seeing someone new.

[pisces_girl]

when you start seeing someone, and you quickly realize that there isn't much there so it somehow turns into only sex. and you kind of don't want to continue with it, but you really want the sex.

how on earth is one supposed to figure this out? would it be more beneficial to pull out of the situation completely?

 

[nakdsub]

communication

is the key. Find out how he feels. Don't lead someone on just for the sex. Be honest. It's the only way.

 

[bigkahuna9]

when you start seeing someone, and you quickly realize that there isn't much there so it somehow turns into only sex. and you kind of don't want to continue with it, but you really want the sex.

how on earth is one supposed to figure this out? would it be more beneficial to pull out of the situation completely?

Their is a penalty for early withdrawl.


What do nyou want more...sex or freedom to look around for mr right

 

[stockman35]

You might have turned the situation into a "fuck buddy." However, it's best that you talk this out, so that everyone is on the right page.

 

[fgarvb1]

What stockman35 said!

Tell him you like fucking him but you really can't see the relationship going past friends with benefits.

Cause Two Out Of Three Ain't Bad!

 

[infinity706]

Personally, I like to have multiple friendships that involve sex. It certainly takes a lot of pressure off of everyone involved when "life gets in the way." Sometimes, you get sick, work overtime, have to go somewhere, or whatever. It's really awesome for the type of person that would be a good military friend. (what that means is friends that may not see someone for an extended period, but pick up right where they left off, just like they saw each other yesterday) It really depends on what you want.

 

[Virgil_Mayhap]

when you start seeing someone, and you quickly realize that there isn't much there so it somehow turns into only sex. and you kind of don't want to continue with it, but you really want the sex.

Move along. Sex with someone you don't like isn't fun for very long.

 

[greig1873]

when you start seeing someone, and you quickly realize that there isn't much there so it somehow turns into only sex. and you kind of don't want to continue with it, but you really want the sex.

how on earth is one supposed to figure this out? would it be more beneficial to pull out of the situation completely?

Get yourself out girl i sent you a pm earlier let me know if you got it

 

[doncarlos]

Their is a penalty for early withdrawl.


What do nyou want more...sex or freedom to look around for mr right

What is wrong with having both? In fact if you you have a couple of friends with benefits in a completely open fashion it allows you to have a wonderful and varied sex life. It also allows you to look for the one and only you can love and cherish in a monogamous permanent relationship. If/when you achieve that goal we presumably all seek you gently move out of the more casual relationships.

This works well from a man's perspective.

 

[amofiga]

Maybe I don't understand the problem. You like the sex, but you know it's not going to be a long lasting relationship. So you own up. Tell him that you don't think it's more than sex, but you like the sex. Unless he's at some point in his life where he's looking for a permanent relationship and wants to settle down to a mortgage and a family and weekends at community soccer, he would most likely agree to (and maybe be delighted with) a friends with benefits type relationship. Most guys dream of this. Most guys dream of having a good bed partner but have the option of being free to date around. You're only risk is if he's really looking for "the one" and when he finds out you aren't it, he may say bye-bye. That leaves you looking for a new sex partner, a new long term relationship, or burning out your vibrator.

From my personal standpoint, I'd like to know what I was dealing with and not be lead along either way. I've had several FWB relationships and personally, I liked them and remained long time friends with a couple of them after the physical part ran it's course.

 

[Tanstaafl001]

when you start seeing someone, and you quickly realize that there isn't much there so it somehow turns into only sex. and you kind of don't want to continue with it, but you really want the sex.

how on earth is one supposed to figure this out? would it be more beneficial to pull out of the situation completely?

heh heh heh... you said "pull out..."

 

[SinSationalMan]

It is a personal decision that you have to decide....but once you meet the right man, stay faithful to him and always keep looking for Mr.Right