Seeking advice

[Xeekk]

*clears throat* for example, my first time as a virgin? Same proposition and almost the same age differnece... I was scared to death, but I went through with it anyway hehe. It didnt' last long though, we had maybe 3 sessions.

 

[IndigoDarling]

*clears throat* for example, my first time as a virgin? Same proposition and almost the same age differnece... I was scared to death, but I went through with it anyway hehe. It didnt' last long though, we had maybe 3 sessions.

Problem here is he isn't a virgin.

 

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[IndigoDarling]

I'm in a similar position to you.

My one potential fb is however bogged down with work etc. I bought a rock chick to compensate short term and then advertised for the long term. I'm now kinda hooking up with a guy. we both have the ground rules. No commitment or exclusivity but just fun.

I was stunned by how difficult it was to actually find someone though. It's not like I'm a minger after all!

I understand that.

 

[Xeekk]

Problem here is he isn't a virgin.

Well, Id certainly be more eager at that age than I am now. I have a "friend" which I share intimate experiences with now, but these days I prefer to still call her mine, we just have no interest in anything but sex.

I think it's something easier done than said -- by that I mean get him in the situation and just lead him into sex, it'l be a lot easier to ask him to be your buddy right afterward.

 

[Galahad]

Tell him you need help changing a light bulb, or some other such task. I am sure you can explain that something is "just stuck" and that you want or need his help. Males always like to fix things. Ask if he will help you.

When he is finished helping you with your task, compliment his work.

Then, if you are brave, ask him if he would like to take a shower to clean up.

If you are not so brave, tell him you are terribly embarrassed, but a fastener on your clothing is stuck. If you wish, sew up a button hole in advance, so the button is actually difficult to unbutton. Or, gum up another sort of fastener. Use your imagination. Ask if he will help you. If you wish, make him promise to close his eyes.

Or, maybe he can help you open a stuck jar for something you are fixing for dinner. Hope that the jar is not stuck beyond his capacity. After he succeeds, compliment his accomplishment.

Then ... ask if he wishes to shower before dinner.

He will hesitate.

Be light hearted. Smile. Tell him dinner is almost ready, and that you you know a man needs to eat. Tell him dinner will be ready after his shower. Take him by the hand. Smile playfully. Lead him to the shower, playfully motioning with your head, saying "Come on, I will help you. ... It will only take a minute ... You were so good to help me with the light bulb and the jar .... I'll show you where everything is. ... It's only fair that I feed you. ... You were so good to help me. ... Here's a towel. ... There's the soap. ... I have to finish fixing dinner. ... I'll just get you started ...."

Always smile. Keep speaking playfully. He doesn't need to answer. Once you have his hand and he takes the first step with you toward the shower, maintain the initiative. Presume his compliance as you smile and lead him to the shower ... and as you begin to undress him.

Most of all, make a good choice in whomever you may honor with your favor.

BTW, if you are relying on DD's, your mission is doomed. Trust your happy, playful smile and your good intentions.

... and why do you complicate the issue with pot?

Good luck with your endeavors.

 

[IndigoDarling]

The mission stopped before this.

And a hookah is not the same as weed. Hookah tobacco not other stuff.