Sex/Freak Tests & why some won't do what their answers reflect

[Treat]

OK, here is a question, or rather something to think about.

I know most people have seen these tests one time or another. You know the ones that ask questions and you answer them concerning your sexual desires and what not.

Well the question is, what can you do to get your partner involved or doing the things he/she says they have thought about, are interested in or want to try?

For example, my lady said that toy play amongst a few others are interesting and she would try, while taking the test. But When it comes to her and I one on one, she is a little shy about it. How can one get their respective other to overcome situatuions like this and be able to please or at least let their partner experience something they are thinking about.

 

[Gingersnap]

Taste no wine before its time or risk the inferior.

 

[Treat]

OK Ginger, I had to read that a few times and think on it. But as I understand it, you have a point. After all, good things come to those that wait. Correct?

 

[Stormystarr]

maybe if you wait until she's really into it, then just start by using something that isn't going to frighten her, she'll open up about it. afterall, what can it hurt?

 

[Gingersnap]

You got it Treat!! Most women and men have to trust one another to explore sexually. If you push someone into doing what they aren't really comfortable with you run a real risk of them resenting you. If you love someone and show it by being patient and seducing them gradually into the areas you want to explore it will be worth all the effort and time.

 

[Skitten]

I agree totally with Gingersnap try waiting and talking to her maybe she is embarrassed to let you see her in that position where she cannot control herself. It also could depend on how long you have been together maybe you need to build the trust up a little. Try things that you both would enjoy if she isn't ready for toys yet don't push it. If she says she is interested in it on a test you know the intrest is there just try building up the trust telling her that if it is something she doesn't like you will stop and mean it. Don't push her into anything she isn't ready for.