A young woman I met on Lit explained the D/s relationship to me in such a way that I became intrigued, and cannot stop thinking about it. So I have created this post to explain what she described, with the hope of meeting a young woman with whom I can establish such a relationship. I'm not looking for a fleeting online fling, nor am I looking for something that is purely sexual. Here is what I do want, and what I want to be.
At the beginning, I want to take a lot of time to get to know you. I want to know who you are, what you do, how you spend your free time, what you're passionate about. I want for us to build a trust and understanding. I want to be a part of your life, to know how your day went, to be the person you come to when you're having a tough time, to be the mature man in your life. I will not control you and tell you what to do, but I will be your teacher and guide. To be someone you can talk to, and be a good friend. It is only from getting to know you on all levels that I can truly serve as your Dom and claim you for myself.
Ultimately, you are the one in control. You will have to decide if you are going to give yourself to me. You will set the limits, the boundaries that I cannot cross. I will not demand your submission, I will earn it. I will learn about your need and desire to serve and submit, and help bring that side out of you. By allowing you to serve me I will be serving you.
I will become the center of your world. You will honor, respect, love, and cherish me. Essentially we will take on traditional gender roles. To me, an ideal sub is like the stereotypical housewife. You will enjoy taking care of me. You will want me to be a true alpha male, mature, protective. Through submission and dominance we will have real intimacy, knowing and serving each other completely on all levels.
We will enjoy a diverse sex life. At times I will be sweet and romantic, providing you foreplay and lovemaking and snuggling. You will tease me, to bring out my desire, to turn me on and fuel my passion. At times your teasing will drive me to the point that I simply must fuck you, hard. I will take your body, thinking only of using you for my pleasure. Spanking you, gripping your hair, fucking you hard and fast, taking you roughly, right up to your limits. And at times, if your limits permit it, I will torment you, tie you up, blindfold you, tease you, bring you to the brink of climax but not over, so that you beg, plead for me to give you release.
Please send me a PM if I have described the relationship you crave.
At the beginning, I want to take a lot of time to get to know you. I want to know who you are, what you do, how you spend your free time, what you're passionate about. I want for us to build a trust and understanding. I want to be a part of your life, to know how your day went, to be the person you come to when you're having a tough time, to be the mature man in your life. I will not control you and tell you what to do, but I will be your teacher and guide. To be someone you can talk to, and be a good friend. It is only from getting to know you on all levels that I can truly serve as your Dom and claim you for myself.
Ultimately, you are the one in control. You will have to decide if you are going to give yourself to me. You will set the limits, the boundaries that I cannot cross. I will not demand your submission, I will earn it. I will learn about your need and desire to serve and submit, and help bring that side out of you. By allowing you to serve me I will be serving you.
I will become the center of your world. You will honor, respect, love, and cherish me. Essentially we will take on traditional gender roles. To me, an ideal sub is like the stereotypical housewife. You will enjoy taking care of me. You will want me to be a true alpha male, mature, protective. Through submission and dominance we will have real intimacy, knowing and serving each other completely on all levels.
We will enjoy a diverse sex life. At times I will be sweet and romantic, providing you foreplay and lovemaking and snuggling. You will tease me, to bring out my desire, to turn me on and fuel my passion. At times your teasing will drive me to the point that I simply must fuck you, hard. I will take your body, thinking only of using you for my pleasure. Spanking you, gripping your hair, fucking you hard and fast, taking you roughly, right up to your limits. And at times, if your limits permit it, I will torment you, tie you up, blindfold you, tease you, bring you to the brink of climax but not over, so that you beg, plead for me to give you release.
Please send me a PM if I have described the relationship you crave.
