Seeking

[readerofstories]

To bad for him, he should not have been disrespectful.

 

[SweetDommes]

To bad for him, he should not have been disrespectful.

Exactly. Not to mention that as a submissive, if a dominant that you are interested in asks or tells you to do something, getting upset and telling them that they have no sense of humor isn't the best way to show that you are submissive.

We have learned that most "submissives" who act like that are just looking to hook up with a couple of bi-females and have no interest in our lifestyle.

 

[INSLY]

Interesting story...

 

[readerofstories]

bump

 

[sweetie_sultry_sub]

SweetDommes,,,

may I ask what happend to te room.. Was I so bad that they all ran away and didn't tell me where they moved? Man never meant to offend anyone....

So sorry

 

[SweetDommes]

SweetDommes,,,

may I ask what happend to te room.. Was I so bad that they all ran away and didn't tell me where they moved? Man never meant to offend anyone....

So sorry

It's off & on ... it has kinda split due to some of us objecting to rules being enforced on some and not others (most notably, cybering and trolling) - I know that it was up yesterday, but haven't been on today due to some health issues. Hopefully someone is around.

 

[sweetie_sultry_sub]

It's off & on ... it has kinda split due to some of us objecting to rules being enforced on some and not others (most notably, cybering and trolling) - I know that it was up yesterday, but haven't been on today due to some health issues. Hopefully someone is around.

I have not seen anyone in two days, I guess maybe I will just try to find a new hang out and wish them all well.

Hope your ok, and feel better soon.

 

[SweetDommes]

Have gotten a few people interested who actually fit the criteria as listed ... but they may or may not actually fit in with our situation - unless you have something that dismisses you outright, we will chat with anyone.

 

[dimTye]

you should have a new PM in your box.

 

[sweetie_sultry_sub]

Stolen moments, secret liaisons, sensual and funny emails, daily IM's.

We talk about our lives, our needs our wants.

We smile over the table at a meal, the stole glances, smirks and giggles, remind me we have more than sexually opportunities together.

Then when we are hidden he grabs me, holds me closely, his kisses hot and filled with hunger.

His mouth devours me, covers me in kisses, and nibbles my neck and ears.

His touches deliberate yet tender enough to remind me he is in control, my heat rises, my liquids flow, my knees buckle, and I am is his.

Though we belong to others, we will share out hidden world, we will remain happy in our shadows of ecstasy, desire, passion, control and submission.

We have become the others life preserver pulling each other from the drowning Sea called the mundane vanilla marriage.

He is My Master, and I his Sub, trust, respect, passion and more is our binding connection, and we are the missing pieces that fit together in that jigsaw puzzle of our daily vanilla lives..

Together we are complete; apart we ache for the other,
I have been collared!

I am whole as well as exultant.

 

[SweetDommes]

Stolen moments, secret liaisons, sensual and funny emails, daily IM's.

We talk about our lives, our needs our wants.

We smile over the table at a meal, the stole glances, smirks and giggles, remind me we have more than sexually opportunities together.

Then when we are hidden he grabs me, holds me closely, his kisses hot and filled with hunger.

His mouth devours me, covers me in kisses, and nibbles my neck and ears.

His touches deliberate yet tender enough to remind me he is in control, my heat rises, my liquids flow, my knees buckle, and I am is his.

Though we belong to others, we will share out hidden world, we will remain happy in our shadows of ecstasy, desire, passion, control and submission.

We have become the others life preserver pulling each other from the drowning Sea called the mundane vanilla marriage.

He is My Master, and I his Sub, trust, respect, passion and more is our binding connection, and we are the missing pieces that fit together in that jigsaw puzzle of our daily vanilla lives..

Together we are complete; apart we ache for the other,
I have been collared!

I am whole as well as exultant.

Great for you sultry

 

[sweetie_sultry_sub]

Great for you sultry

Thank you

 

[Krinaia]

Have gotten a few people interested who actually fit the criteria as listed ... but they may or may not actually fit in with our situation - unless you have something that dismisses you outright, we will chat with anyone.

<snorts>

... they even chat with silly undecided females that fit no criteria at all...

but to be somewhat warnful, i have learned to not agree to submit to anyone asking me to do things online... and i don't give respent until its earned... however, common courtesty is always given... not to get the two confused

hell, my new rule is, no submission, no phone sex, until i have met them and at least kissed them. or been kissed by them as i still have never made the first move.

 

[SweetDommes]

<snorts>

... they even chat with silly undecided females that fit no criteria at all...

but to be somewhat warnful, i have learned to not agree to submit to anyone asking me to do things online... and i don't give respent until its earned... however, common courtesty is always given... not to get the two confused

hell, my new rule is, no submission, no phone sex, until i have met them and at least kissed them. or been kissed by them as i still have never made the first move.

Good rule blue ... we have a number of similar rules, but of course, they have to get that far first ...

 

[SweetDommes]

bumping again

 

[readerofstories]

Hope your weekend went well, and bump.

 

[SweetDommes]

Bump!

Keeping this from getting lost in the mass of threads being posted...

 

[SweetDommes]

Bumping yet again. Can't risk missing the perfect boy just cuz the thread got lost.

 

[konputer]

i'm 19 -- looking to learn a bit.. -- and straight -- i dont do anything with guys, but dont mind anything non-straight happening near me. it's all good.
would you make some exceptions to your rules?

 

[SweetDommes]

i'm 19 -- looking to learn a bit.. -- and straight -- i dont do anything with guys, but dont mind anything non-straight happening near me. it's all good.
would you make some exceptions to your rules?

Depends on what all rules you are expecting exceptions for ...

 

[SweetDommes]

No longer seeking ...

We have made contact with some who actually fit our criteria, and are now planning to meet with one of them (went a bit faster than expected) ... with that in mind, we are closing our search for the moment. If things work out with the ones we are already talking to, we don't want to have anyone getting their hopes up in the meantime. If things don't work out with any of them, we will be posting here again to let all of the subbie-males know.

Miss Karen
Miss Holly

 

[SweetDommes]

*sigh*

Opening the thread again already ...

Of the potentials that we were talking to, we come to find out that one of them smokes, the one that was supposed to come visit just bailed entirely, and two others have just ... vanished ...

So, the opportunity is there again guys, just keep one thing in mind - IF YOU MAKE THE COMMITMENT TO COME SEE US YOU HAD DAMNED WELL BETTER SHOW UP. We are tired of boys jerking us around and leading us on, and if you can't grow a set & have the guts to come see us, even if you have butterflies about it (and trust me, I'll have them too), then you aren't worthy and you need to tell us and move on. We are pretty understanding about things, and we know that nerves and cold feet happen ... just be honest about it with us.

 

[Krinaia]

Re: *sigh*

Opening the thread again already ...

Of the potentials that we were talking to, we come to find out that one of them smokes, the one that was supposed to come visit just bailed entirely, and two others have just ... vanished ...

So, the opportunity is there again guys, just keep one thing in mind - IF YOU MAKE THE COMMITMENT TO COME SEE US YOU HAD DAMNED WELL BETTER SHOW UP. We are tired of boys jerking us around and leading us on, and if you can't grow a set & have the guts to come see us, even if you have butterflies about it (and trust me, I'll have them too), then you aren't worthy and you need to tell us and move on. We are pretty understanding about things, and we know that nerves and cold feet happen ... just be honest about it with us.

saddly.... male "dominants" have shown me the same disrespect

 

[SweetDommes]

Re: Re: *sigh*

saddly.... male "dominants" have shown me the same disrespect

And unfortunately, I can't even male-bash and say that it's only a male thing to do, as someone on one of our other threads pointed out ... they got stood up by a female dominant.

It's just entirely frustrating ... so if there are guys out there who fit the criteria, and have the balls to go for something that they want, let us know ... please ... before my mom decides to try playing matchmaker

 

[SweetDommes]

I've noticed you mention this thread elsewhere, but this is the first I've seen of it... I promise.

I fear I might not quite fit all of your criteria, but I thought I might say hello & introduce myself to be cordial, at least... & maybe a few other lads may follow my lead.

First of all I'm switch... leaning towards sub.

I am not enamoured with pets, but I did grow up with dozens of them, & haven't any issues either. I like animals, but I also like not having to clean up after them.

I am not bi... I just don't find the male body the least bit arrousing or erotic... the human body in general I think is incredibly beautiful... aesthitically. I am not homophobic however... & have been accused of being much more corrupt than my innocent visage portends.

Most unfortunately, I am not currently relocatable... on the other hand... I have No idea where I will be living come September (my room mates are expecting in August.. & I currently live in their nursery to be)

I am more than willing to be honest with you about my interest... I myself have been stood up before... & it's not fun. I do however consider the truth to be something with which to be responsible.... but I think that is an entirely different conversation.

Perhaps my greatest disqualifier; I am from the Seattle area rather than the Midwest... I rescently visited South Dakota & found it pretty depressing... not enough trees!!

Also, I have had some body issues in the past, odd for a massage therapist I know, & they still rear their ugly heads in strange ways... so your preference towards nudity would be Very difficult for me...

I allowed this thread to be burried for awhile, that's probably why you haven't seen it before.

Honesty is always best, even when it is painful. The truth should not be used to hurt someone deliberately, but it should not be avoided for any reason.

We are not in SD and we have trees, don't worry ... lots of them. The Seattle thing ... yeah, that's a slight problem. We prefer our boys to be within a few hours drive, not a few hours flight ... but such is life.

As for any body issues you may have - we are called "sweet" for a reason -- we work with our boys with their problems, and push them to get better ... that's what a good Dominant does.