Selfishly Sadistic

[Baron2177]

Hello All
After reading some of the stories posted on here, I have begun to realise i have a sadistic streak as i fantasise about spanking, paddling, caning, whipping submissive females, the harder the better... This would be purely from a punishment point of view, without the master / submissive control relationship that alot of people into the BDSM lifestyle have.
Would love to discuss this further.
Im from UK Sheff / Barnsley area

 

[barefootgirl69]

Without the dynamic, but you want them submissive? Nah. That's a hard hell no. I'm not a masochist, but there's no way I'd get involved without boundaries, agreements, and a dynamic.

Even sadists have to have consent. You should really read to learn more about this before trying this with someone. Stories are nice and great for fantasies, but maybe they should remain fantasies if you don't want all that this type of lifestyle entails.

 

[RogerThat208]

What you claim to seek—in this post anyway—is a masochist, not a submissive. The difference between these terms is both significant and important to any prospective female recipient of your desired fantasy beating , as is your apparent ignorance of it.

You also fail to mention your other post today where you share that you're married, and yet have "confused thoughts about guy / guy fun... I've never really considered myself as Bi but find the idea of being made to pleasure a guy without him pleasuring me quite a turn on."

There's nothing wrong with the latter as a standalone statement of your sexuality, but the fact that you appear to be compartmentalizing these fantasies separately, yet seek to pursue both independently yet simultaneously, is a bit of a red flag to anyone considering engaging with you to either end.