Seeking a Co-Existent

[EctoJohn]

I'm just a lonesome guy who
is searching for a love to exist with.

Someone sweet and honest to be with
in life and in bed.

I can provide a guy who will love and be devoted
with much warm snuggling.

You are a woman who's not looking to be provided for
and just needs someone they can be with for a good, long while.

I'm not the tall, handsome guy.
I'm only 5'8" and chubby (low 180s).

I'm not picky on looks, although looking for someone between mid-late 20s through mid-30s.

I can be rather nerdy, a big child, or just plain pervy.
Or any combination of those three.
If you are of a similar mind, you could have me.

Send me a PM if you're interested.
Maybe we can enjoy an existance together some day.

 

[LadyVer]

Hi Ecto, wishing you lots of luck. I wasn't going to comment but then I saw your pic on your profile and had to tell you it's a great pic especially with the sword.

 

[EctoJohn]

Hi Ecto, wishing you lots of luck. I wasn't going to comment but then I saw your pic on your profile and had to tell you it's a great pic especially with the sword.

Thank you very much.

 

[LadyVer]

Thank you very much.

You're welcome.

 

[EctoJohn]

You're welcome.

I'm glad I kept that pic around for my profile.
It's probably my favorite dirty pic I ever took of myself and people always seem to like it.

If I had more of that quality, maybe my pic threads wouldn't have bombed so bad.

 

[LadyVer]

I'm glad I kept that pic around for my profile.
It's probably my favorite dirty pic I ever took of myself and people always seem to like it.

If I had more of that quality, maybe my pic threads wouldn't have bombed so bad.

Well, everyone has different pic preferences and what works for one person may not work for another. My preferences are black and whites, although color is good, depending on the person, lighting and type of camera. And like a lot of women I prefer pics that are more concealing than revealing, especially of men I don't really know. I hear it takes like 10 shots to get one good pic. The sword is a good prop as it says you're creative and have a warrior spirit and the placement is a tease, which is always nice.

 

[EctoJohn]

lol, That didn't take 10 shots, I think that was the only shot for that particular one.
However, that was originally a part of a whole set that involved a slow reveal.

Don't know about warrior spirit, personally I just like swords.

 

[LadyVer]

lol, That didn't take 10 shots, I think that was the only shot for that particular one.
However, that was originally a part of a whole set that involved a slow reveal.

Don't know about warrior spirit, personally I just like swords.

Just like most things that involve trying to meet people, the more effort one puts into, the greater the results, usually. Regarding the sword, women like what it represents.

 

[EctoJohn]

Well hopefully some woman enjoys that sword enough to actually reply to this personal.

 

[LadyVer]

EJ, just be patient. I think eventually you'll meet some women who will enjoy you and your pics. You seem like a great guy with a good sense of humor and I think the sword is a definite plus.

 

[EctoJohn]

Hope you're right.

 

[LadyVer]

Ho you're right.

I am. May want to post some more creative pics periodically though. PM me and I'll give you some ideas.

 

[EctoJohn]

I'm hoping to lose enough weight to bother updating that pic with the sword.

I'm actually like 5-10 pounds lighter now than when that pic was taken.
Hoping to drop more.

But I'm not exactly photogenic.
My looks aren't exactly my best selling point.
I'm sure some people might disagree, but... meh.

 

[LadyVer]

I'm hoping to lose enough weight to bother updating that pic with the sword.

I'm actually like 5-10 pounds lighter now than when that pic was taken.
Hoping to drop more.

But I'm not exactly photogenic.
My looks aren't exactly my best selling point.
I'm sure some people might disagree, but... meh.

It's all in the mind and how you present yourself. The fact that you lost weight is a plus. It shows you're motivated to improve yourself.

 

[EctoJohn]

Frankly, I'm not too concerned about my weight right now.
I'd like to drop another 10 pounds, but I'm not gross fat.
I'm huggably chubby without it being physically restricting.

It's improving myself in the more important life departments that's the problem.

 

[LadyVer]

ok

 

[EctoJohn]

Good thing you've been replying to me, keeps me from having to re-bump this by my lonesome.

 

[LadyVer]

Good thing you've been replying to me, keeps me from having to re-bump this by my lonesome.

You know, I think you may be doing better than you think. I happenened to catch the nerd thread and saw some nice comments about you.

 

[EctoJohn]

Well, I don't know what comments you mean, but they aren't helping me any.
Nobody seems to be looking for a guy like me right now.
I haven't had 1 PM at all from this yet.

 

[EctoJohn]

Anyone out there at all?

 

[EctoJohn]

One last bump for good luck.

 

[sexysecrets]

Darling, you know I think very highly of you and I know that the right lady is out there looking for you too.

 

[EctoJohn]

Darling, you know I think very highly of you and I know that the right lady is out there looking for you too.

Thanks for that, I just hope you're right.

 

[sexysecrets]

Thanks for that, I just hope you're right.

I am not right about a lot of things but I am about this.

 

[EctoJohn]

Maybe someone will reply if I bump this just once more...