Sex Talk

[teacherspet]

You meet somebody in a bar for the first time...or you've known somebody for some time but not close enough for you discuss anything and everything with her (or him). You find this other person to be really HOT and you want to know if you can get some "action" with this other person. "How do you discreetly introduce the topic of sex into the conversation with people you hardly know (to see if they might be interested in having sex with you)?" I would like to hear both actual experiences and hypothetical ones.

Corollary to the question above, what are the signs you watch out for to see if the other person might be interested?

 

[Bigg_Capone]

If you're better looking than me just say to the woman in question...

"Hi, listen, I'm not sure how to say this, but I find you incredibly attractive and was wondering if you'd like to have a drink with me. Gee, I hope I'm not too forthcoming or anything, but, well... I kind of felt like I'd be a total fool if I didn't at least make the effort to get your attention for a moment. So... about that drink?"



After you've had a drink, you should just look at her all aloof and say something witty and provocative like, "Hmmm, I see you're enjoying yourself as much as I am, what do you say we get together for dinner and dancing later on and perhaps see where that takes us? It might be fun, we can get to know one another more and enjoy the evening in each other's company."



After dancing, casually whisper into her ear, "Listen, I've really enjoyed this time with you, you're so beautiful... I was wondering if maybe you'd like to go out again some time and continue what you and I have here, if not, we can always skip those formalities and start licking and sucking one another... Either way, I think we'd be great together."


Kind of smooth for a guy without the balls to approach a woman and say any of this, huh?

 

[phoenix1224]

Signs to watch out for:

1 Flashing her eyebrows.

2 Running her fingers through her hair.

3 Smiling coyly.

4 Licking her lips.

5 Primping... especially when nothing's out of place.

6 Carressing an object.

7 Prolonged eye contact.

8 Darting glances.

9 Repeatedly touching your arm or leg.

...If more than 3 of these things are going on... she digs you...

 

[alonelygal]

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[crazybbwgirl]

C'mon - people aren't that hard to read! You should be able to tell in a few minutes if there's any interest. And discretely hinting about sex.... why not just say "last nite on Lit I read that......" easy way to break the ice!?!?! lol

 

[Vixandra]

C'mon - people aren't that hard to read! You should be able to tell in a few minutes if there's any interest. And discretely hinting about sex.... why not just say "last nite on Lit I read that......" easy way to break the ice!?!?! lol

Till they later stumble onto lit and find the "I want to fuck my uncle's wife" type thread... then it might not work.
Or he/she's an active member of lit. Though that would break the ice rather well unless there'd been a fight over something before... then it might be a big crash and burn.

 

[phoenix1224]

What he said...I just got in and let me tell you...all of the above was coming from me.Hey phoenix...were you stalking me tonight.
Course,don't just jump the lady if she inadvertantly licks her lips, she might be wanting to lick the guy behind ya...

Caressing an object...thanks for mentioning this...I kept fondling his stick shift when we were in the car...glad it wasn't just the car chick in me showing herself...

No... Sorry, I'm not a stalker...

Now, did you mean his 'stick shift' or the stick shift on the car?

 

[SexyChele]

Signs to watch out for:

1 Flashing her eyebrows.

2 Running her fingers through her hair.

3 Smiling coyly.

4 Licking her lips.

5 Primping... especially when nothing's out of place.

6 Carressing an object.

7 Prolonged eye contact.

8 Darting glances.

9 Repeatedly touching your arm or leg.

...If more than 3 of these things are going on... she digs you...

Okay, I can relate to all of this....except....well, what exactly is "flashing her eyebrows"? How does one do that? I can raise and lower them (not a good sign, btw), but I've never flashed them.

Heck, maybe that was the signal men were looking for all this years and I missed that in the "how to be a girl" class! GRRRR!

 

[phoenix1224]

Okay, I can relate to all of this....except....well, what exactly is "flashing her eyebrows"? How does one do that? I can raise and lower them (not a good sign, btw), but I've never flashed them.

Heck, maybe that was the signal men were looking for all this years and I missed that in the "how to be a girl" class! GRRRR!

Same thing... quickly raising and lowering them (a quick flash)

 

[Lynnezertorte]

You meet somebody in a bar for the first time...or you've known somebody for some time but not close enough for you discuss anything and everything with her (or him). You find this other person to be really HOT and you want to know if you can get some "action" with this other person. "How do you discreetly introduce the topic of sex into the conversation with people you hardly know (to see if they might be interested in having sex with you)?" I would like to hear both actual experiences and hypothetical ones.

Corollary to the question above, what are the signs you watch out for to see if the other person might be interested?

If you meet someone in a bar then inihibitions will be reduced because of the alcohol. You can try an innocent (or not so innocent) sexual innuendo in a joking manner and see what the reaction is and then take it from there. If she appears offended then back off immediately with an "oops, I didn't mean to say that, sorry"....if she giggles or seems accepting to the innuendo push the envelope a little further. Unfortunately, some women can be very hard to read...which doesn't help you, I know.

As a female, if I'm interested in a man sexually, I'll bring up lingerie to test their reaction....if they're interested they usually take it from there. But then again, men are easy that way.

 

[Bigg_Capone]

Sorry... I thought I read the word "lingerie" and, well, honestly, it's got me interested now. lol. Just kidding. You're totally right about alcohol lowering inhibitions. Bars are crazy for that. People drunk and dry humping everywhere. I stay away for the most part and just watch and laugh at the stupid things binge drinkers do on the nights that I'm around. I used to be one of them. Now, I'm lucky to go out twice a year. lol


Everytime I go to a bar all I see are a lot of idiot adults acting like teens that are trying to act like adults. This isn't what adulthood is supposed to be... is it? Most of the stuff people are doing now, I got out of my system when I was a teen. Now all I have left to get out of my system is loads of semen... Any ladies interested in helping? lol

 

[crazybbwgirl]

Okay, I can relate to all of this....except....well, what exactly is "flashing her eyebrows"? How does one do that? I can raise and lower them (not a good sign, btw), but I've never flashed them.

Heck, maybe that was the signal men were looking for all this years and I missed that in the "how to be a girl" class! GRRRR!

There was a class!?!?! damn...... I miss all the good stuff.

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

Re: If you're better looking than me just say to the woman in question...

"Hi, listen, I'm not sure how to say this, but I find you incredibly attractive and was wondering if you'd like to have a drink with me. Gee, I hope I'm not too forthcoming or anything, but, well... I kind of felt like I'd be a total fool if I didn't at least make the effort to get your attention for a moment. So... about that drink?"



After you've had a drink, you should just look at her all aloof and say something witty and provocative like, "Hmmm, I see you're enjoying yourself as much as I am, what do you say we get together for dinner and dancing later on and perhaps see where that takes us? It might be fun, we can get to know one another more and enjoy the evening in each other's company."



After dancing, casually whisper into her ear, "Listen, I've really enjoyed this time with you, you're so beautiful... I was wondering if maybe you'd like to go out again some time and continue what you and I have here, if not, we can always skip those formalities and start licking and sucking one another... Either way, I think we'd be great together."


Kind of smooth for a guy without the balls to approach a woman and say any of this, huh?

very well said BRAVO ITA

 

[Bigg_Capone]

Re: Re: If you're better looking than me just say to the woman in question...

very well said BRAVO ITA

Thank you very much.