Serious question:Do you think it's wrong?

[Blackbich]

It's not wrong. What's wrong is calling you a traitor. Are races political regimes now or something?

But I tell you what... If you are uncomfortable about dating someone of a different race becuase you care what others think, she will feel it . And she will be hurt by it.

So when you are ready to date someone outside of your race (not just the celebrity attraction) , make sure you are really ready, doll.

Originally posted by Johnny Mayberry
The fact that you have a preference tells us nothing. The fact that you have issues with it does.

There's nothing wrong with having preferences, Sexfreak. What they are saying is...why do you care what people say? You need to be comfortable enough with your choices to say fuck you to the people that are giving you shit about it.

When my step-father started giving me shit for dating white guys I just laughed and told him that he couldn't help who I was attracted to. Now, granted, I was doing it for the wrong reason. You know how when you tell a child not to do something they do it anyway. When he realized I was going to continue to see who I wanted, he backed up and stopped making his racist comments. This man also had issues with my sister dating men who were 'too black'. Anyway, since making my point I date who the hell I want to, be they black, white, latin, asian, blue, purple, green.

The point to my babble (if there is one)....you are the one who is going to have to make you happy. If you are happy dating sista's, then do it but do it for the right reason, stand behind your decision and be strong enough to tell the naysayers where to go. As long as there are different skin colors, there are going to be people who won't understand why you are 'lowering yourself to date outside your race'. Fuck them and the horse they rode in on.

*now stepping down from the soapbox*

 

[ozraven]

How do you go with the lights turned out?

 

[patient1]

For me as a white guy to be really unattracted to white women and
only attracted to black women?

I often get refered to as a "traiter"
and other crap.

I like Queen Latifah/Eve/Tony Braxton
and others, but can't seem to be attracted to even women like Pamela Anderson.

Do anything seem wrong with this
to you?

Spelling , & the use of "Do", rather than Does .