Semi Cuckold?

[jakelane]

My wife and I are really open to most everything sexual. I have as do most men (I think) have a fantasy of watching my wife get fucked by another man. We both agree though that we will not have sex (intercourse) with another person of the opposite sex. I am good with that, I don'tthink I would be very happy after the fact if I watched her get fucked. We do however have other men join us and I fuck him he does me and we both have fun sucking his cock and whatever. Here is my delima I love getting cum shot on me or in my mouth and I REALLY REALLY want to eat other mens out of her ass and or pussy. it seems the only answe would be to have him ready to fire and then jam him cock in and bam there we go. Is this possible? bad Idea? or just plain fucking hot? I think it would be the hottest most erotic thing sucking on her tight hole and savoring another mans fresh cum.

There it is any feedback. Has anyone else been hot on this idea or been lcky enough to do this? Men and women both perspectives would be great.

 

[kimbernee]

This is in no way meant to imply that your kink isn't 100% fine, but I don't *think* most men have the fantasy of watching their SO get fucked. I'm curious now. Do many of you have this fantasy? (quite aside from the idea of it actually happening, of course)

 

[silverwhisper]

jake quoth:
we do however have other men join us and i fuck him he does me and we both have fun sucking his cock and whatever.

out of curiosity: is your wife similarly free to pursue sex with other women?

like kimbernee, i question whether most men actually have that fantasy: if you're going by the discussion threads you see here on lit, remember that lit isn't the real world. :>

jake queried:
i love getting cum shot on me or in my mouth and i really really want to eat other mens out of her ass and or pussy. it seems the only answe would be to have him ready to fire and then jam him cock in and bam there we go.

if your fantasy involves cream pies, whether vaginal or anal, then i think you need to examine what about that fantasy is so compelling. is it that it's another man's cum after he's fucked her? because if that's the driver behind the fantasy, then half measures are really unlikely to give you the kind of impact you want, i would think.

kimbernee queried:
i don't *think* most men have the fantasy of watching their SO get fucked. i'm curious now. do many of you have this fantasy? (quite aside from the idea of it actually happening, of course)

there are times i do, yes. but then again, that's also sometimes happening in the context of an orgy.

ed

 

[Soka]

I can't speak for most men, but I know that my husband likes to see me get fucked by other men, just as I like watching him play with other men. We enjoy the other person's pleasure, whether it be given by ourselves or another.

As far as making your fantasy play out, I'd talk to your wife about it. In my own experience, my husband and I worried that we'd be jealous or regret letting the other have sex with someone else. In the end, we tried it and liked it and we have no regrets. I can't say that it will be the same way in your experience, but at least talking with your wife will get it out in the open.

Now as far as not having sex with members of the opposite sex, while you are entitled to your own opinion and can make these decisions for yourself, I really have never understood why sex with a member of the opposite sex and sex with a member of the same sex is considered different. Sure, different equipment is used, but sex is still sex. I consider having sex with a man and having sex with a woman the same. I get the same amount of pleasure and it is still another person.

Ok, I'm done. I promise.

 

[jakelane]

All great advice and thank you for the reply. After re reading the post I do see where examining the fantasy would help, there is a lot going on there. We have had most of it at one time or another I guess just not all together.

The reality is I really do want to see my wife getting fucked. There are only a couple of things I like to watch porn for. One is I think women getting fucked good is REALLY HOT. That being said I think my wife is the sexiest girl I could imagine and therefore her getting fucked has to be the HOTTEST. Here is what we decided on last night. Next time we are together and meet a TS that is into us we will take home and have a wonderful night watching them fuck and I will suck every last drop of cum I can find.

That is our solution....

 

[subwannabe]

I think most men like watching women get fucked, thus the adult industry. I mean, really, would there be porn at all if men didn't like watching women get fucked? What I am trying to say is that a good share of men basically only have their significant other for sexual purposes and I think it just naturally translates into them liking watching women get fucked so much that they would like to see the only woman available to them get fucked by another man. I'm not so sure that it is a huge desire to see your wife fucked by another man, just the fact that you would like to see the only woman available to you get fucked by another man. I hope I was able to explain that.

 

[jakelane]

My wife fucking other men is only the means as too getting cum in her pussy. My fantasie is more of the cream pie than her fucking. As I first stated the only dilemma we were having was the sex part. But fact is if I am going to suck other mens sperm out of my wife's pussy or ass hole she is going to have to get fucked. So That answers my question I guess. I will post the results in the morning. I am waiting for them to get home any time now and our night will begin. I am Nervous t be honest but I am sure tis will be one to remember. I love my wife and she loves me the other people are just toys for us to use. That is all.

Good Night,

 

[Joankraig]

I can't speak for most men, but I know that my husband likes to see me get fucked by other men, just as I like watching him play with other men. We enjoy the other person's pleasure, whether it be given by ourselves or another.

As far as making your fantasy play out, I'd talk to your wife about it. In my own experience, my husband and I worried that we'd be jealous or regret letting the other have sex with someone else. In the end, we tried it and liked it and we have no regrets. I can't say that it will be the same way in your experience, but at least talking with your wife will get it out in the open.

Now as far as not having sex with members of the opposite sex, while you are entitled to your own opinion and can make these decisions for yourself, I really have never understood why sex with a member of the opposite sex and sex with a member of the same sex is considered different. Sure, different equipment is used, but sex is still sex. I consider having sex with a man and having sex with a woman the same. I get the same amount of pleasure and it is still another person.

Ok, I'm done. I promise.

Amen, well said!
P.S. - My husband loves watching me and another man.

 

[mentionME]

Speaking personally i think i'd rather not watch my SO have sex with others unless we somehow turn to swinging or something. then again i'm pretty dull when it comes to lit standards..I'm curious like SILVERWHISPER, does your wife also engage in same sex relationships or is it mostly sharing men?

 

[skeptic99]

I think the fantasy of a wife having sex with another man is very common, and entirely understandable, and not all that kinky. It is merely the next step beyond jealousy. That is...it reassures you that your wife is very sexually attractive, it stimulates a tremendous sexual response, and you get to see her as a sexual being in a new way.

There is also a theory that when a women has had the opportunity (or actually has) to have sex with another male it stimulates a powerful response in the male to have sex. This may be an evolutionary response.

All I know that the idea is a powerful aphrodisiac. And if it ever were to happen in real life I think it would be extremely erotic. Although there could be some unforseen negative feelings too.

 

[Hiliburn]

So I want to know what happened?

BTW
My hubby would be bothered by watching me be fucked by another man (woman would be fine lol), but have no problem watching another woman.
Hili

 

[silverwhisper]

jake, did it happen?

ed

 

[robosmith]

this is a very common male fantasy. i agree with skeptic. i think physiologically wives sleeping with other men is deeply seated in a mans subconscious. even though most men would not like to admit it, as we liek to see ourselves as the predictors we like to see women taken by the passion of sex mainly our own.
if my wife was taken in front of me my drive to then mate with her is stronger. even on a evolutionary level i would be urged on to make sure his seed did not reach her egg first. the drive for sex is increased. of course there are physiological sides which need to be overcome but Dependant on the person that my highten this. eg the fear. fear that she might enjoy someone else. but if the sex is just physical and emotionally she was still exclusively mine. basically for me she would show a sexual side to herself i had not reached but in allowing her that lust she is sexually charged women in need. we all love women in need .
Also some women in marriages have a lower sexual drive then there men. so for those men married and still deeply in love to these women the thought of her renewed sexual drive is extremely powerful. if i was to witness her pleasure it would make me love her more and want her to explore her sexually at my witness.

just my understanding. all hail our sexy wives .

 

[stonedme2mysole]

Wow

Great thread and some very interesting insight on this topic. I think the title of the thread is a little misleading, otherwise there would be a lot more traffic.

I would love to see my wife with another man, I am way over the jealousy thing and would just love to see her having fun and enjoying herself !

We are far too busy these days to get that kinky, but perhaps some day...

 

[kelli_qcd]

i LOVE when my WIFE getds fucked by another man... and i LOVE the creampie that he leaves in HER pussy for me.
HER lovers know that after they cum in HER pussy, SHE is going to come home to me so i can lick HER clean.

 

[Rockitballs]

Is watching your wife get fucked by another man more of a husband fantasy or the wife's? I seem to read lots of posts from men who want to watch their wife get fucked, but I don't recall reading too many posts from women who say they want to get fucked by someone else while their husband watches.

For the record, I have no interest in watching my SO get nailed by some other guy. Not that there is anything wrong with that, it just isn't for me.

 

[kelli_qcd]

Is watching your wife get fucked by another man more of a husband fantasy or the wife's? I seem to read lots of posts from men who want to watch their wife get fucked, but I don't recall reading too many posts from women who say they want to get fucked by someone else while their husband watches.

For the record, I have no interest in watching my SO get nailed by some other guy. Not that there is anything wrong with that, it just isn't for me.

so far the watching part has just been on the video my WIFE takes with HER camera.. SHE normally sets it up beside where they are fucking and then when SHE comes home we watch it together...
SHE REALLY enjoys having sex with HER lover and i REALLY enjoy knowing that SHE has come home to me wth HER well fucked pussy full of cum for me to lick and suck out of HER before SHE allows me to fuck HER.. if SHE allows me to that night that is... because sometimes SHE makes me wait...

 

[hotnogs]

This is in no way meant to imply that your kink isn't 100% fine, but I don't *think* most men have the fantasy of watching their SO get fucked. I'm curious now. Do many of you have this fantasy? (quite aside from the idea of it actually happening, of course)

I fantasise about my SO getting fucked by other men, but then I don't in any way profess to be 'normal' in my sexual interests.

Jakelane: The reality is I really do want to see my wife getting fucked. There are only a couple of things I like to watch porn for. One is I think women getting fucked good is REALLY HOT. That being said I think my wife is the sexiest girl I could imagine and therefore her getting fucked has to be the HOTTEST. Here is what we decided on last night. Next time we are together and meet a TS that is into us we will take home and have a wonderful night watching them fuck and I will suck every last drop of cum I can find.

THIS is the best explanation for the fantasy I've ever heard - I think watching women getting fucked is a massive turn on, and I think my SO is the sexiest girl I've ever met, so it's quite a logical combination of two big, big turn ons for me. And when you think about it like that, maybe its the jealousy/fear/insecurity that's illogical

 

[Velia]

My husband loves to watch me enjoy sex - period. Whether it is the soft touch of another woman, the rapacious greed of another man, or the soothing touch of my own manicured fingers.

And between the two of us, there is no jealously. I've known him since the first grade. There is no other.

 

[kelli_qcd]

My husband loves to watch me enjoy sex - period. Whether it is the soft touch of another woman, the rapacious greed of another man, or the soothing touch of my own manicured fingers.

And between the two of us, there is no jealously. I've known him since the first grade. There is no other.

EXACTLY!

 

[Velia]

EXACTLY!

Then I think you would like this:

http://veiledember.wordpress.com/2010/06/17/shelter-from-the-rain/

 

[kelli_qcd]

Then I think you would like this:

http://veiledember.wordpress.com/2010/06/17/shelter-from-the-rain/

wow.. all i can say is wow...
that is awesome.. is it written by you?
if so may i congratulate you on an awesome blog...

there was so much in there that sounds so like my WIFE and myself...

thank you for leading me to such an awesome blog

 

[Velia]

wow.. all i can say is wow...
that is awesome.. is it written by you?
if so may i congratulate you on an awesome blog...

there was so much in there that sounds so like my WIFE and myself...

thank you for leading me to such an awesome blog

Thank you. Thank you so much. You really have me smiling right now.

Yes, it is written by me. I hope it will give people a peek inside true love, but if nothing else, it captures the memory for me and allows me to savor what I have.

Again, thank you.

 

[squarejohn]

My wife and I are really open to most everything sexual. I have as do most men (I think) have a fantasy of watching my wife get fucked by another man. We both agree though that we will not have sex (intercourse) with another person of the opposite sex. I am good with that, I don'tthink I would be very happy after the fact if I watched her get fucked. We do however have other men join us and I fuck him he does me and we both have fun sucking his cock and whatever. Here is my delima I love getting cum shot on me or in my mouth and I REALLY REALLY want to eat other mens out of her ass and or pussy. it seems the only answe would be to have him ready to fire and then jam him cock in and bam there we go. Is this possible? bad Idea? or just plain fucking hot? I think it would be the hottest most erotic thing sucking on her tight hole and savoring another mans fresh cum.

There it is any feedback. Has anyone else been hot on this idea or been lcky enough to do this? Men and women both perspectives would be great.

It sounds like you want to have your cake and eat it, too.