Seeking a woman that doesn't do drugs & alcohol anymore. Impossible?

[LovesToLickAlot]

I've been searching for years for one major thing on all the sites I've been to and all the people I've met. There has never been one woman who was attractive that didn't do drugs or alcohol, or smoke. Sometimes I feel like I'm the only one left who doesn't try to harm themselves for a short period of feeling happy. If there are any of these "extinct" women in the southern Wisconsin area, send me a line! I'm a 5' 7" male with short red hair, blue eyes and a medium muscular build. Sealed with a kiss.

 

[naughtywoman69]

I am proud to say that I have never done drugs or smoked - have never even tried them! I have had the occasional drink - when I'm at my sister's house. That is very rare! I like being in control of my body, something which cannot be done when under the influence of drugs/alcohol.

 

[ShiningEyes]

I've been searching for years for one major thing on all the sites I've been to and all the people I've met. There has never been one woman who was attractive that didn't do drugs or alcohol, or smoke. Sometimes I feel like I'm the only one left who doesn't try to harm themselves for a short period of feeling happy. If there are any of these "extinct" women in the southern Wisconsin area, send me a line! I'm a 5' 7" male with short red hair, blue eyes and a medium muscular build. Sealed with a kiss.

*scratches head* I'm a 21 yr old woman who is having the time of her life. She doesn't do drugs at all. She has never smoked and will never pick up that habit. But she does occationally go out to clubs. I don't drink to chase away depression or anything else. I drink because I want to. The things I choose to drink tastes good to me!

Other than that, I don't harm myself! I don't drink to get drunk either. *S* Just to let ya know.



I have tried drugs, but that's not for me.

 

[AttentionWhore]

I have never smoked. I can't light the lighters, and that kind of took care of that situation.
I have never done drugs. Never smoked anything. Closest I came was the start of an addiction to prescription pain killers after having surgery when my now ex-husband left. When I saw how much I "needed" the pills, I quit cold turkey.
I drink occasionally. I'm a cheap date- two margaritas and I am looking for a keeper. I've never had a third in public.
I am 28 years old, living in a city where it is acceptible to drink 24-7. I will not look or act like a fool under the influence of something. I love being able to do what I do sober, when everyone around me is drunk.

 

[ShiningEyes]

I have never smoked. I can't light the lighters, and that kind of took care of that situation.
I have never done drugs. Never smoked anything. Closest I came was the start of an addiction to prescription pain killers after having surgery when my now ex-husband left. When I saw how much I "needed" the pills, I quit cold turkey.
I drink occasionally. I'm a cheap date- two margaritas and I am looking for a keeper. I've never had a third in public.
I am 28 years old, living in a city where it is acceptible to drink 24-7. I will not look or act like a fool under the influence of something. I love being able to do what I do sober, when everyone around me is drunk.

Nice post and I like your sig!

 

[Suzi]

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm...

LtL...I am FAR from "extinct" but I am also far from you...I live in Maine. I have two little ones....I do not drink or smoke or do illegal drugs or narcotics. I have Borderline Personality Disorder, however, which necessitates my use of celexa, wellbutrin and topamax, which I take according to prescription. The only illegal drug I have ever done was pot...and I found I was becoming dependent on it, and quit right away. My then boyfriend did not want to and that caused friction in our relationship.

 

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[Lady_Sam]

I don't smoke or do drugs and very rarely have an occasional drink. We're out there.

 

[LovesToLickAlot]

Out there is never close enough

I appreciate the words of hope ladies, but the problem is that it has been brought up several times the phrase 'out there'. I'm seeing that there are indeed others that exist, but the problem I've come across now is that they are all 'out there' and not here. Perhaps a little wandering on my part will get me to where I want to be....

 

[intrigued]

Re: Out there is never close enough

I appreciate the words of hope ladies, but the problem is that it has been brought up several times the phrase 'out there'. I'm seeing that there are indeed others that exist, but the problem I've come across now is that they are all 'out there' and not here. Perhaps a little wandering on my part will get me to where I want to be....

I can relate. No beautiful words of wisdom from me...other than yes, you have to keep wandering on.