SEX~good all the time or half the time?

icy

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i have never been in love and i was told that when you are in love and have some type of attraction, whether it be physical or mental, the sex is even better...i dont know for sure, but would love to get some responses :p ;)
 
sex?

some of the time would be good too, icy lol :)

ok, about your comments, I'm always in favour of the mental stimulation, which can quite possibly lead to the physical attraction, which in turn could more than likely make my heart go pitter-patter, and let me want to get up close and very purrrsonal ;) don't know if I'm making sense here, love is such a big word :)
 
I think of an old saying I once read... Sex when it is done right good is great, when it is done wrong, it ain't so bad either.
If you love that person it can only be a plus to the whole endeavor.
 
With the one you love

It can always be Great!...When you know each others wants and needs... you may not always get that perfect earth shattering orgasm each time but they wouldn't be earth shattering if you did.... However the emotional bond is so intense that it makes it all just a whole body and mind fulfilling experience.

There is no comparison...:rose:
 
Renae,,,you are so correct.

One can think of sex much as you think about eating.
Does every meal satisfy you to the same degree or taste
as good? NO. But I don't see you not eating, (oh,,,sorry wrong crowd) LOL.
You get my point. Sex will always be a mixed variety of feelings and emotions. So much better and rewarding when in the context of true close bonds of love for the other person.
Truth for me is, I have such a high erotic quotient, that sex is always great. And the more, the better. I must hush now, or I might begin to spill the beans!!!
 
Re: Renae,,,you are so correct.

zetacon4 said:
One can think of sex much as you think about eating.
Does every meal satisfy you to the same degree or taste
as good? NO. But I don't see you not eating, (oh,,,sorry wrong crowd) LOL.
You get my point. Sex will always be a mixed variety of feelings and emotions. So much better and rewarding when in the context of true close bonds of love for the other person.
Truth for me is, I have such a high erotic quotient, that sex is always great. And the more, the better. I must hush now, or I might begin to spill the beans!!!

You so intrigue me .... spill baby spill.....

I to am insatiably erotic....and that is why I love cuming to Lit....makes my evenings so much hotter.;) :kiss:
 
sex is a double-edged sword, in my case (maybe being a sub/slave is why). sex is used in my training, it is used as my punishment and as my reward...at times i feel as if my love for my Master is held hostage for His sexual pleasure...other times i can't imagine how i ever felt slighted at all...so maybe it depends on what sex represents in a relationship too...
 
The best of the best...

A monumental change in you sex life will happen when you discover the joy that comes from focusing on your partners satisfaction, and guiding her (him) to orgasm after orgasm. The next big step, is when you become comfortable enough to allow your partner to take you to the limit, and then expand your limits, while trusting in her (him), to bring you pleasure and no harm. When both of you can be either passive or aggressive, depending upon your mood at the moment, you will have achieved a delightful balance.

This doesn’t happen overnight, and the road to discovery is a wonderful journey. For some, a very few, the journey starts with love, for others, it starts with a friend, and for others still, a complete stranger. During the course of our life, most of us will experience sex with all three, hopefully enjoying every encounter along the way; however, the most enjoyable, enthralling, all consuming, totally satisfying, completely exhausting, and incredibly addictive sex you will have, is with someone you love, and who loves you equally in return.
 
icy...it's been my experience that sex is a lot better when I'm with someone I love!!!! It's a lot more fun and pleasing!

I've had wonderful experiences with people I'm not in love with, but the bond between 2 people in love thicken and grow during love making! It brings them closer together and they are truely as one!!!!
 
Hi, Icy..............

I have found that every once in a while a person will cross you path in life and trust me it is a rare occurance. But, when it happens it is incredible. It's the whole package the touching, the kissing, the holding one another, it the love making. The five and six hour love making sections that leaves the both of you like exhausted animals. I can honestly say that I knew her boby, her fantasys, and her pleasures better than she did. However, it seems that all good things must come to a end :( After eight years I still remember her! Then you spend the rest of your life searching for that passion again. Yes, its there however you have to find it. But, even if you only experience it once in your life time its better than most that never experience it at all. When you do make love do so with all the passion and fire you pocess. Never be affraid to explore your fantasys..... :D :D :D

Jaded1, CT:devil:

:kiss: JBG:kiss:
 
Jaded1 said:
I have found that every once in a while a person will cross you path in life and trust me it is a rare occurance. But, when it happens it is incredible. It's the whole package the touching, the kissing, the holding one another, it the love making. The five and six hour love making sections that leaves the both of you like exhausted animals. I can honestly say that I knew her boby, her fantasys, and her pleasures better than she did. However, it seems that all good things must come to a end :( After eight years I still remember her! Then you spend the rest of your life searching for that passion again. Yes, its there however you have to find it. But, even if you only experience it once in your life time its better than most that never experience it at all. When you do make love do so with all the passion and fire you pocess. Never be affraid to explore your fantasys..... :D :D :D

Jaded1, CT:devil:

:kiss: JBG:kiss:
I think i found this person,,,,damn it took forever,,,,,,but,,,i can see it being like this,,,,,yeahhhhh ;)
 
I had a problem during my relationship that related to this question.. I was deeply in love with her, but the sex became so predictable.. It seemed sometimes she was only doing it for my benefit, and that obviously ruined it for me. If you have a connection then yes, it can be amazing each time in many different ways.. However, after this experience, I now realise that it cannot always be good every time, even with someone you love.
 
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