QuietListener
Virgin
- Joined
- May 12, 2011
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I'm dealing with a curious situation, and thought I'd stop here first for advice. I'm naturally very subby, but have been doing more Dom things recently at the request of a partner. I'm decent at it because I can see the situation from the other side, but recently she's expressed interest in sensory deprivation, which I've never had much interest in.
I can see the attraction, since no vision or hearing would definitely focus your attention on sensations and make you even more powerless. However, the most effective method at cutting out audio - earplugs - isn't very sexy. My partner has suggested using earbuds and piping in some sort of audio. She says that she'd find this exciting, as I could control what she heard.
Leaving aside my confusion at introducing sound into a sensory deprivation scenario, I'm not at all sure what I would play. I gently pressed her for suggestions, but didn't get any useful feedback. That does make some sense, as she's mostly interested in it as a way for me to exert control over her. However, it's not very helpful when it comes to choosing what might need to be a very long playlist.
Has anyone had experience with this kind of thing, or have any ideas on how I might approach this? I'm afraid I'm at a bit of a loss.
I can see the attraction, since no vision or hearing would definitely focus your attention on sensations and make you even more powerless. However, the most effective method at cutting out audio - earplugs - isn't very sexy. My partner has suggested using earbuds and piping in some sort of audio. She says that she'd find this exciting, as I could control what she heard.
Leaving aside my confusion at introducing sound into a sensory deprivation scenario, I'm not at all sure what I would play. I gently pressed her for suggestions, but didn't get any useful feedback. That does make some sense, as she's mostly interested in it as a way for me to exert control over her. However, it's not very helpful when it comes to choosing what might need to be a very long playlist.
Has anyone had experience with this kind of thing, or have any ideas on how I might approach this? I'm afraid I'm at a bit of a loss.