Seeking Self-Improvement Submissive

[ThymeCuresAll]

I'm a male dom looking for a female sub. But, I have a large altruistic streak that runs through my kinkiness. I like helping submissives accomplish life goals they may be struggling with by channeling their sexual energy towards it and doling out appropriate rewards and punishments. I think I get off on the idea, that while normal online BDSM relationships can be a fun diversion, if you help someone effect positive lasting change in their life, you leave an inedible mark on a tiny piece of their headspace.

If you're interested, PM me with a little bit about yourself, your goal(s) (quit smoking, lose weight, find a new job, write a book, I'm not picky) your boundaries regarding punishments, and the types of things you find rewarding.

 

[Ms_Vixxen]

Having a Dom help me quit smoking sounds awesome

 

[ThymeCuresAll]

Ah smoking, excellent choice of vice. Something to keep in mind is I, sadly enough, am not a wise all knowing guru. I can't simply tell you exactly what you need to do to stop smoking then enforce said plan. What I can do is experiment with you. Make sure that you're giving each plan a proper, and well motivated attempt, attempt. And then enforce that if you're giving up on a plan it's only because we've come up with a better tactic for your to try.

But, I can get fairly creative with things to try. First thing that comes to mind is wean you down to a relatively small number of cigarettes a day using proper incentives. Then institute an "orgasm tax" on smoking. Before having a smoke, you'll have to bring yourself close to orgasm. Then you get to decide between finishing yourself, and reducing your cigarette allotment for the day, or immediately stopping to go outside and have a smoke.

 

[lindak2169]

Seeking dom

Where are you from? I'm working on loosing weight. I love being submissive.

 

[ThymeCuresAll]

It seems I had poor timing for a hiatus, thus ended up rudely ignoring those who had expressed an interest. My apologies those who responded, and a bump for those or new folks that might be interested.

 

[ThymeCuresAll]

Pseudo-anniversary bump. Looking once again.