Sensation play

[MissTaken]

Have you ever played with or been played with solely for the purpose of sensation versus the orgasm?

I was thinking about household items that would be interesting to try, have used on me or be used on another, strictly for sensation!

What sorts of normalcies from our daily life might we use as we strive to find different sensations?

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

Have you ever played with or been played with solely for the purpose of sensation versus the orgasm?

I was thinking about household items that would be interesting to try, have used on me or be used on another, strictly for sensation!

What sorts of normalcies from our daily life might we use as we strive to find different sensations?

Sir does this often, with the most unexpected things, at the most unexpected times. We had just returned from a trip to the mini-mart, where He had purchased a soda and one of those long Slim-Jim beef jerky snacks....the very thin, hard, round ones. I was sitting across from Him, and we were just chatting about something inconsequential, when He snapped me across the breasts with that Slim Jim, as He was talking.

He was asking me questions, so i had to continue to answer, but i felt myself fallllling, down into subspace, it was so hard to answer Him, He was caressing a nipple with that Slim Jim, never taking His eyes off mine, when He pulled His arm back and whipped my breasts again with it. I was barely able to sit on the stool, and He asked me yet another question, and our conversation continued, another lash.

That was the end of it. That was all He would give me. The sensations were amazing...my slide down to subspace was achingly slow and the fact that He wouldn't ALLOW me to get all the way there, and sexualize it was perfect. I felt so small, so submissive, so open.

~anelize

 

[Desdemona]

Have you ever played with or been played with solely for the purpose of sensation versus the orgasm?

I was thinking about household items that would be interesting to try, have used on me or be used on another, strictly for sensation!

What sorts of normalcies from our daily life might we use as we strive to find different sensations?

I think it might be easier to list the things that can't be used for sensation play. LOL

 

[Quint]

I have a standing bet with T, the next time we go to Hobby Lobby: if I can't find at least one potential toy per aisle, I'll get...well, we've never really agreed what I'm going to get, but the point is, I won't get many of them. There's just too much potential in the most mundane objects.

Cooking breakfast, wooden spoon smacking my ass.
Eating breakfast, fork scraping slowly down my thighs.
Brushing my teeth, towel snapping on my ass (notice a certain fixation?).

I could start pretty much every morning that way. o)

Anelize, your story was hot!

 

[Desdemona]

Originally posted by Quint SNIP
There's just too much potential in the most mundane objects.

Exactly my point. Rubber bands, paperclips, a loofah, Q-tips, sandpaper, a nylon pot scrubber, a vegetable brush.... the list is endless. All of these items could be used against the skin to create differing sensations. If you were blindfolded, it could be a fun game to guess what household item was being used. LOL

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

I have a standing bet with T, the next time we go to Hobby Lobby: if I can't find at least one potential toy per aisle, I'll get...well, we've never really agreed what I'm going to get, but the point is, I won't get many of them. There's just too much potential in the most mundane objects.

Cooking breakfast, wooden spoon smacking my ass.
Eating breakfast, fork scraping slowly down my thighs.
Brushing my teeth, towel snapping on my ass (notice a certain fixation?).

I could start pretty much every morning that way. o)

Anelize, your story was hot!

I love Michael's for the same reason.

Thank you, Quint. I'll never look at those SlimJims in quite the same way ever again *smile*

~anelize

 

[FungiUg]

I could offer you my "cyber kitchen" experience, MissT!

My lover has a favourite sex scene which I once described to her online, that she refers to as her "cyber sex"... except it happens to her in real life. It involves kissing, touching, licking but no sex per se. As a lead up to sex, it gets her every time!

Sensation is surely part of any erotic experience!

 

[Native Alien]

I would suggest that you ask Miss Ebonyfire about that Wire Whisk.

 

[MissTaken]

Electric toothbrushes, anyone?


Especially if your sub is blindfolded! Tell him or her it is a small power tool and not only do you have sensation play but a bit of a mindfuck.

 

[catalina_francisco]

wire brushes are also interesting to say the least..and the effects are certainly longer lasting than a minute or two.

Catalina

 

[watergirl]

Wow, anelize!!!! Daaaaaaaamn, honey! Way to go for your Sir!

I'd probably be pissed, but enjoy it, if someone did that to me. He'd get slapped back, certainly.

A guy I work with took a 1"x4" board, about 18" long, carved a handle into one end, and labelled it the ABICKUM stick with a Sharpie.. he's slapped me with that at work, not too hard - but I've cracked him across the back with it but GOOD, too... If I get slapped, he gets slapped back. I can't really say it's BDSM, but he is into pain, that's for sure.... We also have an 18" dowel rod wrapped in lovel burgundy gaff tape (cloth tape, gooood stuff) with a nice black handle - it's called the Ellinator, for a certain someone... that's fun to play with too.

And I'm getting intrigued, too - not for the submissiveness, but just for the sensation. Nothing too painful, yet - he's told me he's being gentle with things for me. So it's interesting... I still don't feel like I have any comprehension of subspace. I live too much in the here and now.

Lit's had weird effect on me, that's for sure.

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

Wow, anelize!!!! Daaaaaaaamn, honey! Way to go for your Sir!

I'd probably be pissed, but enjoy it, if someone did that to me. He'd get slapped back, certainly.

A guy I work with took a 1"x4" board, about 18" long, carved a handle into one end, and labelled it the ABICKUM stick with a Sharpie.. he's slapped me with that at work, not too hard - but I've cracked him across the back with it but GOOD, too... If I get slapped, he gets slapped back. I can't really say it's BDSM, but he is into pain, that's for sure.... We also have an 18" dowel rod wrapped in lovel burgundy gaff tape (cloth tape, gooood stuff) with a nice black handle - it's called the Ellinator, for a certain someone... that's fun to play with too.

And I'm getting intrigued, too - not for the submissiveness, but just for the sensation. Nothing too painful, yet - he's told me he's being gentle with things for me. So it's interesting... I still don't feel like I have any comprehension of subspace. I live too much in the here and now.

Lit's had weird effect on me, that's for sure.

It has a way of creeping up on you. Check out the Library some time. Some good stuff up in there.

Subspace IS very hard to explain. It really is very much the here and now actually. It's now intensified, slowed down, made crystal clear and sharp. *shrugs* There's a thread here where some people try to explain it, including me.


The Landscape of Subspace

Sounds like you are enjoying your discovery of sensation....

There's lots of cool stuff out there to be perverted *grin*

Enjoy the journey.

~anelize

 

[Ebonyfire]

I would suggest that you ask Miss Ebonyfire about that Wire Whisk.

Oh yes, wire whiskes and wooden spoons are great!

Also, feather dusters from the dollar store are great too!

 

[incubus_dark]

Contrasts are good: Soft vs sharp, smooth vs rough, slick vs sticky. For example, needle pricks or drags then cotton balls, scotch bright (I think americans call these brillow pads or something) then velvet, the sticky side of masking tape then silk. All better when the subject is blindfolded. Also, those flat metal things like big spatulas that pastry chefs use make excellent and harsh paddles. Another good one is the bamboo sticks from chinese style placemats tied into a whisk and dragged over the skin.

 

[zanna]

Have you ever played with or been played with solely for the purpose of sensation versus the orgasm?

This happened twice last week. It was kind of strange. One night it involved a knife/candle wax/spanking and the other simply the wax again. But other than those moments themselves, there was no further intimacy. And i have to be honest and say i was not sexually aroused either. i was aroused in that my body was on a higher sensitivity level and my brain spinning a bit, but it was not a i want sex and i want it now type of thing. He tucked me in, left the room soon after both times, and i went to sleep.

 

[concrete]

I happend to to get stuck in a vacuum .
not by my own [ concentuall ] doing mind you.
she turned it on - I got sucked up+ stuck.
so much for that HOOVER....do not try this at home