Dominant Male Seeking submissive Female for online Sexual Role Play goodness!

Nervade

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It’s Christmas(ish) time! Therefore I would like to ask for something rather special: A nice, creative, intelligent, wordy and submissive gal to have all kinds of creative, descriptive and kinktastic online roleplay fun with! HURRAY!

Ahem…Now that I have gotten the season’s festiveness out of the way, I can proceed with my ludicrous batch of wants and desires, which seem to be as frequent and tangible as the Loch Ness Monster or Bigfoot!

Also, this is going to be long. I apologize for that, but I believe in being thorough and detailed as to not waste your time or my own with vagueness. Please, let’s begin.

Who am I?
I am a Dominant fellow who vastly enjoys the creative expression and freedom that writing allows. I also enjoy a right proper bit of smut, and when you combine articulate and descriptive verse with slick, slippery kink-stuffs, I become an incredibly happy camper. The prospect of finding a creative soul mate to write for and with fills me with warm and fuzzy feelings, and so I throw this add out into the cyber-ether and will hope (against odds) for the best.

What I’m looking for:
The relationship between a Dominant and submissive is a sacred one to me. I look for more than a simple doormat to kick around and stomp upon. I want a girl who is vulnerable and delicate, not so that I can simply manipulate and abuse her, but so that I could protect and nourish and create with her. I have been seeking a relationship of this type for so long now, yet all I manage to come across are false submissives who claim to have these needs and desires but really don’t understand the first thing about them.

In my heart, the thing I want above all else is someone to write with and write for, to devote all of my time, effort and creativity into. I also want this same devotion and energy and effort back, working like some kind of cycle so that something truly lovely can blossom from it.

My venues of choice are some kind of Online Instant Messenger (I currently have Aim and Yahoo) and/or Email scenes. I have zero interest in doing Literotica Threads, as I don’t find the idea of plastering the type of smut I’m into all over some forum for others to browse appealing at all and I’m not much the exhibitionist type! Besides, I have tried Lit threads in the past, and they simply seem to evaporate. Far too much trouble than they are worth, in my opinion.

More information on my particular writing style and further kinks can be found in my proper SRP profile linked in the signature of this message.

What I’m not looking for:
Most of the girls who come to me claiming to be submissive seek to be the “Defiant slave”, who labels themselves as submissive, but really just wish to talk back, be sassy, and have to be put in their place. This holds ZERO interest to me. The words submissive and defiant strike two opposite meanings, and if you are one, then you should not claim to be the other. It would be as if someone claimed to be Dominant, but also enjoyed being commanded to do things and be ordered about—It is simply a direct crossing of phrase and makes no sense to me. I would like a girl who does not seek to be difficult, and who wishes to participate in a lasting and meaningful D/s relationship. So, please, “Defiant submissives” need not apply.

The other order of girl that I come across in my travels are submissive girls who are absolutely fine consuming my effort, time, creativity and praise without giving a sliver of it back. Unfortunately, people like this seem to be created for the sole purpose of devouring attention, and see no reason to reflect any back. These types of people are custom built to consume and consume without even considering that a Dominant/submissive relationship must have two participating sides to flourish and thrive.

Now, I understand fully that real life cannot be ignored and must take first priority. I have no issues with this. That being said, I do expect attention and consideration from a submissive. Few things feel worse than being neglected, and I don’t at all wish to have to be penciled into a schedule to get some attention or time. I give prompt and healthy replies to my partner, as well as my full awareness and consideration. I don’t think that it is selfish or wrong to expect the same back.

My Philosophy on Sexual Role Play:
With the vast and endless possibilities available via the medium of creative/smutty writing, I see no reason why you should limit yourself to boring, hum-drum scenarios or characters. Why play a secretary screwing her boss when you could play a Vampire or a Succubus or some other vibrant and colorful character? I am a great fan of fiction, and see no reason to stick to everyday themes and characters like “Creepy neighbor!” or “Sleazy Bartender!”. We have the full spectrum of creativity to draw from, so craft and forge the utter and complete girl of my dreams/fantasies for me, and please allow me the honor of doing the same for you.

Checklist!
If you can answer “I am!” to the following list of questions, I’d very much like to hear from you!

Are you…
-A submissive, attentive Female? (No, I mean really; Not a “defiant submissive” or an “I’ll email you once per baseball season” type…)
-Interested in Erotic Online Role Play via Online Instant Messenger or Email (NOT Literotica Thread)?
-Creative, wordy, descriptive, and prompt in your replies?
-Willing to play characters with certain physical features/characteristics that I find attractive?
-Genuinely a warm-hearted and affectionate, wordy person? (I don’t like distant or cold-hearted sorts)
-Interested in the general dorky side of fiction like Fantasy/Sci-Fi or the like and wouldn’t mind incorporating that sort of theme into wildly smutty literary kink?

For those interested:
The fastest way to get in touch with me is via email. Interested parties should email Nervade@aol.com and we could talk further. Lit PMs I will respond to as soon as I am able, but email is always the fastest way to reach me.
 
Wow this is a great post I will be taking notes bravo my freind and I am in full agreement on your views of what a Dom/sub relationship is I hope that you find what your looking for and that you will keep us upto date on your progress.

Good luck !
 
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