Sex while away to university

[horndog201]

Replace my post with TBk's, just with a little better grammar. :okes TBK and chuckes::

If you think that cheating on someone is cool, or naughty, or whatever, then you have problems. In the end, whether you arr the one to tell him or not, I can guarantee hw will find out, and be devastated, unless it turns him on and he asks to join in or whatever.

But I really don't understand how anyone can get off on that. And isn't it bad that most of the people posting on this thread against this are guys? We are normally labored as the bad ones.

And apparently her boy friend fits in with the same category as me.. nice guys always finish last.

P.S. I bet Christina is as loose as a Christmas goose.

 

[CuriousJack]

P.S. I bet Christina is as loose as a Christmas goose.

 

[ickle_stace]

I was a bit shocked by what sensual_man_05 (or whatever his name is) said about being ok to fuck around when not married! Isn't the whole point of being in a relationship to be with each other and each other alone, unless already specified?

Just because I ain't married to someone, I wouldn't fuck around, and if my guy came to me and said "look darling, we're not married so im fucking other girls" he'd be straight out of the door and out of my life!

personally I think it shows you just how little you mean to them.

If you wanna sleep around, and have everyone on campus/in town and their brother, then let you're boyfriend finds someone who deserves him, and who'll treat him with the respect he deserves, because obviously you don't care enough about him if you can sleep with other guys, and risk bringing home horrible sexual diseases to him!

 

[TBKahuna123]

I was a bit shocked by what sensual_man_05 (or whatever his name is) said about being ok to fuck around when not married! Isn't the whole point of being in a relationship to be with each other and each other alone, unless already specified?

Like I said, commitment is commitment. You're right on here, IMNSHO.

Replace my post with TBk's, just with a little better grammar. kes TBK and chuckes::

Yeah, at 4 am grammer goes right out the window, doesn't it?

 

[southerntierguy]

I was a bit shocked by what sensual_man_05 (or whatever his name is) said about being ok to fuck around when not married! Isn't the whole point of being in a relationship to be with each other and each other alone, unless already specified?

Just because I ain't married to someone, I wouldn't fuck around, and if my guy came to me and said "look darling, we're not married so im fucking other girls" he'd be straight out of the door and out of my life!

personally I think it shows you just how little you mean to them.

If you wanna sleep around, and have everyone on campus/in town and their brother, then let you're boyfriend finds someone who deserves him, and who'll treat him with the respect he deserves, because obviously you don't care enough about him if you can sleep with other guys, and risk bringing home horrible sexual diseases to him!

I agree with what you're saying except for one thing, while I don't think you are misstating the view of the person who initiated the thread, I think you are somewhat misstating what sm05's response was. It seems to me he's saying that she's young, in college, and her boyfriend's not there -- having sex is OK but she should let him knowwhat she's doing.

Now that's not a relationship, and that's not what she gets her kicks from, but I don't have as big an issue with sm05's position. I woudn't do it, and I would dump her in a heartbeat under the original scenario, but perhaps her bf wouldn't -- at least telling him would be ethical. Of course, this girl is saying right out that she gets a big rush from lying to her bf ... that has nothing to do with sex, not at all, and gets right at a different aspect of the relationship... lying, disrespect, etc. I don't see how someone can defend getting off on that.

 

[shavedcock&bals]

your young...your at college...Fuck it. live it up

 

[CuriousJack]

your young...your at college...Fuck it. live it up

No problem with doing that..............just don't have a boyfriend!

 

[TBKahuna123]

your young...your at college...Fuck it. live it up

At the expense of someone else's feelings? You're saying that's cool?

 

[barebacknubianf]

being proud to destroy another's self respect, or heart, is as cold as they come. people like this are the reason that god is hellbent on destroying the planet...i think i already said that.

Until you can honestly say you've never done anything wrong in your life, you shouldn't be judging anyone else. Your attitude is hypocritical and self-righteous. You should be the one to grow up.

 

[ickle_stace]

Until you can honestly say you've never done anything wrong in your life, you shouldn't be judging anyone else. Your attitude is hypocritical and self-righteous. You should be the one to grow up.

the only time i've ever hurt someone was when I broke up with my ex, he treated me like dirt, but I still never cheated on him! And I'm sorry but he deserved to be hurt, cos he hurt me!

So no, I've not done anything wrong in my life relationship-wise. I've never cheated, nor will I ever.

I just hate to see people who seem to honestly care about someone being hurt by that someone that they care about, its not right. if you wanna be with someone, unless u both agree on an open relationship, you should be faithful to them, otherwise leave them, because I'm sorry but that relationship is just a sham otherwise

but if i remember rightly, the girl who started this thread wrote a story a while ago about her boyfriend letting her fuck his mate, so unless it was just a story and not the truth, then to link back to her first post of "he thinks im his innocent sweetheart" he must obviously know she's nothing like innocent already

found it story link

 

[yoshimitsu]

Until you can honestly say you've never done anything wrong in your life, you shouldn't be judging anyone else. Your attitude is hypocritical and self-righteous. You should be the one to grow up.

Judging people is what people do. By posting your post your obviously judging the poster you responded to. After reading your posts I have gained my own judgements of you. To not do that would be inhuman.
There is a difference between making mistakes and intentionally hurting others. you can be a person who has made some wrong choices with good intentions and it's a little different than intentionally making choices that will most likely harm another. Your whole theory of "Shouldn't judge others if you have ever done anything wrong" doesn't even make sense. It just makes it sound as though your trying to justify something in your life which may be moraly questionable.

 

[shavedcock&bals]

step 1: break up with current boyfried for not giving you enough dick
step 2: enjoy college/university if you don't you will regret it.