sex club in portland,OR????

[HansomeStranger]

Looking for a sex club in portland, might be called Ace of hearts, anyway if there are any others in the area i wouldn't mind knowing where....my Wife and I want to go check it out, weve never been to one before and she wants to go(hehe so do I) anyway thanks in advance.

 

[SteamyChik]

It's called the Ace of Hearts...

http://www.aceofhearts.org/

Have fun, be sure to write about it *grin*

 

[naudiz]

20+ years living in this state and I'm finding out about all the good stuff months before moving away.

As a wise man once said: Damn. Just... damn.

 

[HansomeStranger]

thanks

thanks, guys
I'm really not sure to expect. Although the website was helpfull. Our situation is a little odd were both 26 and very good looking. We go to strip clubs on a regular basis. I am strt, my wife is Bi, We've had 1 threesome(and loved it) and a few other close calls that never panned out. She really wants to find a woman that can be gentle but can maybe help her experiment a little. I don't mind her sleeping with another woman alone of course i'd prefer a 3some(what guy wouldn't)anyway she's a little shy but thought we might try the club after i heard about it from a friend. Since weve had trouble finding the right person locally. So any additional info on the club would be helpfull. She wants to know what to expect.

 

[SteamyChik]

If it's like the clubs locally and well run, you can expect something similar to a casual party. There will be house rules usually. Something like this:

If you ask and someone says no, respect it and don't bother them anymore.

If they say no, don't take it personally, they may be having a bad day.

Don't touch anyone unless you ask first. Walking around in the nude or fucking in front of others doesn't mean you can touch or join in without asking.

If someone approaches you, be kind. If the answer is no and will never be yes, be up front with that. If the answer is no for right now, but maybe, then let them know that too.

Go ahead and watch. If people are fucking in an open or public room, they LIKE being watched. So don't be embarrassed, go ahead and watch, just don't get to close to there "space". You're watching them enhances their enjoyment.

If someone is in a private room, door closed. Don't intrude.

Don't get drunk. It's rude and drunk people don't follow the rules. Have a drink fine. Just don't get drunk.

Smoke only where smoking is allowed. If you make a mess of any kind, clean it up.

These are the basic rules for most clubs but all have their own. Email the club you are interested in and ask them. They will be more than happy to talk to you.

One last thing, be sure before you go to KNOW YOUR LIMITS. If you are only interested in women, then you need to know that up front. Be prepared to answer questions like: are you into spanking? anal? blow jobs?

Also, be prepared to watch a lot of people coming on strong to your wife, and your wife will have to watch women coming on strong to you. After all, you are in a swingers club. Until people know what you are looking for, don't get mad or jealous when the come on strong.

Good luck and have fun. Let us know how it turns out.

 

[Guru]

 

[SteamyChik]

Try the phone number or email.

If that doesn't work, most cities have an adult freebie newsletter/newspaper that lists clubs, groups and bars. Since swinger clubs are not exactly advertised in the yellow pages, you might have to go to a known swingers bar to find out where the clubs are.