Seeking guidance.

Merkin

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Hi all. I'm new here, though I've lurked before. I'm in the process of coming to terms with my sexuality, and realizing that if I don't at least attempt to experince my fantasies, I'll be doing myself a grave disservice.

First, let me get a brief bio out of the way. My name's Richard, 43 y/o, living in Northern California (Sonoma County). 6'0", 190 lbs (about 10 more than I should have) athletic, attractive, educated, and healthy. Light chest/leg hair, no shoulder/back hair, equipment is cut, average-sized (6.5") and very functional. (climax an average of 10-12 times/week, and can still pop 4-5 times/day)Currently unattached, and taking matters in hand. ;)

Unempoyed by choice at the moment, enjoying a slice of "early retirement" due to a small inheritance.

I love to read, attend the theatre, hike, bike, camp, and white-water raft. I'm pretty politically active, with a leftist/libertarian slant. The only TV show I make it a point to watch is Jeapordy (and I am very damn good)

I don't drug (except for the very occassional joint), drink lighty, and smoke about 1/2 pack/day.

Due to being raised in a fundamentalist, religious atmosphere, I spent a huge portion of my life trying to deny my wants and desires.

I *think* my orientation is switch leaning towards submissive. I know that I've always been attracted to strong, intelligent women. However, I have never explored this in a LTR. I love bondage and power-exchange games, from either side.

I am bi-curious, but have no experience outside of a couple of boy-scout circle jerks, and one drunken shore leave in the Navy. I have a strong recurring fantasy of being "forced" to suck cock.

I am fascinated by stories of transexuals and forced feminization,, but except for occasionally wearing panties or nylons under my jeans have never explored this. I would make an absolutely appaling looking woman, but love the feeling of silk or nylon against my skin.

I have no interest in scat, animals, minors, serious pain, incest, or public humiliation.

What I DO have an interest in is establishing communication with a strong, open-minded woman or couple who can help bring out the sexual wild-child I know I have inside.

Know that if you do choose to contact me you will not be getting a meek and timid sub. I'm bright, opinionated, and direct.

I am a firm believer that in any relationship, sexual or otherwise, that mutual respect, honest and open communication, and at least a smattering of shared interests and opinions are key.

I would like to initially communicate via PM or email, and if something clicks, we can take it from there.

Thanks for your time and attention.
 
bumpety-bump.

Let me add that I am also very interested in either finding or starting a jack/jill off club in Northern California.

Age/race/gender/orientation is unimportant to me. Respect, cleanliness, creativity, and understanding of limits are crucial.

I would strongly prefer meeting wih folk who are reasonably fit, or at least height/weight proportional.

I could possibly travel in a range from San Jose to the south, Sacramento to the east, and Eureka to the north.

(Reno/Vegas would be possible, but would have to be a very, very special occasion)
 
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