Seeking advice on an Cuckold Proposal.

[themound92]

I got a request from a man asking if I'd like to engage in sexual activity with his partner. I haven't done anything like this before but I'm willing to experiment. But how does one go ahead with this? What are the things I should be aware of, be concerned, and ask them for my safety and clarification? And most importantly how do I make sure that they're not scammers?

 

[BillyWalrus]

Do you know this guy? Does he have a grudge against you? Are you in Texas? If he catches you in bed with his wife, he can blow your brains out with his shotgun. You will be singing the Marvin Gaye song, "I Heard it Through the Carbine" lol

 

[themound92]

Do you know this guy? Does he have a grudge against you? Are you in Texas? If he catches you in bed with his wife, he can blow your brains out with his shotgun. You will be singing the Marvin Gaye song, "I Heard it Through the Carbine" lol

Hahahaha....I hope he doesn't know me or has a grudge against me. But I don't know the guy. Infact he was quite clear and graphic in what he wanted me to do to his partner.

 

[LittleGreene]

As a woman in a ‘open’ marriage, don’t talk to the husband. As he’s not the important person here, she is.

Establish contact with both of them. Verify both of them. Meet face to face to judge their relationship and dynamic.

 

[themound92]

As a woman in a ‘open’ marriage, don’t talk to the husband. As he’s not the important person here, she is.

Establish contact with both of them. Verify both of them. Meet face to face to judge their relationship and dynamic.

That makes a lot of sense. Her consent should be THE priority. I found the husband to be controlling to be honest. He told me what's allowed and what's not and what his partner's preferences are. I guess speaking to her will help me have clarity and confidence. I want her to feel comfortable as well.

 

[LittleGreene]

That makes a lot of sense. Her consent should be THE priority. I found the husband to be controlling to be honest. He told me what's allowed and what's not and what his partner's preferences are. I guess speaking to her will help me have clarity and confidence. I want her to feel comfortable as well.

Without diminishing the husbands role - it’s all about her. Her body. Her desires, her physical pleasure. In a ‘cuckold’ scenario his pleasure is derived mostly from psychological pleasure initially.

 

[themound92]

Without diminishing the husbands role - it’s all about her. Her body. Her desires, her physical pleasure. In a ‘cuckold’ scenario his pleasure is derived mostly from psychological pleaure initially.

Okay. I misunderstood your previous message. So my sole focus should be his wife but at the same time being respectful of his presence, right?

 

[themound92]

Okay. I misunderstood your previous message. So my sole focus should be his wife but at the same time being respectful of his presence, right?

I mean it is common sense

 

[LittleGreene]

Okay. I misunderstood your previous message. So my sole focus should be his wife but at the same time being respectful of his presence, right?

It depends on their dynamic I guess. Cuckold is a very broad term and has been subverted by porn .

Some partners like a power dynamic with the third, with power given to the guest, humiliation involved for the husband from the guest and wife. Some don’t play that way and there’s a mutual respect.

It’s all down to their dynamic really

 

[LittleGreene]

I mean it is common sense

I will state - I’m no expert. My husband and I have our way of being open. This is all just my opinion

 

[themound92]

It depends on their dynamic I guess. Cuckold is a very broad term and has been subverted by porn .

Some partners like a power dynamic with the third, with power given to the guest, humiliation involved for the husband from the guest and wife. Some don’t play that way and there’s a mutual respect.

It’s all down to their dynamic reali

It depends on their dynamic I guess. Cuckold is a very broad term and has been subverted by porn .

Some partners like a power dynamic with the third, with power given to the guest, humiliation involved for the husband from the guest and wife. Some don’t play that way and there’s a mutual respect.

It’s all down to their dynamic really

I see. Point noted.

 

[themound92]

I will state - I’m no expert. My husband and I have our way of being open. This is all just my opinion

That gave me clarity. I feel like I can ask what dynamic they’re looking for.

 

[LittleGreene]

God luck. Playing with other people can be absolutely amazing experience. You just all need to be on the same page.