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Vay said:
Well I for one dislike the current "over 50% of marriages end in failure" statistic, but when things like uninterested in fulfilling your partner's intimate wishes are a true issue, then perhaps it's time for such a change.

after 5 years of sleeping next to someone and feeling more alone than ever I thought it was time.
talking nor begging helped.

the worse loneliness is laying next to someone and still being alone :(
 
bamagirl said:
after 5 years of sleeping next to someone and feeling more alone than ever I thought it was time.
talking nor begging helped.

the worse loneliness is laying next to someone and still being alone :(
That must have sucked! How could he still call himself a man with you laying next to him!
 
Vay said:
Well I for one dislike the current "over 50% of marriages end in failure" statistic, but when things like uninterested in fulfilling your partner's intimate wishes are a true issue, then perhaps it's time for such a change.

The problem is that the biggest reason for divorce is money problems followed by the problems with fulfilling one or the other partner's intimate wishes being a close second.

What I haven't figured out is what changes some people so much once they get married.
 
I don't know why they change either. I'm not married, but I've noticed it in other people.
 
Originally posted by Missingmeds
The problem is that the biggest reason for divorce is money problems followed by the problems with fulfilling one or the other partner's intimate wishes being a close second.

What I haven't figured out is what changes some people so much once they get married.

Our problems actually started before we got married. We've been together off and on for a little over 4 years and married about a year and a half. I've thought about divorce, but I have no way of supporting myself or my daughter right now.
 
I gained a lot of weight and I belive it was a turn off for him.
i would gain then lose it was like a yoyo.
I finally decided if he could not love me for who i was then the hell with him.
he always denied the weight was a issue,but sometimes actions speak louder than words.
 
I don't often say this out in public because of the looks that I get and some of the comments, but sometimes I wonder if marriage is really worth it.
 
Missingmeds said:
I don't often say this out in public because of the looks that I get and some of the comments, but sometimes I wonder if marriage is really worth it.

I think if a couple isn't planning on having kids, don't bother getting married.
 
Yes it is...a very sad fact indeed.

I think that is one reason that we are seeing so many open marriages these days.
 
I still believe in marriage.

Or at least I want to believe!
 
I think part of our problem is we're together for the wrong reasons. I think part of the reason he's with me is because his mom kicked him out and had nowhere else to go so my mom said he could move in with me. I really don't think we'd be together if that hadn't had happened.

The main reason I keep him around is because he makes the money to pay the bills and what not. Like I said, I have no way of supporting myself or my daughter right now.
 
sxy_bi_horny_chick said:
I think part of our problem is we're together for the wrong reasons. I think part of the reason he's with me is because his mom kicked him out and had nowhere else to go so my mom said he could move in with me. I really don't think we'd be together if that hadn't had happened.


The main reason I keep him around is because he makes the money to pay the bills and what not. Like I said, I have no way of supporting myself or my daughter right now.

I'm sorry to hear that. You deserve a guy that loves you.
 
sxy_bi_horny_chick said:
I think part of our problem is we're together for the wrong reasons. I think part of the reason he's with me is because his mom kicked him out and had nowhere else to go so my mom said he could move in with me. I really don't think we'd be together if that hadn't had happened.

The main reason I keep him around is because he makes the money to pay the bills and what not. Like I said, I have no way of supporting myself or my daughter right now.
I osunds to me like you are in a nowin situation. Until you find someone better!
 
sxy_bi_horny_chick said:
I think part of our problem is we're together for the wrong reasons. I think part of the reason he's with me is because his mom kicked him out and had nowhere else to go so my mom said he could move in with me. I really don't think we'd be together if that hadn't had happened.

The main reason I keep him around is because he makes the money to pay the bills and what not. Like I said, I have no way of supporting myself or my daughter right now.

there is always ways out even if it means temporarily going on welfare till you get a job.
 
Originally posted by bamagirl
there is always ways out even if it meand temporarily going on welfare till you get a job.

We're on welfare right now. He makes less than $10,000 a year so were barely making it. We may have to move because I don't think we'll be able to pay the property taxes. I can't work right now because I'm a bit of an agoraphobic and have problems leaving the house.
 
sxy_bi_horny_chick said:
We're on welfare right now. He makes less than $10,000 a year so were barely making it. We may have to move because I don't think we'll be able to pay the property taxes. I can't work right now because I'm a bit of an agoraphobic and have problems leaving the house.

I'm sorry to hear that. If you want help with the agoraphobia, cheap or free healthcare can be found.
 
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