the pregnant woman. I had little problem with any position when I was pregnant. But in the last trimester my hips cramped up so bad when I came close to cumming that I chose not to. I just enjoyed everything else.

 

[avrgblkgrl]

Seriously? For the average weight woman, a gain of 25-35 pounds is considered normal for a healthy pregnancy. If a woman doesn't gain sufficient weight, it's considered a complication and it can have a severe, negative impact on the babe.

It amazes me that someone would be selfish enough to put his aesthetic values over the well being of his child.

I'm with you on that one.

 

[avrgblkgrl]

To each his own but I find a pregnant partner quite appealing. The heightened libido, the enlarged breast and sensitivite, and not to mention the lactation all are wonderful in my minds eye. So for me not gross at all.

Hats off to you. That's a healthy attitude for you and for the woman.

 

[NightL]

Beck31, not sure of your reasons for asking this question, your partner or indeed advice for a friend (I am not enquiring). More important is the appearance, through your recent postings, of you allowing people into your life and in return offering care, consideration and affection. I commend you for that.

To your original question - communication and experimentation - then communicate again. Later in the pregnancy may require a little more patience and care in getting comfortable but the bonds of love making during this time are highly important for a couple.

Wishing you all the happiness life can reward you.

 

[suckonsimon]

Beck! Always a delight to hear a fine guy's got his lovely woman in the baby way. I wish you both well! This is what I know:

The woman you love becoming curvey because you've filled her with your seed is a truly delicious thing! Delight in her!

She's likely to have times she needs a safe distance from you, and times she wants more and more of you; go with her desires.

She will know what's comfortable, but my recollection is that energy is fine while weight on her is tedious. Do you both enjoy her lying you standing?

Give her orgasms, the joy is for the baby as well as for her and you.

The best to you. Keep us posted! Simon

 

[albertaboy]

When my wife was pregnant with our kids, 25 & 20 years ago, the first two trimesters were great.

My wife had very rough pregnancies, particularly the last 4 months so, sex wasn;t on her mind much.

First few months pretty much anything goes, after that from the side or behind is best.

 

[Beck31]

@ Si: Thanks. Much appreciated. Um I always try to make her comfortable.
@Alberta Boy: Thanks as well. Nice to hear from those who know about this.

 

[GiggLeGasm]

elective c-sections.. don't get me started. They were initially proposed by women's rights activists who considered labor "inhuman"

the irony...

anyway..

you might consider using an exercise ball for sexual play. many pregnant women are comfortable draping their upper bodies over it. the weight of the baby falls away from the hips and relieves pressure.. the body is supported.. when I taught lamaze classes at the hospital, it was one of the things that surprised most women.

the other thing you could try is: sit on a chair that doesn't have arms. have her sit on your "lap" facing away. Ensure that there is a chair/table with a pillow/blanket for her to lean over while she is facing away.

have fun!

 

[bailadora]

8 pound 7 ounce healthy baby boy.... Gaining a bunch of weight because of pregnancy is just an excuse for lazy women to let themselves go. My wife doesn't have one stretch mark, and her vagina is as tight as before. (Talked her into an elective c section)

You got damn lucky. Unless a woman is severly overweight to begin with, doctors do NOT recommend a woman try to lose weight or diet during this time. Some women do overeat while pregnant but not all. And in most cases, all a woman needs is roughly an extra 300 calories per day. Pregnancy is very hard on a woman's body, and the extra nutrition is a necessity, not an indulgence. Of that 25-35 pounds, only about 5- 10 of it goes to stored fat (needed for delivery and nursing). The rest breaks down as follows:

Baby: 8 pounds
Placenta: 2-3 pounds
Amniotic fluid: 2-3 pounds
Breast tissue: 2-3 pounds
Blood supply: 4 pounds
Larger uterus: 2-5 pounds

So I call bullshit on your opinion that women are just being lazy. As for the C-section? I'm not surprised you suggested it, but I am surprised she bought into it. I'd have invited you to amputate your penis, shove it your mouth, and blow yourself. Then again, I'm not into putting my health in jeopardy for my partner's selfish desires. If you didn't want pregnancy to change her body, you shouldn't have gotten her pregnant to begin with.

Yes, I'm being harsh and judgmental, and no, I don't give a shit. I'll own it.

ETA: I'm under no illusions I'm going to change your perspective. This post is aimed at any other half-wit fucktard out there who might be considering making the same suggestion to their spouse/SO.

 

[COCK_STAR]

Of course you do doc

 

[NightL]

Pregnant chicks are just one of my many hangups... I had nightly weigh ins for my wife when she was pregnant... She only gained 11 pounds over her entire pregnancy, and I still found her gross.

Gaining a bunch of weight because of pregnancy is just an excuse for lazy women to let themselves go. My wife doesn't have one stretch mark, and her vagina is as tight as before. (Talked her into an elective c section)

http://committedman.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/blowup_doll.jpeg
...but your wife is just a little different isn't she?

 

[Ozfetishguy]

I quite enjoyed spooning when I was heavy. It allowed me to still rest and have lots of fun at the same time

Yep, spooning works well! She can support her bump with a pillow if she needs to and it's a great position for hitting her G spot

 

[MrFoxwood]

Seriously? For the average weight woman, a gain of 25-35 pounds is considered normal for a healthy pregnancy. If a woman doesn't gain sufficient weight, it's considered a complication and it can have a severe, negative impact on the babe.

I didn't know that. My wife hardly gained any weight, I'd guess it was less than 15 pounds. The midwives (who were fantastic throughout) never expressed any concern and my wife delivered a 10lb baby who is now nearly 2 and hasn't had so much as a cold to worry us. I'm not doubting your claim, I'm just pleased with how well my wife and child did considering this information.

 

[bailadora]

I didn't know that. My wife hardly gained any weight, I'd guess it was less than 15 pounds. The midwives (who were fantastic throughout) never expressed any concern and my wife delivered a 10lb baby who is now nearly 2 and hasn't had so much as a cold to worry us. I'm not doubting your claim, I'm just pleased with how well my wife and child did considering this information.

Congratulations on a healthy child, Fox! I'm happy for you. Yes, not gaining sufficient weight really can have significant negative consequences. Read on.

Maternal pre-pregnancy weight and weight gain during pregnancy are considered strong indicators of birth weight.7 During World War II, a population of women in Leningrad who underwent prolonged malnutrition delivered infants with an average birth weight of 400 to 600 g (14 to 21 oz) less than expected.5 In a later study of Guatemalan Indians,8 it was found that protein malnutrition occurring before 26 weeks of gestation resulted in IUGR. The current consensus is that a maternal weight gain of less than 10 kg (22 lb) by 40 weeks of gestation is clearly a risk factor for IUGR.3 Source.

Possible complications of IURG (source):

• Foetal distress (during delivery also referred to as “birth asphyxia”), which means that the foetus suffers from insufficient oxygen and nutritional supply, something that can occur during labour or already during pregnancy. If foetal distress develops during labour, each contraction will reduce the blood supply to the placenta still further, which may necessitate rapid delivery by caesarean section.
• Impaired thermoregulation (temperature control). SGA infants have difficulty in controlling their temperature due to increased heat loss and reduced heat production. This is largely due to the reduced subcutaneous fat.
• Hypoglycaemia (low blood sugar). A newborn suffering from IUGR is very prone to hypoglycaemia in the first hours and days after birth because of low stores of glycogen (a stored form of sugar) in its body.
• Polycythaemia (high blood cell count) and hyperviscosity (sticky blood). Due to the low oxygen levels (hypoxia) that are thought to play a role in IUGR, there is a stimulus to produce more blood cells to try and compensate. This results in the blood becoming thicker, and carries a risk of poor blood flow in the newborn.
• Impaired immune function. IUGR infants in the newborn period and though childhood struggle with impaired cellular immunity, carrying the risk of infections.
• Meconium aspiration, The meconium is the baby’s first stool. Passing meconium before birth is usually a sign that the baby is in some distress. Every baby normally inhales amniotic fluid inside the uterus, but if the amniotic fluid is mixed with meconium and becomes aspirated, this can cause breathing difficulties and pneumonia in the newborn.

Infants with IUGR often also necessitate an early delivery and therefore those babies who are delivered before term also may have complications due to prematurity – most commonly cognitive and neurodevelopmental abnormalities. Lastly these babies also carry a higher rate of death and severe disability, when compared to the average for gestational age infants.

Sometimes, IUGR is cause by factors beyond the woman's control, and doctors do what they can to mitigate the situation. Beyond that, it's difficult for me to wrap my head around why someone would voluntarily risk IURG.