Seeking a sexually dominant woman.

[JoshXXX]

Hi. I haven't posted something like this in awhile, but I recently had an experience with a woman I met on here that has rekindled my fantasy. She was a domme and was my first real experience with being dominated by a woman. It was amazing. However, we seemed to be looking for different things. I need to be sexually dominated and she seemed to want to control all the other aspects of my life, from my schedule to my finances, which, unfortunately, doesn't really do anything for me. And, after our first time together, she didn't want me cumming unless she instructed me to. I liked the idea, but then we had very little contact after that. I think maybe she lost interest because I wasn't really interested or able to have my daily schedule and finances controlled by her.

Regardless, that first encounter has made me hungry for more. I have fantasized about having a strong, sexy woman turn me into her personal sex slave, but I never imagined how intense it would be to actually roleplay that fantasy. I feel like this desperate need has been awoken in me and I have no idea how to satisfy it. I know that dominant women are incredibly rare, but I'm still hoping that someone will read this and come make me hers. Living with this desire unfulfilled was pretty difficult before, but now that I've had a little taste of what it feels like to have a passionate woman take control of me... well, I really don't know how to handle it.

Please, make me yours, ma'am...

 

[JoshXXX]

So I've gotten a number of responses on here and I just wanted to thank everyone for messaging me and chatting. It's been great to have someone to talk to about my desires. Although, I'm discovering that what I want is even more rare than I initially thought!

I'd love to meet more people to chat with though. And if you *are* a Domme that would like to use me, *please* do! lol... When I finally find her, I will be so pent up that I might never want to stop!

 

[JoshXXX]

Still looking for my Mistress... please take me, Ma'am!

 

[JoshXXX]

bump

 

[JoshXXX]

Need to serve so badly...

 

[Noira]

Mannnnnnn the micromanaging fetish is so boring to me, and not at all the kind of topping I'm looking for.

Dominant women really aren't THAT rare, it's just there's so many subs that it seems that way, so I think a lot don't come looking in places like this, it's easy to find a sub, you know? Especially a sub who already knows exactly how he wants to be dominated, and well, dominant types tend to want... well... their fantasies! Not that yours are too specific, I actually think this is a pretty decent ad, clearly not wanting the life micromanagement, and more of the sexual submission. A passionate woman. That describes it pretty well.

Also you seem to be looking for IRL and have no indication of your location so that's another tricky bit. I am looking for IRL too, and well. (shrug)

Anyway, we exist, keep your chin up. Best of luck.

 

[deliteme]

Agreed - you would probably get a better response if there was more detail in your profile or at least a location to start with.

Just a little hint for you sweety

Pity I don;t switch anymore I would have had fun with you *evil grin*

 

[JoshXXX]

Mannnnnnn the micromanaging fetish is so boring to me, and not at all the kind of topping I'm looking for.

Dominant women really aren't THAT rare, it's just there's so many subs that it seems that way, so I think a lot don't come looking in places like this, it's easy to find a sub, you know? Especially a sub who already knows exactly how he wants to be dominated, and well, dominant types tend to want... well... their fantasies! Not that yours are too specific, I actually think this is a pretty decent ad, clearly not wanting the life micromanagement, and more of the sexual submission. A passionate woman. That describes it pretty well.

Also you seem to be looking for IRL and have no indication of your location so that's another tricky bit. I am looking for IRL too, and well. (shrug)

Anyway, we exist, keep your chin up. Best of luck.

Thanks! Well, I think it's really the difference between the number of dominant women out there and the number of subs. Like you said, it's pretty easy for dominant women to find the kind of sub they're looking for since there are so many. So, to me, dominant women are rare, by comparison, anyway. I think that's what really matters... how difficult it is to find a dominant woman that wants to help you explore your fantasies. I know dommes are out there, but many already seem to have subs and aren't looking to take on more.

Anyway, I guess I didn't have a location because I wasn't necessarily looking for something irl. I mean, if it happens, that would be kind of mindblowingly amazing... lol... but seeing what a challenge it has been so far just finding someone online to chat with, well, I don't really expect it. I did update my profile though, just in case.

 

[JoshXXX]

Agreed - you would probably get a better response if there was more detail in your profile or at least a location to start with.

Just a little hint for you sweety

Pity I don;t switch anymore I would have had fun with you *evil grin*

Haha. Ok, I updated things a bit. Hope that helps. Oh, and if you ever change your mind and feel the urge to have a younger guy pleasure you and worship you from head to toe until you say when, feel free to look me up... lol.

 

[asianannyv]

I'm not a domme and I usually like to be dominated hard in roleplay, but I've sometimes fantasized about finding a willing guy to let me strap him down on the bed and let me have my way with his big shaved cock, mainly licking and sucking and stroking. Give me a pm if interested .

 

[JoshXXX]

I'm not a domme and I usually like to be dominated hard in roleplay, but I've sometimes fantasized about finding a willing guy to let me strap him down on the bed and let me have my way with his big shaved cock, mainly licking and sucking and stroking. Give me a pm if interested .

Oh my god, yes! "Interested" doesn't begin to describe it! Haha! Sending you a pm now

 

[mary_aranxia]

Good luck with this. I want to chat with you also, not because I have anything to offer, but because I want to understand what you want. I met a man recently who has mentioned so many times that he wants to be dominated by a woman that I now believe that he's asking me to do this with him. I'm willing to give him what he wants, but I need to understand more about what exactly that is.

 

[JoshXXX]

Good luck with this. I want to chat with you also, not because I have anything to offer, but because I want to understand what you want. I met a man recently who has mentioned so many times that he wants to be dominated by a woman that I now believe that he's asking me to do this with him. I'm willing to give him what he wants, but I need to understand more about what exactly that is.

I'm actually impressed that you're willing to explore that and are interested in learning more. I'd love to chat with you sometime. Maybe we can both learn some things.

 

[JoshXXX]

Good luck with this. I want to chat with you also, not because I have anything to offer, but because I want to understand what you want. I met a man recently who has mentioned so many times that he wants to be dominated by a woman that I now believe that he's asking me to do this with him. I'm willing to give him what he wants, but I need to understand more about what exactly that is.

I tried sending you a PM, but it seems your inbox is full.

 

[Zulae]

Good luck with this. I want to chat with you also, not because I have anything to offer, but because I want to understand what you want. I met a man recently who has mentioned so many times that he wants to be dominated by a woman that I now believe that he's asking me to do this with him. I'm willing to give him what he wants, but I need to understand more about what exactly that is.

Well, I guess it is not easy to say what he exactly wants from the information you posted here. But just give it a try, I am sure you will enjoy it. I am still in the exploring process myself, but it is just great fun If you want to talk about it or have any questions, feel free to send me a PM

 

[JoshXXX]

Well, I guess it is not easy to say what he exactly wants from the information you posted here. But just give it a try, I am sure you will enjoy it. I am still in the exploring process myself, but it is just great fun If you want to talk about it or have any questions, feel free to send me a PM

If you ever want to explore some more, let me know

 

[JoshXXX]

God, it's 8:30 am here and I'm already rock hard. I feel like today is going to get out of control. Mmmm... make me yours, please!

 

[JoshXXX]

Would love to chat tonight if anyone's on...

 

[JoshXXX]

bump

 

[JoshXXX]

Oh god, ma'am... I need you tonight! I'm rock hard and ready to please you!

 

[sexonmymind69]

Good luck with this. I want to chat with you also, not because I have anything to offer, but because I want to understand what you want. I met a man recently who has mentioned so many times that he wants to be dominated by a woman that I now believe that he's asking me to do this with him. I'm willing to give him what he wants, but I need to understand more about what exactly that is.

oh my - if that's you in your avatar, the guy would be a fool not to want you to dominate him...

 

[JoshXXX]

Any Dommes on tonight? *is hopeful*

 

[JoshXXX]

Hi! It's been ages since I've been on lit. and I'm not sure if any of the people who responded to this thread are still around... but I thought I'd drop in and thank all of you again. Everyone's encouragement really helped and I did manage to find someone irl that turned my fantasies into reality. In short, it was amazing. She also taught me that I have a dominant side as well and I've since enjoyed indulging in that too. Sadly, she and I can't be together often (or in the open) but I'm looking forward to seeing her again soon.

However, I do feel like I have a limitless appetite for BDSM now... lol. And I love hearing other people's stories too. So I'm hoping I can meet some more amazing women on here (dom *or* sub) that would like to chat, and maybe play.

Feel free to say hello!

 

[JoshXXX]

I'm around tonight and looking to chat

 

[CottonO]

From June of last year until now. Goodness. You are serious; and I wish you well on your journey. How fortunate the right Domme would be to have you. Keep asking, and she will someday come to you.