Sex Index

vargas111

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Sexiness Index

What makes a woman sexy? Lots of different things, obviously. And not everyone would agree on what they are, which is good because otherwise all us men would be after the same group of women.

For purposes of this question, I'm trying to distinguish "sexiness" from "attractiveness." I want to focus on things that women DO to be sexy. Of course beautiful features, big boobs on a narrow waist topping wide hips is sexy, but aside from keeping in shape, a woman can't will herself a beautiful face or a bombshell figure, sexy as that may be.

Below are a series of features that go into making up a sexiness index SI for me. Let me know thing you would add subtract or score differently.

Shoes
tennis, flats -2
boots -3
sandal 1
Heels 1 per inch, 2 per inch for >4
open toe 1
straps 2

Feet
painted toe nails 1
tatoo 2
Ankle chain 2

Hair
very short -1
Neck length 1
Shoulder length 2
waist length 3
curled 1
colored 2

Tops
Bulky sweaters,
loose blouse -2
thin blouse 1
tops that show navel 1
tied below tits 2
see through 3
no bra 2
low cut, cleavage 2
sleeveless, tits visible 1
stretches tight over tits 1

Pants
trouser, loose,
thick material -3
tight across ass 1
thin 1
shorts 1
short shorts 2

Skirts
long, thick -1
knee length 0
hem above knee 1 per inch
hem above knee (power suit) 2 per inch >4 inches
Maternity 1
Flounced/slit 1
panties (or lack thereof)
visible 4

Underwear
white cotton -1
sliky 1
push up bra 2
thong 2
french cut 1
none 4
panty hose -3
stockings 3
flesh tones 0
black 1
red 2
other bright colors 3
fishnet, seemed 2
cum soaked 3

Movement
sways hips 1
wiggles butt 2
jiggles tits 2
waddles (when pregnant) 3

Jewelry
None visible -2
Ear tack 0
necklace 1
earrings 2
large flashy earrings 4
large flashy rings 2
numerous loose bracelets 2
nipple ring 3
clitty ring 4

Behavior
stares at crotches of women 1
stares at crotches of men 2
lick lips when sees crotch 3
plays with tits in public 2
plays with pussy in public 3
uses toys in public 5
Exposes tits 3
Flashes beaver 4

Contraception
On pill -1
Norplant -2
Diaghphram 1
Uses Rhythm method 1
Uses Rhythm method,
can't count 3
Depend on man to pull out 3
No protection 1
Uses fertility pills 2

Pregnancy/children
cute buldge 4
about to pop 5
pregnant and nursing add 1
pregnant and has >2 young children 7
pregnant and has >2 teenage children 9
unmarried 2
married but pregnant by lover 4
>3 young children 2
1 or more children<3 &
grown, teenage children 3
children by different fathers 1 per father
got pregnant w/o telling lover 1
got pregnant over
lover's objections 2

Occupation
Traditional male indoor 1
High income 2
Traditional male outdoor 2

Partner
younger lover 2
(extra points for more obvious differences
taller than lover 1
lover of lower social class 3
lover of visibly different
ethnic/racial group 4
several partners simultaneously 2
sex with women 3

Age (added to scores above 20)
12-18 2
19-28 0
29-38 2
39-48 3
49-menopause 4

So lets analyze a typical porn heroine, Ayo in my story "Ayo,"


Forty year old BF 3
Famous scientist (male role, income) 2
Curled hair 2
Large loopy earrings 2
Skirt 9 inches above knee 9
5 inch open toe strappy sandal 8
Toenails painted red 1
Leopard print skirt 1
Low cut, see-through blouse 5
19 year old lover (>20 years difference) 7
Also does women 3
Lover is WM 4
Lover has lower social class occupation 3
6 children, 6 different fathers 12
Pregnant, not showing 5
Got pregnant w/p lover awareness 1
Multiple partners 2
Wiggles hips 2
Jigles tits 2
Exposes tits 3
Flashes beaver 4
Uses vibrator on the highway 2

Total 82
Does anyone have a protagonist that tops Ayo?
 
Um...Vargas? What was the point in posting this thread again? You already did this yesterday, in another thread.

I find your "chart" kind of offensive, to be honest. It screams "shallow" at me. What about what's inside the person, what type of person they are? Or does that not matter to their "sexiness" to you?

Someone that's truly sexy, has a sexy mind, not just a porn actor/actress-type body. :rolleyes:
 
perdita said:
You called? :kiss:


*laughing out loud, blowing you a kiss*.
Exactly, sweet P.

Brains are the strongest sexual turn on (aka, intelligence, wit, humour, sensitivity, compassion.....if she has those, the body and what she wears, although important, come second).

For me, at least.

Mat :heart:
 
Why this index?

I, too, think brains are the sixiest thing a woman can have. The post, however was referring to things that a woman can do/how she can dress to show sexiness.

You may note I did not list 36EEE boobs in the list, either
 
Tatelou said:
Attitude!

(And getting it smacked out of me. :D)

Lou :p

Lou, with that AV, smacking wouldn't be on the agenda...plenty of other activities.........oh yes.....

And no, I'm not contradicting my own post. I already know how intelligent, witty, humorous, sensitive and compassionate you are. Time to check out the bod.

Mat :devil:
 
matriarch said:
Lou, with that AV, smacking wouldn't be on the agenda...plenty of other activities.........oh yes.....

And no, I'm not contradicting my own post. I already know how intelligent, witty, humorous, sensitive and compassionate you are. Time to check out the bod.

Mat :devil:

Blimey! Thank you!!

(The cheque's in the post. ;) )

Seriously, you just made me feel grrrrrreat! And I was already feeling pretty damn good! :D

Besides which, it takes someone with those qualities to recognise a hint of them in someone else. :kiss:

As for sexiness, I do think it's all about attitude, and having brains sure helps with that! ;)

Lou :heart:
 
Re: Why this index?

vargas111 said:
The post, however was referring to things that a woman can do/how she can dress to show sexiness.
Even so, vargas, your list means little if you don't take into consideration the individual woman herself.

E.g., Tatelou's current AV shows a sexy-looking outfit and cleavage, but I find her eyes the real focus of evocation of sensuality, intelligence and love of life. With that face and look she could be wearing a sweatshirt and still call to mind a myriad of exciting responses.

Perdita
 
Re: Why this index?

vargas111 said:
I, too, think brains are the sixiest thing a woman can have. The post, however was referring to things that a woman can do/how she can dress to show sexiness.

You may note I did not list 36EEE boobs in the list, either

Are we supposed to be impressed?:rolleyes:


As usual, we have here a man, telling women what they should be like, in order to be approved by men.
 
Re: Re: Why this index?

perdita said:
Even so, vargas, your list means little if you don't take into consideration the individual woman herself.

E.g., Tatelou's current AV shows a sexy-looking outfit and cleavage, but I find her eyes the real focus of evocation of sensuality, intelligence and love of life. With that face and look she could be wearing a sweatshirt and still call to mind a myriad of exciting responses.

Perdita

Thank you. :heart:

That's the attitude I was talking about. ;)

You also have it aplenty! :devil:

Lou
 
In the Author's Hangout the attractiveness of a person can only be deduced from words on a screen.

Anything else might be an illusion or a construct.

Yet there are some incredibly arousing people around here.

Og
 
Tatelou said:
Blimey! Thank you!!

(The cheque's in the post. ;) )

Seriously, you just made me feel grrrrrreat! And I was already feeling pretty damn good! :D

Besides which, it takes someone with those qualities to recognise a hint of them in someone else. :kiss:

As for sexiness, I do think it's all about attitude, and having brains sure helps with that! ;)

Lou :heart:


I'm not sure.............but I think you just paid me a compliment.

Blimey! Thank you!!

Mat :kiss:
 
Some traits I find sexy:

A person with whom I have an emotional connection with and trust enough to let myself be utterly vulnerable to.

A person who makes me laugh. I don't mean a routine or shtick. That backfires most of the time because it’s so rehearsed. I’m talking about honest humor—whether it’s dry Brit wit or outrageous physical comedy.

A person who is confident. For me, confidence is knowing your own power, gifts and flaws and embracing them without apology or arrogance. A confident person is comfortable with who they are and accepting of themselves.

A person who is willing to let themselves go and give into the moment despite the consequences.
 
Confidence, humor, wit, brains, spontaneity. stray_girl has a very good list. could work for any gender toward any gender.

I don't suppose I should quibble, but it seems to me the trust thing has more to do with love than sexiness. It is sexy to be loved, of course. Every time.

But, here we have a woman, and she's not the only one on the thread, telling men what's sexy, how to be in order to be approved by a woman! And yet, no one is going to complain about that, because this is exactly what many men want to know. The index thing is just silly, unless what you're judging is pinups-- images, not women.
 
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