Sex and Love

[Haida_lee]

I've had several discussions with friends. Most of them have sex because they love it. But I believe that love is love, as it binds the commitment of a human relationship. And sex is sex, as a means of recreation to refresh love. Because I think sex because of love will eventually become a boring routine... What about you?

 

[Statius]

I'm a relationship it's rarely one of the other. If it is it's doomed.

 

[gtnlynn]

When my wife of many years and I have sex, we make love. We love on each other sexually even if orgasms don't happen. We make sure it doesn't get boring. When she had sex with others in college and other times, it was always just an act for physical pleasure. She readily admitted that she just enjoyed "having a hard cock in her pussy." There was no love other than friendship in that sex.

 

[travelinma]

I think you can have sex without love. I also think you can have love without sex.

 

[TemptationTango]

I think you can have sex without love. I also think you can have love without sex.

I agree 100%

 

[Statius]

Neither will last long. That's the point.

 

[leftwantingmore]

Neither will last long. That's the point.

I think that depends on the people involved and how much time and effort you want to put into the sex, the love and/or both.

 

[Paul_Chance]

I tend to separate the two. Love is love, in all it's tender glory. Sex is sex. Sometimes the two tangle up, but they don't need too.

 

[Haida_lee]

Without reducing my respect for other opinions, I agree with this. love is love, sex is sex. love with all its tenderness as a glue to build a committed relationship between husband and wife. Meanwhile, sex, with all its variations and fantasies, tends to be full of violence to achieve sexual pleasure. I can't imagine when I get gentle sex treatment, like slowmotion. I couldn't orgasm for two days. Meaning: sexual pleasure is obtained through violence

 

[Haida_lee]

I tend to separate the two. Love is love, in all it's tender glory. Sex is sex. Sometimes the two tangle up, but they don't need too.

Without reducing my respect for other opinions, I agree with this. love is love, sex is sex. love with all its tenderness as a glue to build a committed relationship between husband and wife. Meanwhile, sex, with all its variations and fantasies, tends to be full of violence to achieve sexual pleasure. I can't imagine when I get gentle sex treatment, like slowmotion. I couldn't orgasm for two days. Meaning: sexual pleasure is obtained through violence

 

[RoanMtn]

I haven't had sex in over 20 years, and I not only miss the sex, but the cuddling and holding one another.

 

[Mike130]

I've had several discussions with friends. Most of them have sex because they love it. But I believe that love is love, as it binds the commitment of a human relationship. And sex is sex, as a means of recreation to refresh love. Because I think sex because of love will eventually become a boring routine... What about you?

I’ve had sex with women just for sex, and I’ve also been in love. It’s a complicated subject. Sex is more physical, love more emotional. I love my wife and love having sex with her. Emotional and physical. And sexual lust for her hasn’t faded in 30 years, it’s not boring at all, in fact, sometimes it’s more intense because we know how to please each other.

Would I mind if she had sex with another guy? Not at all. I only want her happiness and satisfaction. As long as the sex is physical only. There’s a difference between lust and love. She knows the difference.

 

[BillyWalrus]

You can love someone but sex is the glue that holds it together. I used to do divorce work when I practiced law. As long as a couple continued to have sex, there was hope for the marriage. When a couple stopped having sex, it was finished. They might continue to be room mates together and there might even be love but the marriage was over.

 

[LekkerStoutLingerie]

Interesting point! I agree that love and sex can be connected, but they don’t have to be the same. Love brings trust, while sex keeps the spark alive. If it’s always the same, it risks becoming routine. That’s why it helps to explore - a new setting, playful roleplay, or surprising each other with sexy lingerie, bodystockings or a daring babydoll to keep passion fresh.

 

[Haida_lee]

I’ve had sex with women just for sex, and I’ve also been in love. It’s a complicated subject. Sex is more physical, love more emotional. I love my wife and love having sex with her. Emotional and physical. And sexual lust for her hasn’t faded in 30 years, it’s not boring at all, in fact, sometimes it’s more intense because we know how to please each other.

Would I mind if she had sex with another guy? Not at all. I only want her happiness and satisfaction. As long as the sex is physical only. There’s a difference between lust and love. She knows the difference.

That's right... because it seems our ancestors instilled morality in us, but it turns out many of us wear a mask of morality to cover up our wild sexual desires. Our choice is whether to be a hypocrite or an honest person.

 

[MarilynMonroeFan]

I've had several discussions with friends. Most of them have sex because they love it. But I believe that love is love, as it binds the commitment of a human relationship. And sex is sex, as a means of recreation to refresh love. Because I think sex because of love will eventually become a boring routine... What about you?

Well then I hope, your husband, who as it seems not satisfy you with multiple orgasm, is not bored with you either

 

[TinaG_2023]

I "Love sex!"

 

[MarilynMonroeFan]

I've had several discussions with friends. Most of them have sex because they love it. But I believe that love is love, as it binds the commitment of a human relationship. And sex is sex, as a means of recreation to refresh love. Because I think sex because of love will eventually become a boring routine... What about you?

Without reducing my respect for other opinions, I agree with this. love is love, sex is sex. love with all its tenderness as a glue to build a committed relationship between husband and wife. Meanwhile, sex, with all its variations and fantasies, tends to be full of violence to achieve sexual pleasure. I can't imagine when I get gentle sex treatment, like slowmotion. I couldn't orgasm for two days. Meaning: sexual pleasure is obtained through violence

That's right... because it seems our ancestors instilled morality in us, but it turns out many of us wear a mask of morality to cover up our wild sexual desires. Our choice is whether to be a hypocrite or an honest person.

Well, it only shows me, you are the covered one here, with all your fake words…..

Seems, you not know and never will know, what it feels sex with love! Because then, you not needed to play the innocent, who not knows anything about, bdsm and all what you not understand, as in your other thread….
This You wrote, in the bdsm thread!

I'm confused by terms in the world of sex. For example, bondage, BDSM, fetish, hardcore. For me, as long as it doesn't hurt the body, it's okay. All those terms don't matter to me, because the ultimate goal is orgasm. Just like I've always done. Here are some of my photos; please indicate what type of sex they are...

My photo