Seeking advice

[only4funladies]

Indigo Girl, just give it time. If you text him alot or often he is going to think you want a relationship. See if he contacts you. If he doesn't, next time you see him ask him what happened? But it will all be good. As you said, you have 2 others who can keep you occupied.

 

[wordsNguitars]

if at first you don't seduce...

try, try again... if nothing else, you were rewarded (though temporarily) for your bravery... the next one will no doubt see the many benefits of falling straight into bed with you...

 

[VampGirl]

make a joke like...hey whata re you doing friday night...that is what i did with my now husband...and hey it worked out wonderfully!!

 

[IndigoDarling]

Yeah, he was "busy" which is cool. And just so you know, I wasn't sending him rediculous amounts of texts or anything. I am going to ask him if he wants to get together on Sunday or so. If not, not stressing, if so great.

Hell, even tonight would be okay.

 

[gregy70]

wanna practice

Hi Indigo
Feel like role playing the senario with me.
You pm me & I pretend its a text from you & I'm this 19yo guy & I reply back
Greg
Could be a Little fun & keep u occupied & dreamy.

 

[Caringless]

Don't come on too strong. Turning down hot women who want you is empowering when they're being too easy.

Well, that's what the big head says, anyway. The real brains of the operation says that's bullshit. (Coming from a 20, nearly 21 year old guy.)

 

[subwannabe]

The only advice I can give you now is don't take it personal if it never comes down. There could be several different reasons why he might choose not to go through with it, not necessarily a reflection on you at all. I really admire you for getting up the balls to just lay it out on the line and not "beat around the bush". Sometimes you just need to grab for that brass ring.

 

[IndigoDarling]

The only advice I can give you now is don't take it personal if it never comes down. There could be several different reasons why he might choose not to go through with it, not necessarily a reflection on you at all. I really admire you for getting up the balls to just lay it out on the line and not "beat around the bush". Sometimes you just need to grab for that brass ring.

oh yeah, I won't be mad if nothing happens. If it does, great, if not, well i asked. So it was supposed to be short term anyway.

 

[only4funladies]

Now why can't I find a woman with DD's around me that wants to be a Fuck Buddy? Is this only in a certain area? Do I need to move? lol

 

[IndigoDarling]

Well, I wish there was a report to tell you.

But nothing. I'm just giving up. Because obviously he doesn't want to fuck. Why was I concerned in the first place!!

 

[skin2win]

Well, I wish there was a report to tell you.

But nothing. I'm just giving up. Because obviously he doesn't want to fuck. Why was I concerned in the first place!!

thats a bummer...maybe he's too young to handle a fwb...like the seinfeld post...there has to be rules in place with a fwb....your probably better off...just my 2 cents

 

[IndigoDarling]

Probably. I don't know what else to do. I haven't been bothering him. But you know, a girl's got needs too!

 

[rthnck]

oh, to be single again...

 

[only4funladies]

Probably. I don't know what else to do. I haven't been bothering him. But you know, a girl's got needs too!

Well I bet you would have no problem finding someone else to help you out. Hell, even on here, just post your location and you would have countless pm's and messages. Just remember, its his loss too.

 

[laylayum]

But I don't want to just shove my breasts in his face! I want something to say that leaves no question to the imagination but can still be friends!!!

Arrrghhhh!!! Can't someone help me with what words to say!!!!! BoredMale, that's better thinking- but I want words to say or I will fuck it up!

I'd tell him you're intrigued by him, want to spend more time with him on a regular basis, explore things with one another, etc. I would emphasize to him that you are looking to be a fuck buddy... not expecting more of a commitment than that (if that's the truth). I can't imagine a man of his age being able to resist such an offer unless there are circumstances in his life which make him unavailable. Don't worry too much about the words... just have an idea as to what main points you want to cover. I have a feeling it won't take much explanation for you to have an answer from him - and I'm guessing it will be affirmative! Then, after all that's out of the way, you can shove them in his face and have at it knowing you're on the same page!

 

[IndigoDarling]

Well, honestly, I'm tired of trying to get together with him, so I have decided to move on. I mean, I'm just looking to have a good time, and he can't even return my calls or anything (once again, not that I have bombarded him with messages or even a phone call). So I don't know what the problem is, but I"m not stressing his ass.

 

[laylayum]

Well, honestly, I'm tired of trying to get together with him, so I have decided to move on. I mean, I'm just looking to have a good time, and he can't even return my calls or anything (once again, not that I have bombarded him with messages or even a phone call). So I don't know what the problem is, but I"m not stressing his ass.

I'm glad to hear you say that, actually. You shouldn't have to work so hard to get a call back or any hint of interest. I'm sure many guys would be beating down your door if given the opportunity to be your fuck buddy, and you deserve to be sought after. So, moving on sounds like a good idea. I am willing to bet, though, that he'll quickly realize what he was missing out on as soon as he doesn't hear from you any more. It's funny how that works out, right? But, I would still move on, even if he has regrets about not jumping on the chance (and you)!

 

[IndigoDarling]

I'm glad to hear you say that, actually. You shouldn't have to work so hard to get a call back or any hint of interest. I'm sure many guys would be beating down your door if given the opportunity to be your fuck buddy, and you deserve to be sought after. So, moving on sounds like a good idea. I am willing to bet, though, that he'll quickly realize what he was missing out on as soon as he doesn't hear from you any more. It's funny how that works out, right? But, I would still move on, even if he has regrets about not jumping on the chance (and you)!

Right, that's why people have been banging down my door for the past 2 months.

I finally got some form of human contact last night, but I don't know how that is going to work out either.

I guess I just pick the wrong men to spend time with.

Or one's who can't answer a phone, or call back,

 

[Dreamliner]

Indigo.......

how about:
i have a need to use your body for self satisfaction. I do not need your intelligence, good looks or look for you to take me out, i just need to assauge my desires for sex from time to time.....would you like that............would you like the opportunity to just telephone and say...I need a fuck......I need you.....

...would you?

 

[IndigoDarling]

Indigo.......

how about:
i have a need to use your body for self satisfaction. I do not need your intelligence, good looks or look for you to take me out, i just need to assauge my desires for sex from time to time.....would you like that............would you like the opportunity to just telephone and say...I need a fuck......I need you.....

...would you?

The only problem with this senario is that I am single, so i would have to meet whoever first. I can't just say "cool, come over" because people can be crazy. And I include myself in this list.

 

[slarsit]

Pleasant Memories

I was eighteen and the girl (woman) next door was twenty-five. She would invite me in for a Coke and to sit around and chit-chat. She was always either sitting there with her hand resting between her legs, slipping her hand half-way in her blouse or when she had a skirt on showing me just enough leg and some underpants to drive me crazy. A number of times she would be braless and wearing a t-shirt and I would just sit there staring at her shirt. Even though I had been lucky to have already had a good sex life for my age, I was hesitent to make a move on her. She had to have known I was super horny. All she would have had to ask was why I was always staring at her tits and my answer would have opened the door to what would have been a very nice time for both of us.

 

[HorrorKid]

practice is a great idea- if hes open minded, tell him you want to practice oral on a guy- just a practice nothing more, and then maybe something about oral with you, fucking, roleplay, for PRACTICE, and then after a few times, were fuck buddies then, thats how i made mine work anyway - with an older woman.

 

[dirtycarol]

What's your relationship with him now?

 

[IndigoDarling]

What relationship? I tried to contact him about smoking a hookah together (like we planned before)- and I got no reply in return.

I don't know what happened, but I think a birdy by the name of my exroommate started talking shit about me- even though I don't do the same.

Anyway, this was just supposed to be short term, and I guess I learned that I really do want to be with an older men anyway. (See my personal ad before you older men start bombarding me with PMs).

 

[Colton_White]

I tried to contact him about smoking a hookah together

Hold The Hookah; It Might Have Herpes.. news article here

I guess I learned that I really do want to be with an older men anyway. (See my personal ad before you older men start bombarding me with PMs).

For the oldermen read her personal ad here...
Curvy Atlantan looking for friend first, NSA second