Sex Toy Advice

[kennyh]

Hi

Hoping someone can give me some advice, and that I've come to the right place.....

So I'm much more interested in sex (straight, nothing fancy) than my wife is, it's been this way for years.

She would prefer to pose in her underwear for me to do my own thing to - but to be honest, if I'm doing my own thing, i prefer to do it, well, on my own!

Recently she's said she finds it uncomfortable to have sex - apparently I'm too big! Well, much as I'd like that to be the case, I reckon I'm just "normal" - I suspect it's lack of use on her part that makes it uncomfortable for her.

I thought it might be an idea to get my wife a sex toy of some sort, something to get her horny enough to consider putting up with some discomfort - and if it happens regularly enough, hopefully we'll be a better fit for each other!.

Anyone any suggestions as to the most appropriate item that might help stimulate her desire for a physical relationship again? Or point me to somewhere where the question might be better posted?

Thanks, Kenny

 

[nkdjim2]

Advise

Are you sure that you have gotten her in the mood with enough foreplay to get her wet?
You may want to try some good lube. Jim

 

[Que]

Hi

Hoping someone can give me some advice, and that I've come to the right place.....

So I'm much more interested in sex (straight, nothing fancy) than my wife is, it's been this way for years.

She would prefer to pose in her underwear for me to do my own thing to - but to be honest, if I'm doing my own thing, i prefer to do it, well, on my own!

Recently she's said she finds it uncomfortable to have sex - apparently I'm too big! Well, much as I'd like that to be the case, I reckon I'm just "normal" - I suspect it's lack of use on her part that makes it uncomfortable for her.

I thought it might be an idea to get my wife a sex toy of some sort, something to get her horny enough to consider putting up with some discomfort - and if it happens regularly enough, hopefully we'll be a better fit for each other!.

Anyone any suggestions as to the most appropriate item that might help stimulate her desire for a physical relationship again? Or point me to somewhere where the question might be better posted?

Thanks, Kenny

First, Has she discussed her discomfort with her doctor? Someone on here I was talking to and I don't remember who has a rare condition where it literally clamps down and it is painful in all cases... if there is no physical reason why you can't be accommodated then I would definitely be talking to a shrink.

It sounds like the rest relationship must be awfully good because you don't seem like you have one foot out the door which I commend you for.

Have you discussed with her in terms of how you perceive sex is being a componant of the relationship that makes you feel closer, protect your marriage, leaves you a little less open to wandering thoughts that sort of thing?

In the meanwhile would you be comfortable with mutual masturbation with no toy so that at least you're both being stimulated and she's experiencing that feeling in an environment where she associated with you?

Also you'll probably find a little friendlier crowd for this sort of question in the how to section.

 

[kbate]

OB/Gyn Now.

Any other advice is wrong for sexual discomfort.

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

Hi

Hoping someone can give me some advice, and that I've come to the right place.....

So I'm much more interested in sex (straight, nothing fancy) than my wife is, it's been this way for years.

She would prefer to pose in her underwear for me to do my own thing to - but to be honest, if I'm doing my own thing, i prefer to do it, well, on my own!

Recently she's said she finds it uncomfortable to have sex - apparently I'm too big! Well, much as I'd like that to be the case, I reckon I'm just "normal" - I suspect it's lack of use on her part that makes it uncomfortable for her.

I thought it might be an idea to get my wife a sex toy of some sort, something to get her horny enough to consider putting up with some discomfort - and if it happens regularly enough, hopefully we'll be a better fit for each other!.

Anyone any suggestions as to the most appropriate item that might help stimulate her desire for a physical relationship again? Or point me to somewhere where the question might be better posted?

Thanks, Kenny

And by too big you weight 350 pounds? You might start by eating a few less Twinkies for breakfast.

 

[kennyh]

Thanks for the replies folks....

Don't think we have anything to worry about as far as doctors are concerned, she gets regular check ups for that sort of thing.

And I could maybe stand to lose about 10 pounds (I'm about 170 short of the 350 you mentioned! ).

Guess I'm just after something I can give her she'll be able to use in private, get her more in the mood, and when the time is right for her (she gets horny enough!) she'll then find me ready and willing!

 

[Saint Peter]

Did you try sticking it in her ass?

 

[lovetoread]

An asshook is what is needed.

 

[yossi]

Guess I'm just after something I can give her she'll be able to use in private, get her more in the mood, and when the time is right for her (she gets horny enough!) she'll then find me ready and willing!

Ahahahahahahahaha.

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

Thanks for the replies folks....

Don't think we have anything to worry about as far as doctors are concerned, she gets regular check ups for that sort of thing.

And I could maybe stand to lose about 10 pounds (I'm about 170 short of the 350 you mentioned! ).

Guess I'm just after something I can give her she'll be able to use in private, get her more in the mood, and when the time is right for her (she gets horny enough!) she'll then find me ready and willing!

Have you tried roofies?

 

[kennyh]

...and with that, I've realised I'm in the wrong movie.

Thanks for the genuine suggestions, I'll leave the rest of you pond life to wallow in your own stupidity.

Bye!

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

...and with that, I've realised I'm in the wrong movie.

Thanks for the genuine suggestions, I'll leave the rest of you pond life to wallow in your own stupidity.

Bye!

Shucks. I wanted to wallow in your fantasy.

 

[lovetoread]

...and with that, I've realised I'm in the wrong movie.

Thanks for the genuine suggestions, I'll leave the rest of you pond life to wallow in your own stupidity.

Bye!

You will need to grow some nads to hang out here.

We've been really nice so far.

 

[Saint Peter]

An asshook is what is needed.

I like where you are going with this! That! This!!

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

You will need to grow some nads to hang out here.

We've been really nice so far.

Let's 'ave a look at yours.

 

[Que]

Thanks for the replies folks....

Don't think we have anything to worry about as far as doctors are concerned, she gets regular check ups for that sort of thing.

And I could maybe stand to lose about 10 pounds (I'm about 170 short of the 350 you mentioned! ).

Guess I'm just after something I can give her she'll be able to use in private, get her more in the mood, and when the time is right for her (she gets horny enough!) she'll then find me ready and willing!

They don't cover that sort of thing in a regular checkup... if specially if it is a male OBGYN...

If she has not explicitly mentioned to him that she find intercourse painful he is going to assume that everything is fine and I will bet money that she said nothing of the sort to her doctor.