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unusually,

I understand your concern but you've reached out and done all you can. Don't let his problems become yours. I'm too new here to know him but I do know you need to take care of yourself first, So try to relax, OK?

mars
 
I don't know. Mac has always been kind of a moody guy but I've never seen him this bad.

I wish I had more to say but all I can is that I wish that he gets better real soon.

I'm with you Mac and if its worth anything, I love you.
 
relax Unusually. Ive been in the same boat many many times. ive made others in that boat many times. So I know how it feels on both ends.

He knows he is cared about and you let him know your worried and care very much. Just seeing the way your reacting to it right now is huge and he will see that. He just needs some time to think and cool down. it will be ok. Thinking about suicide is one thing. acting upon it is another. the feeling is new for him right now. give it some time and he will get hs mind somewhat back in order. Be there for him and show him you care. It will be appreciated by him more than you know. Even if you dont get a reply from him right away.
 
You let him know you care and are there for him. That's really all any of us can do for someone else. Now, he has to make the choice to accept your care and concern. We can't force that on anyone. Believe me, I tried. I spent much too long trying to help someone who didn't want my help.

Mac asked for help and you gave it. That's all you can do.
 
thanks, I took it seriously and came to the same conclusion that I said and did what I could. ps a compassionate conservative? go figure!
 
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