Seeking Someone Special!

[Whimsical_Enchantress]

Let's have fun and frolic through our fabulous fantasies.... I have partaken in the offerings this site has to offer for several months now, and I have come to some interesting revelations. Many folks assume to know others, without really getting to "Know" them, or taking the time to listen. Others, meanwhile love to cum and go. And then, we have those who really don't know what they want, let alone understand a woman's needs and desires. Some of us know what we seek and are not afraid to try new things. In the end, I think some get lost in their persona here, and probably don't truly show their true selves.

As we go through various stages of our lives, we go through periods of education, of risk, of curiosity, of staying safe, and my favorite, exploration. We all question how we want to define ourselves, our relationships, what we choose and need for ourselves. My journey is in many ways feeling as if I am at the beginning again, even though it is somewhere in the middle. While I explore myself and learn the lusty desires I have for myself, I am happy and content. As I expand my knowledge of myself and increase the places I may dare to dream or things I wish to explore, at the end of it all, I seek individuals who are genuine and kind, individuals who see the other person as someone with passions, too.

1. My truest, deepest happiness comes from being able to feel him, breathe him, lick and taste him. And when all is complete with the day, I would be able to fold myself within his mind and body. Knowing in my heart that I can be wanton and safe. Feeling him, in my mind, heart, and soul when he is nowhere near me. And sensing his thoughts and needs even without being told.. Seeing him smile, when I have pleased him is my greatest reward.
2. Lord of the Rings is a favorite of mine. While reading it, I am transported to another world. Granted a world of fantasy. But a fantasy deeply entrenched in duty, truth, honesty, and moral compasses that while not always pointing due north, find their way there eventually. Deep committed relationships are forged under some extraordinary and sometimes dangerous situations, and as different from one another as everyone is, they form a truly devoted family. When my life is in complete turmoil, it is a place I can go to read myself to peace. Much like the relationships and individuals I seek.
3. Words that describe what I desire: "From the beginning they fit together like a hand and glove. There was never the ability to deny one another anything that was wished for together!"
   
   
   In the end, new beginnings bring about the end of our lives before, making us new into one another. It is not that we stop being ourselves, it is just, that we get to become more, in one another. A wonderful and special gift. Be whimsical and enchant me! Send me a message if you too want to begin again!
   
   
   
   

 

[cutcrystal]

Let's have fun and frolic through our fabulous fantasies.... I have partaken in the offerings this site has to offer for several months now, and I have come to some interesting revelations. Many folks assume to know others, without really getting to "Know" them, or taking the time to listen. Others, meanwhile love to cum and go. And then, we have those who really don't know what they want, let alone understand a woman's needs and desires. Some of us know what we seek and are not afraid to try new things. In the end, I think some get lost in their persona here, and probably don't truly show their true selves.

As we go through various stages of our lives, we go through periods of education, of risk, of curiosity, of staying safe, and my favorite, exploration. We all question how we want to define ourselves, our relationships, what we choose and need for ourselves. My journey is in many ways feeling as if I am at the beginning again, even though it is somewhere in the middle. While I explore myself and learn the lusty desires I have for myself, I am happy and content. As I expand my knowledge of myself and increase the places I may dare to dream or things I wish to explore, at the end of it all, I seek individuals who are genuine and kind, individuals who see the other person as someone with passions, too.

1. My truest, deepest happiness comes from being able to feel him, breathe him, lick and taste him. And when all is complete with the day, I would be able to fold myself within his mind and body. Knowing in my heart that I can be wanton and safe. Feeling him, in my mind, heart, and soul when he is nowhere near me. And sensing his thoughts and needs even without being told.. Seeing him smile, when I have pleased him is my greatest reward.
2. Lord of the Rings is a favorite of mine. While reading it, I am transported to another world. Granted a world of fantasy. But a fantasy deeply entrenched in duty, truth, honesty, and moral compasses that while not always pointing due north, find their way there eventually. Deep committed relationships are forged under some extraordinary and sometimes dangerous situations, and as different from one another as everyone is, they form a truly devoted family. When my life is in complete turmoil, it is a place I can go to read myself to peace. Much like the relationships and individuals I seek.
3. Words that describe what I desire: "From the beginning they fit together like a hand and glove. There was never the ability to deny one another anything that was wished for together!"
   
   
   In the end, new beginnings bring about the end of our lives before, making us new into one another. It is not that we stop being ourselves, it is just, that we get to become more, in one another. A wonderful and special gift. Be whimsical and enchant me! Send me a message if you too want to begin again!
   
   
   

Another enchanting post from an enchanting mind.

CC

 

[Whimsical_Enchantress]

I'm done with the online headgames on here; if you are here to twist minds, or manipulate others, or have multiple screen names to harass an individual, PLEASE Don't Message me! I am a kind, but strong woman looking to meet kind and giving friends to chat with, not individuals who are all about themselves. Whether that be sexually or in friendship, I would remind folks kindly that we all have the right to enjoy reciprocal treatment. If you're looking to be focused solely on you, then please seek someone else out. I truly want to meet nice and engaging people who want to have fun.....I have conceded that anything else, that I originally sought, isn't possible here. I have learned my lesson that more was a fantasy that doesn't exist anymore. I do hope though that I can meet some nice people at least. If that's you, let me know!!

 

[Mtnmike]

I'm done with the online headgames on here; if you are here to twist minds, or manipulate others, or have multiple screen names to harass an individual, PLEASE Don't Message me! I am a kind, but strong woman looking to meet kind and giving friends to chat with, not individuals who are all about themselves. Whether that be sexually or in friendship, I would remind folks kindly that we all have the right to enjoy reciprocal treatment. If you're looking to be focused solely on you, then please seek someone else out. I truly want to meet nice and engaging people who want to have fun.....I have conceded that anything else, that I originally sought, isn't possible here. I have learned my lesson that more was a fantasy that doesn't exist anymore. I do hope though that I can meet some nice people at least. If that's you, let me know!!

As I said before, I'm sorry you ladies have to deal with this, I wish there was a way to stop it.
You have been nothing but kind to me & I hope I'm returning the favor.

 

[Whimsical_Enchantress]

As I said before, I'm sorry you ladies have to deal with this, I wish there was a way to stop it.
You have been nothing but kind to me & I hope I'm returning the favor.

You're a very kind person, thank you for reaching out!!

 

[Whimsical_Enchantress]

I’m in 100% agreement with Mtnmike. I’m sorry that you’re being bothered. BTW, I like your posts

Thank you, I really appreciate the kindness. *Warm hugs.*

 

[Whimsical_Enchantress]

I am not your typical good girl. I am voraciously verbose, vehemently vivacious, and voluptuous!!! Wordy and flirty, I adore a man who knows how to be devilish and dirty, intelligent and investigative, and passionate as well as pleasuring! Licking my lips, I am excited to meet those who can meld mindful meandering and measured marauding. A sense of humor is a must as well as someone who is sincere about wanting to spend time together, embracing exciting excess. Please only message if you have a desire to know someone intimately and you don't seek someone to unload your personal baggage on, I love to support someone reciprocally. Audacity and Aspiring Individuals Need Apply....

 

[Mtnmike]

I am not your typical good girl. I am voraciously verbose, vehemently vivacious, and voluptuous!!! Wordy and flirty, I adore a man who knows how to be devilish and dirty, intelligent and investigative, and passionate as well as pleasuring! Licking my lips, I am excited to meet those who can meld mindful meandering and measured marauding. A sense of humor is a must as well as someone who is sincere about wanting to spend time together, embracing exciting excess. Please only message if you have a desire to know someone intimately and you don't seek someone to unload your personal baggage on, I love to support someone reciprocally. Audacity and Aspiring Individuals Need Apply....

I heard the word voluptuous, you're playing my song.

 

[Whimsical_Enchantress]

Trying to figure out what I seek on here has come with its joys and its challenges. Knowing what I want and then being disappointed can be unfulfilling or rewarding, depending on the lens you view it from. As I delve deeper here, in my inner sanctum, I realize here's what I seek in an online partner/friend/and once a foundation is built, a D/s Partner:

With this person:

1. I Can Be Myself​

I don’t have to be ‘on’ all the time. He embraces my quirks, and he understands that sometimes a Woman just has to be herself!

In D/s-With a twist: I'm a reflection of him at all times, but part of why he likes me is, well, me! My personality is not stifled, and though a certain degree of decorum might be called for (time and place), he likes me just the way I am.

2. I Can Tell Him Anything​

I don’t have to govern your thoughts or words with him. I can tell him anything that crosses my mind and I don’t feel judged.

With a twist: There might be times when I'm not allowed to speak, and broaching certain subjects could require a degree of reverence or ceremony (e.g., ‘Sir, may I speak to you regarding an issue?’). But the bottom line is he has my best interests in mind and will always want to hear the real me.

3. He Knows ME​

He knows my favorite color and how I take my coffee, that I hate cilantro. I interest him, and he pays attention to the little things because the little things are what make me me.

With a twist: He’s taken the time to know the vanilla me, so I know you can trust him with my vulnerable and dirty sides, as well. Even if I'm uncertain where things are headed, I know I can sit back and trust his direction.

4. He Listens​

He doesn’t simply wait for his turn to talk, he listens to me. No false starts or interruptions. He’s listening and I know it.

With a twist: The decision might ultimately be his, but I've found a man who actually hears me. Regardless of what he decides, I know in my bones that my thoughts and feelings are on the table and he’s taking them seriously.

5. I feel safe​

He’s not going to hurt me and I know it all the way to my core.

With a twist: Sometimes he’s actually going to hurt me, but I've entered into this part of the relationship willing and wanting. And even though the pain - however that looks in my relationship - I know in my heart he’s not going to damage me.

6. I Don’t Worry About His Feelings For ME​

I just don’t. ‘Does he like me as much as I like him?’ This guy is as into me as I am into him, and I know it. Plus, he tells and shows me all the time, so there’s that.

With a twist: Some dominant men strive to create an air of mystery around their feelings for you (”Gotta keep her on her toes…’), but this guy knows the best relationships - vanilla or kinky - are transparent.

7. We Enjoy Each Other’s Company​

I enjoy spending time with him, both exciting times and downtime.

With a twist: We like the same things and are on the same page when it comes to both our vanilla and D/s-related activities and desires. We have fun together no matter what you’re doing.

8. He Makes Things Happen​

He takes care of his business and himself. He has a plan and he follows through to enrich his - and potentially my - life. He doesn’t sit back and wait for life to happen, he goes out and grabs it with both hands.

With a twist: He helps facilitate amazing and positive things.

9. I Feel Good When We're Together​

I'm happy and confident, and he makes me feel good about myself. He makes me truly believe I'm good.

With a twist: He encourages my confidence and feelings of self-worth. He knows that what I believe about myself is my reality, what I will become. He wants nothing but the best for my psyche and morale, and his words and actions enhance my well-being.

10. He Includes Me in His Life​

I'm his person and he lets me, know this in myriad ways. We're in this together, and it shows.

With a twist: I'm not kept in a box; our relationship isn’t compartmentalized. I'm not an ornament that’s brought out only for play; we are part of each other’s online lives - the pretty and the gritty.

11. He Respects Me​

I have a job or career, hobbies, and friends of my own. He embraces and encourages my autonomy, the things aside from him that make me who I am.

With a twist: He knows I'm an individual who is ultimately responsible for my own life, regardless of what we've agreed upon behind closed chat room walls.

​

12. He Keeps His Word​

He says what he means and he means what he says. Promises are never broken because this is a man who would never promise something he can’t deliver.

With a twist: There is no twist. A dominant man is a man of his word. Full stop.

13. He Fights Fair​

Everything can’t always be rosy, but my guy keeps his shit together and knows how to use his words. He might need some alone time to decompress or work out what he wants to say, but he’ll always let me know where things stand and what he needs to move forward in a healthy and respectful manner.

With a twist: This man doesn’t power-trip when we're having a disagreement. He doesn’t play little boy mind games (e.g., silent treatment, multiple names, or isolation) or pull the ‘I AM YOUR D-TYPE MASTER DADDY, DO AS I SAY’ card simply because he’s angry or upset.

14. He Makes Me Laugh My Face Off​

He’s funny as hell (and finds me hilarious)! Life ain’t always a zany affair, but when we laugh together, we laugh hard.

With a twist: Everything isn’t doom and gloom, even during our darkest and most deviant shenanigans.

15. We're Happy​

Life is good! Bottom line? Our world is brighter.

With a twist: Whether dancing in the light of day or descending the depths of depravity, this man makes me happy. I do not feel I have to endure the darkness to fully enjoy the light; all of it makes me joyful.

I really don't want to give up my dream of finding this online connection here, so I think I will keep trying!! Message if you, too may be seeking something similar.

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

That's a fantastically written list. You are obviously a smart, sexual woman. I wish I had more of the traits you desire, but I'm not that Dom. I just have fun.

Good luck, though. You are very intriguing.

 

[Inbef]

Wow, one of the best posts in this swamp of horniness.

 

[cutcrystal]

I like the refreshing ideology of your posts... You are asking for and "know" what you want. When you ask you find what you desire gravitating to you. And you "know" when you are connected with it. And I am sorry to hear you met with a troll attack. Here's wishing you freedom from that...

 

[Mrtenant]

Good to meet you. And good fortune to you in your search for someone that meets your ideological list. Along the way, you are certain to meet ogres, trolls, cardassians (sp? haha), witches, and various other scum. (Double checking myself in the mirror)

More importantly, if you are persistent and choose to battle your way through the above horrors, you will likely be wounded to some extent.

You will also meet some amazing people and develop true friendships. Most of us are flawed. We fuck up. Likely your ideal online partner will be too.

Like any friendship offline, remember that you claim your friends as friends, extend courtesy and expect it. Know when someone is just yanking your chain for laughs, forgive, but do not be a doormat. (Unless you're into that, in which case, send pics )

I have been here several years and have made colossal blunders. I trust in my own self worth though, that people will see that. If they don't, well, there's always the ignore button.

Good luck.

 

[Whimsical_Enchantress]

Good to meet you. And good fortune to you in your search for someone that meets your ideological list. Along the way, you are certain to meet ogres, trolls, cardassians (sp? haha), witches, and various other scum. (Double checking myself in the mirror)

More importantly, if you are persistent and choose to battle your way through the above horrors, you will likely be wounded to some extent.

You will also meet some amazing people and develop true friendships. Most of us are flawed. We fuck up. Likely your ideal online partner will be too.

Like any friendship offline, remember that you claim your friends as friends, extend courtesy and expect it. Know when someone is just yanking your chain for laughs, forgive, but do not be a doormat. (Unless you're into that, in which case, send pics )

I have been here several years and have made colossal blunders. I trust in my own self worth though, that people will see that. If they don't, well, there's always the ignore button.

Good luck.

Thank you for the kind and thoughtful words; they are deeply appreciated!!

 

[Whimsical_Enchantress]

I have been on here for a few months, and I have realized that maybe I'm seeking that rare diamond in a field of cubic zirconia. I lust after someone who is strong, caring, compassionate, and truly genuinely interested in not just exploring sex and sensual adventures, but developing a delicious duo. I am looking for the one who sparkles with warmth and laughter for an online rendezvous, eventually leading to a strong relationship or companionship virtually. If you just want to cum and go, please look elsewhere. I enjoy intellectual conversations and stimulating my mind as well as body.....I seek a Sensual Sorcerer who mystifies with me with his charisma, making me Mystically Mischievous and Melodic!! *Moans and Murmurs.* n

Message Me Making More Mischief!!

 

[Booboobear84]

I have been on here for a few months, and I have realized that maybe I'm seeking that rare diamond in a field of cubic zirconia. I lust after someone who is strong, caring, compassionate, and truly genuinely interested in not just exploring sex and sensual adventures, but developing a delicious duo. I am looking for the one who sparkles with warmth and laughter for an online rendezvous, eventually leading to a strong relationship or companionship virtually. If you just want to cum and go, please look elsewhere. I enjoy intellectual conversations and stimulating my mind as well as body.....I seek a Sensual Sorcerer who mystifies with me with his charisma, making me Mystically Mischievous and Melodic!! *Moans and Murmurs.* n

Message Me Making More Mischief!!

Shiny;-)

 

[ashesatwork]

Trying to figure out what I seek on here has come with its joys and its challenges. Knowing what I want and then being disappointed can be unfulfilling or rewarding, depending on the lens you view it from. As I delve deeper here, in my inner sanctum, I realize here's what I seek in an online partner/friend/and once a foundation is built, a D/s Partner:

With this person:

1. I Can Be Myself​

I don’t have to be ‘on’ all the time. He embraces my quirks, and he understands that sometimes a Woman just has to be herself!

In D/s-With a twist: I'm a reflection of him at all times, but part of why he likes me is, well, me! My personality is not stifled, and though a certain degree of decorum might be called for (time and place), he likes me just the way I am.

2. I Can Tell Him Anything​

I don’t have to govern your thoughts or words with him. I can tell him anything that crosses my mind and I don’t feel judged.

With a twist: There might be times when I'm not allowed to speak, and broaching certain subjects could require a degree of reverence or ceremony (e.g., ‘Sir, may I speak to you regarding an issue?’). But the bottom line is he has my best interests in mind and will always want to hear the real me.

3. He Knows ME​

He knows my favorite color and how I take my coffee, that I hate cilantro. I interest him, and he pays attention to the little things because the little things are what make me me.

With a twist: He’s taken the time to know the vanilla me, so I know you can trust him with my vulnerable and dirty sides, as well. Even if I'm uncertain where things are headed, I know I can sit back and trust his direction.

4. He Listens​

He doesn’t simply wait for his turn to talk, he listens to me. No false starts or interruptions. He’s listening and I know it.

With a twist: The decision might ultimately be his, but I've found a man who actually hears me. Regardless of what he decides, I know in my bones that my thoughts and feelings are on the table and he’s taking them seriously.

5. I feel safe​

He’s not going to hurt me and I know it all the way to my core.

With a twist: Sometimes he’s actually going to hurt me, but I've entered into this part of the relationship willing and wanting. And even though the pain - however that looks in my relationship - I know in my heart he’s not going to damage me.

6. I Don’t Worry About His Feelings For ME​

I just don’t. ‘Does he like me as much as I like him?’ This guy is as into me as I am into him, and I know it. Plus, he tells and shows me all the time, so there’s that.

With a twist: Some dominant men strive to create an air of mystery around their feelings for you (”Gotta keep her on her toes…’), but this guy knows the best relationships - vanilla or kinky - are transparent.

7. We Enjoy Each Other’s Company​

I enjoy spending time with him, both exciting times and downtime.

With a twist: We like the same things and are on the same page when it comes to both our vanilla and D/s-related activities and desires. We have fun together no matter what you’re doing.

8. He Makes Things Happen​

He takes care of his business and himself. He has a plan and he follows through to enrich his - and potentially my - life. He doesn’t sit back and wait for life to happen, he goes out and grabs it with both hands.

With a twist: He helps facilitate amazing and positive things.

9. I Feel Good When We're Together​

I'm happy and confident, and he makes me feel good about myself. He makes me truly believe I'm good.

With a twist: He encourages my confidence and feelings of self-worth. He knows that what I believe about myself is my reality, what I will become. He wants nothing but the best for my psyche and morale, and his words and actions enhance my well-being.

10. He Includes Me in His Life​

I'm his person and he lets me, know this in myriad ways. We're in this together, and it shows.

With a twist: I'm not kept in a box; our relationship isn’t compartmentalized. I'm not an ornament that’s brought out only for play; we are part of each other’s online lives - the pretty and the gritty.

11. He Respects Me​

I have a job or career, hobbies, and friends of my own. He embraces and encourages my autonomy, the things aside from him that make me who I am.

With a twist: He knows I'm an individual who is ultimately responsible for my own life, regardless of what we've agreed upon behind closed chat room walls.

​

12. He Keeps His Word​

He says what he means and he means what he says. Promises are never broken because this is a man who would never promise something he can’t deliver.

With a twist: There is no twist. A dominant man is a man of his word. Full stop.

13. He Fights Fair​

Everything can’t always be rosy, but my guy keeps his shit together and knows how to use his words. He might need some alone time to decompress or work out what he wants to say, but he’ll always let me know where things stand and what he needs to move forward in a healthy and respectful manner.

With a twist: This man doesn’t power-trip when we're having a disagreement. He doesn’t play little boy mind games (e.g., silent treatment, multiple names, or isolation) or pull the ‘I AM YOUR D-TYPE MASTER DADDY, DO AS I SAY’ card simply because he’s angry or upset.

14. He Makes Me Laugh My Face Off​

He’s funny as hell (and finds me hilarious)! Life ain’t always a zany affair, but when we laugh together, we laugh hard.

With a twist: Everything isn’t doom and gloom, even during our darkest and most deviant shenanigans.

15. We're Happy​

Life is good! Bottom line? Our world is brighter.

With a twist: Whether dancing in the light of day or descending the depths of depravity, this man makes me happy. I do not feel I have to endure the darkness to fully enjoy the light; all of it makes me joyful.

I really don't want to give up my dream of finding this online connection here, so I think I will keep trying!! Message if you, too may be seeking something similar.

I've been here many years... don't give up. The good ones are around. Just takes time. There's alot of woman craving the same. Oddly enough there's prolly 5 times as many men. They just don't see every good request.

 

[Booboobear84]

Trying to figure out what I seek on here has come with its joys and its challenges. Knowing what I want and then being disappointed can be unfulfilling or rewarding, depending on the lens you view it from. As I delve deeper here, in my inner sanctum, I realize here's what I seek in an online partner/friend/and once a foundation is built, a D/s Partner:

With this person:

1. I Can Be Myself​

I don’t have to be ‘on’ all the time. He embraces my quirks, and he understands that sometimes a Woman just has to be herself!

In D/s-With a twist: I'm a reflection of him at all times, but part of why he likes me is, well, me! My personality is not stifled, and though a certain degree of decorum might be called for (time and place), he likes me just the way I am.

2. I Can Tell Him Anything​

I don’t have to govern your thoughts or words with him. I can tell him anything that crosses my mind and I don’t feel judged.

With a twist: There might be times when I'm not allowed to speak, and broaching certain subjects could require a degree of reverence or ceremony (e.g., ‘Sir, may I speak to you regarding an issue?’). But the bottom line is he has my best interests in mind and will always want to hear the real me.

3. He Knows ME​

He knows my favorite color and how I take my coffee, that I hate cilantro. I interest him, and he pays attention to the little things because the little things are what make me me.

With a twist: He’s taken the time to know the vanilla me, so I know you can trust him with my vulnerable and dirty sides, as well. Even if I'm uncertain where things are headed, I know I can sit back and trust his direction.

4. He Listens​

He doesn’t simply wait for his turn to talk, he listens to me. No false starts or interruptions. He’s listening and I know it.

With a twist: The decision might ultimately be his, but I've found a man who actually hears me. Regardless of what he decides, I know in my bones that my thoughts and feelings are on the table and he’s taking them seriously.

5. I feel safe​

He’s not going to hurt me and I know it all the way to my core.

With a twist: Sometimes he’s actually going to hurt me, but I've entered into this part of the relationship willing and wanting. And even though the pain - however that looks in my relationship - I know in my heart he’s not going to damage me.

6. I Don’t Worry About His Feelings For ME​

I just don’t. ‘Does he like me as much as I like him?’ This guy is as into me as I am into him, and I know it. Plus, he tells and shows me all the time, so there’s that.

With a twist: Some dominant men strive to create an air of mystery around their feelings for you (”Gotta keep her on her toes…’), but this guy knows the best relationships - vanilla or kinky - are transparent.

7. We Enjoy Each Other’s Company​

I enjoy spending time with him, both exciting times and downtime.

With a twist: We like the same things and are on the same page when it comes to both our vanilla and D/s-related activities and desires. We have fun together no matter what you’re doing.

8. He Makes Things Happen​

He takes care of his business and himself. He has a plan and he follows through to enrich his - and potentially my - life. He doesn’t sit back and wait for life to happen, he goes out and grabs it with both hands.

With a twist: He helps facilitate amazing and positive things.

9. I Feel Good When We're Together​

I'm happy and confident, and he makes me feel good about myself. He makes me truly believe I'm good.

With a twist: He encourages my confidence and feelings of self-worth. He knows that what I believe about myself is my reality, what I will become. He wants nothing but the best for my psyche and morale, and his words and actions enhance my well-being.

10. He Includes Me in His Life​

I'm his person and he lets me, know this in myriad ways. We're in this together, and it shows.

With a twist: I'm not kept in a box; our relationship isn’t compartmentalized. I'm not an ornament that’s brought out only for play; we are part of each other’s online lives - the pretty and the gritty.

11. He Respects Me​

I have a job or career, hobbies, and friends of my own. He embraces and encourages my autonomy, the things aside from him that make me who I am.

With a twist: He knows I'm an individual who is ultimately responsible for my own life, regardless of what we've agreed upon behind closed chat room walls.

​

12. He Keeps His Word​

He says what he means and he means what he says. Promises are never broken because this is a man who would never promise something he can’t deliver.

With a twist: There is no twist. A dominant man is a man of his word. Full stop.

13. He Fights Fair​

Everything can’t always be rosy, but my guy keeps his shit together and knows how to use his words. He might need some alone time to decompress or work out what he wants to say, but he’ll always let me know where things stand and what he needs to move forward in a healthy and respectful manner.

With a twist: This man doesn’t power-trip when we're having a disagreement. He doesn’t play little boy mind games (e.g., silent treatment, multiple names, or isolation) or pull the ‘I AM YOUR D-TYPE MASTER DADDY, DO AS I SAY’ card simply because he’s angry or upset.

14. He Makes Me Laugh My Face Off​

He’s funny as hell (and finds me hilarious)! Life ain’t always a zany affair, but when we laugh together, we laugh hard.

With a twist: Everything isn’t doom and gloom, even during our darkest and most deviant shenanigans.

15. We're Happy​

Life is good! Bottom line? Our world is brighter.

With a twist: Whether dancing in the light of day or descending the depths of depravity, this man makes me happy. I do not feel I have to endure the darkness to fully enjoy the light; all of it makes me joyful.

I really don't want to give up my dream of finding this online connection here, so I think I will keep trying!! Message if you, too may be seeking something similar.

My reaction (biased) is that every man should strive to be most if not all of that.

 

[Booboobear84]

Let's have fun and frolic through our fabulous fantasies.... I have partaken in the offerings this site has to offer for several months now, and I have come to some interesting revelations. Many folks assume to know others, without really getting to "Know" them, or taking the time to listen. Others, meanwhile love to cum and go. And then, we have those who really don't know what they want, let alone understand a woman's needs and desires. Some of us know what we seek and are not afraid to try new things. In the end, I think some get lost in their persona here, and probably don't truly show their true selves.

As we go through various stages of our lives, we go through periods of education, of risk, of curiosity, of staying safe, and my favorite, exploration. We all question how we want to define ourselves, our relationships, what we choose and need for ourselves. My journey is in many ways feeling as if I am at the beginning again, even though it is somewhere in the middle. While I explore myself and learn the lusty desires I have for myself, I am happy and content. As I expand my knowledge of myself and increase the places I may dare to dream or things I wish to explore, at the end of it all, I seek individuals who are genuine and kind, individuals who see the other person as someone with passions, too.

1. My truest, deepest happiness comes from being able to feel him, breathe him, lick and taste him. And when all is complete with the day, I would be able to fold myself within his mind and body. Knowing in my heart that I can be wanton and safe. Feeling him, in my mind, heart, and soul when he is nowhere near me. And sensing his thoughts and needs even without being told.. Seeing him smile, when I have pleased him is my greatest reward.
2. Lord of the Rings is a favorite of mine. While reading it, I am transported to another world. Granted a world of fantasy. But a fantasy deeply entrenched in duty, truth, honesty, and moral compasses that while not always pointing due north, find their way there eventually. Deep committed relationships are forged under some extraordinary and sometimes dangerous situations, and as different from one another as everyone is, they form a truly devoted family. When my life is in complete turmoil, it is a place I can go to read myself to peace. Much like the relationships and individuals I seek.
3. Words that describe what I desire: "From the beginning they fit together like a hand and glove. There was never the ability to deny one another anything that was wished for together!"
   
   
   In the end, new beginnings bring about the end of our lives before, making us new into one another. It is not that we stop being ourselves, it is just, that we get to become more, in one another. A wonderful and special gift. Be whimsical and enchant me! Send me a message if you too want to begin again!
   
   
   

CS Lewis dedicated The Screwtape Letters (a moral treatise) to JRR Tolkien. Someone of Lewis's stature recognized and admired Tolkien's moral compass.

 

[cutcrystal]

Lovely post.

CC

 

[Btq97]

Good luck, there may be someone I'm lit land who matches up.

 

[AnotherDude99]

I have been on here for a few months, and I have realized that maybe I'm seeking that rare diamond in a field of cubic zirconia. I lust after someone who is strong, caring, compassionate, and truly genuinely interested in not just exploring sex and sensual adventures, but developing a delicious duo. I am looking for the one who sparkles with warmth and laughter for an online rendezvous, eventually leading to a strong relationship or companionship virtually. If you just want to cum and go, please look elsewhere. I enjoy intellectual conversations and stimulating my mind as well as body.....I seek a Sensual Sorcerer who mystifies with me with his charisma, making me Mystically Mischievous and Melodic!! *Moans and Murmurs.* n

Message Me Making More Mischief!!

Well Aurora .. how are you doing with your search ? All rhyming aside.. come and PM me.