self pic ideas, PLEASE HELP!

[stikkybunz]

I've been sending my wife sexy nudes, and tease pix of my cock in her, and my own panties for quite a while now. after several hundreds of pix, I'm bored myself with the basic poses. I'm looking for fresh ideas. please show or describe some interesting and seductive poses.

 

[SweetErika]

Have you tried looking through the more popular AmPics threads that feature men for ideas?

How about asking your wife what she'd like to see?

 

[Que]

wow....where to start here....i don't know YOUR wife but in a general way I know women..including a wife who was supportive (even nurturing of) crossdressing...(until she wasnt) so i cringe a little...

you said "sexy nudes"...theres a rule for women about looking sexy on the street only expose one area at a time, boobs, belly and legs. pick one. I don;t know the equivalent for guys but I'd think similar...show your chest or a peek at your butt. A thigh, a forearm...like that. Again, I'm generalizing, but less nudity seems to be more with a lot of women.

you said "tease pix of my cock in her" Ok this seems incongruent to me. Ex and I took pics like that even flaunted them here and on our sex blog, but I wouldn't describe them as tease pics..thats graphic hardcore porn in most peoples book...We had fun showing to others but sending it to her seems off...i mean she was THERE at the time. If you were i dunno like play blackmailing her or going way the hell over the top (according to you guy's taste) I can see it accompanied by something filthy, but a "hey babe thinking of you muah sweetie!" and a cock in vag shot or you face fucking her seems like the sort of thing that if in the cold light of day she isnt in a "look at me! im your slut' sort of vibe, i dunno I just wouldnt and I WOULD do a lot of stuf.

then this: "my own panties" this hinges a LOT on your internal dynamic..my wife was very open minded and encouraging I was the ENVY of the married crossdresser community I belonged to but it was hashed out endlessly and it was usually decided that she "can" get aroused while youre dressed but usually doesnt fetishize you that way...typically (and there are LOTS of ways I can be WAY off base here) it is YOUR fetish that she supports not HERS.

Unless of course you are pretty subish and thats a fun way for her to "keep you inline" or whatever..That dynamic isnt me so im probably projecting...im a straight up top. That said look at your other two examples unless you are a hell of a switch, none of this makes sense to me...

SO to answer your question...look at guy threads..i remember my ex really liked y+mx+b his used subtly, lighting, half dressed, like that...seriously I think thats good advice for any guy...

cock pics I send if and only if a girl expresses a very strong salivation for that brand of stimuli...and its not because im shy..im told mines fabulous, but never unless asked. even a well formed one (whatever the hell defines that) is hard to showcase without looking damned silly.

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[thesweetsweetness]

Psst..query... I'm pretty sure OP meant in her panties, not in her, as in sex.

 

[Que]

Hmmm, I can see reading it that way to if so that would be a horse of another gender presentation.... however I still don't get it do you know any women to get turned on by receiving pictures of themselves in panties....

a little crisper syntax on a part of the original poster might help.

I had to read it six times to, make it read the, way you, suggest. I kept tripping over that extraneous, comma, my problem, is i tend to pause when I see a comma.

 

[stikkybunz]

Have you tried looking through the more popular AmPics threads that feature men for ideas?

How about asking your wife what she'd like to see?

im still new to this site. but i will take a look in the ampix. my wife and i are still new to some of the pix, posing ideas. we are both looking for ideas. thank you for the suggestion tho.

 

[stikkybunz]

Psst..query... I'm pretty sure OP meant in her panties, not in her, as in sex.

they are her panties, yes. my apologizes.