See If You Can Pick The Pics

[HerSecretSide]

done with the "contest"

 

[neakman]

112 and 812 were NOT with your husband around.

The rest are probably with him in the picture.

 

[MrSilence]

I’d say 1904 is the only pic without the husband. You look relaxed, no forced smile, no anxiety.
My favorite would have to be 19112. You seem to be planning some mischief.

 

[MINHink]

I’d guess 1904 and 1910 are out with your husband while the others are out socializing. This disconnect in a relationship is tough. Sorry to hear about your challenge.

 

[Paul_Chance]

I’d say 1904, 1910, and 1809 are out and about without the husband.

Why? You look casual and relaxed, just the environment to be half uncertain if someone was flirting with you. The other two are where you’re dressed to impress and draw attention - so in those two either your husband was there, so there was no flirting, or the flirting was more obvious.

The first image is a trophy indeed.

 

[Wld1936]

112 812 809 are with your husband! You are a beautiful lady!!! Trophy indeed!!

 

[HerSecretSide]

See If You Can Pick The Picks - Update

Hi boys,

I did not expect so many replies when I thought of making it into a (hopefully) fun guessing game. It's a bit of a fun way for you to get to know me a little more and see me throughout different times throughout last year and this (the pumpkin patch is the most recent). As for the others, here's a hint: during the Fall and Winter, I leave my hair it's natural, darker color and for the Spring and Summer, I start with highlights in the Spring and by Summer I go more blonde. Who prefers my "dark" look (and why?) and who are my boys of summer who like my "blondie" look (and why?)

Oh, there have been a few who tried to give answers that included both choices when you're supposed to show how confident you are by picking one or the other answers (with my husband or without). If you can't be brave enough to give me your answer and not try to think there's some secret answer that I'm hoping for. I would never ask anyone to pick between two choices and then hope for one or the other. If that were the case, why would I ask? Part of the reason why I let my gbff Alan talk me into going on this site was that he said I may have to "weed through the bots, the bores, and male whores" to find someone (or someones) that can express their "hot take" on the things that I'm still nervous and unsure of how to share. Alan says that's what wine is for.

So... update on the guessing game. I thought maybe I would keep the post active until the weekend, ending on Sunday night (when Clark's flight gets in).

Just to try to make it fair for anyone that didn't find the post, I thought I would have three winners. A first person to guess all the pics correctly, a second , and then third.

And you should know... there is already someone who has guessed all correctly, but I've yet to tell him, although I may tell him today or everyone will have to wait for the contest to end. After all, if I tell this person he is correct, how do I know he won't tell a friend how to guess? And don't worry there is already the first guesser. He's just first, not first place. I still don't know what the prize/reward will be for the three who guess. I feel they each should win the same prize, but maybe each gets something for being first, then second and third.

Some of you made your picks (which I've been very surprised by how the guesses have been so different) but then didn't include which pic was your favorite and why (and of course there were a few "I like them all" which is such a "brownie points" reply and only tells me you can't confidently make and stick to a choice. Confidence is one of the sexiest traits guys/men can have. You could look like Brad Pitt but if you can't ever give a straight answer and seem unsure of yourself... it makes me imagine your bedroom skills would have the same uncertainty. Obviously the guys who gave wishy washy answers will disagree.

Just for fun, if you want to learn more about me with what I share and I get to know you by the choices you pick and learn the reasons why. Some guys said which pick was their favorite, but left out why. If you can't (or won't) include why you choose something or say something about me that you feel is a compliment, but don't give some reason why so it sounds like you're talking about me and not something like "your eyes" because that just sounds like a line. And trust me, lately I've been hearing a lot of lines from guys approaching me.

If you can't (or won't) include a "why" with your comment (without needing to be asked) then it's the same to me as if you hadn't said it at all.

 

[Psychprofgal]

I don't need to win anything....so here goes. The pics where you are happy are without your husband!!

 

[njguy1002]

Hi boys,

I did not expect so many replies when I thought of making it into a (hopefully) fun guessing game. It's a bit of a fun way for you to get to know me a little more and see me throughout different times throughout last year and this (the pumpkin patch is the most recent). As for the others, here's a hint: during the Fall and Winter, I leave my hair it's natural, darker color and for the Spring and Summer, I start with highlights in the Spring and by Summer I go more blonde. Who prefers my "dark" look (and why?) and who are my boys of summer who like my "blondie" look (and why?)

Oh, there have been a few who tried to give answers that included both choices when you're supposed to show how confident you are by picking one or the other answers (with my husband or without). If you can't be brave enough to give me your answer and not try to think there's some secret answer that I'm hoping for. I would never ask anyone to pick between two choices and then hope for one or the other. If that were the case, why would I ask? Part of the reason why I let my gbff Alan talk me into going on this site was that he said I may have to "weed through the bots, the bores, and male whores" to find someone (or someones) that can express their "hot take" on the things that I'm still nervous and unsure of how to share. Alan says that's what wine is for.

So... update on the guessing game. I thought maybe I would keep the post active until the weekend, ending on Sunday night (when Clark's flight gets in).

Just to try to make it fair for anyone that didn't find the post, I thought I would have three winners. A first person to guess all the pics correctly, a second , and then third.

And you should know... there is already someone who has guessed all correctly, but I've yet to tell him, although I may tell him today or everyone will have to wait for the contest to end. After all, if I tell this person he is correct, how do I know he won't tell a friend how to guess? And don't worry there is already the first guesser. He's just first, not first place. I still don't know what the prize/reward will be for the three who guess. I feel they each should win the same prize, but maybe each gets something for being first, then second and third.

Some of you made your picks (which I've been very surprised by how the guesses have been so different) but then didn't include which pic was your favorite and why (and of course there were a few "I like them all" which is such a "brownie points" reply and only tells me you can't confidently make and stick to a choice. Confidence is one of the sexiest traits guys/men can have. You could look like Brad Pitt but if you can't ever give a straight answer and seem unsure of yourself... it makes me imagine your bedroom skills would have the same uncertainty. Obviously the guys who gave wishy washy answers will disagree.

Just for fun, if you want to learn more about me with what I share and I get to know you by the choices you pick and learn the reasons why. Some guys said which pick was their favorite, but left out why. If you can't (or won't) include why you choose something or say something about me that you feel is a compliment, but don't give some reason why so it sounds like you're talking about me and not something like "your eyes" because that just sounds like a line. And trust me, lately I've been hearing a lot of lines from guys approaching me.

If you can't (or won't) include a "why" with your comment (without needing to be asked) then it's the same to me as if you hadn't said it at all.

Does that mean more pics to guess about?

 

[Paul_Chance]

Count me as among the boys of summer. I personally love the highlights and the summery look. It make me think of warm days in a beach hotel, or evenings out, dancing under the night sky.

That's the reason I like the first picture over the others. The highlights in the hair, you being dressed to impress, and that slight smile that says "I know something you don't" and makes me curious as to what the secret or mystery is. Few things draw me into a person like curiosity.

 

[Busyworking]

Without - my favorite. You look up to no good and stunning
With - my least fav of the lot. You look so uninterested
Without
Without
With

 

[RDM97756]

Did anyone find out who the winners where? I am personally curious if my guess' were even close.

 

[guns444]

Wait you say your 42??? I don't believe it! You look like young 30s to me

 

[fireymatt]

1st and 4th are with hubby?

 

[Fazer600]

Myguess

To whomever may have found this and is reading it:

Hi, I'm Kelly. 42, married. I hope I've found the right Forum section for this post.

Since my profile photo that I uploaded has - as I write this - yet to be posted to my profile (it really seems to take a long time)

So considering there is only one tiny photo given to our profile pages, I wanted to share a few other pics of me, but with a (hopefully fun) catch.

Please take the time to read what I shared in my profile about the current disconnect between my husband Clark and I... and how lately I've been finding myself in certain social situations where I've received the attention of other men and guys... which is obviously flattering and lately I've gotten more flattering compliments (and some a bit back-handed, I feel and a few I had to learn from my gbff Alan what some compliments actually meant or were suggestive of - which he got a very big laugh over)

So...for these pics of me that I'm sharing.... play a game for me and see if you can pick out which photo or photos were taken while out with my husband... and which one(s) were taken while I was out when Clark has been away of business (which lately has been getting longer as much as almost 4 weeks this past September)

I want to read the point of view of other men/guys (other wives/women are welcome to play) if I look/seem different in how I seem (or if I do at all?) when out socially to some of the places/occasions where - in one form or another - I realized I was unaware of what I thought was just flirting was maybe not as innocent as I thought or being told (mostly by younger guys) how now that I'm in my early 40's I'm not only a "trophy wife" but even more widely referred to as a "MILF" (despite not being a mom, but apparently that rule is "flexible"

I'm explaining maybe too much? It's easy: pick the pics you think were taken while out with my husband from the ones you think were taken while going out socially while my husband was/has been away for business... I will be fair and tell anyone (in a private PM here or if maybe I am trying a chatroom and you see me and have seen this Forum and want to PM me in a chatroom with your picks, if I'm not busy chatting, I will try to respond. Also, for extra credit - maybe share which pic you pick as your favorite and why?

If someone guesses all the pics correctly? I feel some type of prize would be fair.
(Don't let your imaginations carry you away, boys. Unless you live near Malibu)

The first three, your husband was present. The last two he was not.
My guess....

 

[Gabriel1664]

talk

closeup - not with husband
couch 0 with husband
white scarf -- not with husband
last one - with husband

i forget which I am missing

We should talk in any event/

Gabriel

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

So...for these pics of me that I'm sharing.... play a game for me and see if you can pick out which photo or photos were taken while out with my husband... and which one(s) were taken while I was out when Clark has been away of business (which lately has been getting longer as much as almost 4 weeks this past September)

1904 is the only pic with your husband in the room. I can tell because it's the only one where you look bored.

 

[StickMN]

1809

Only 1809 is without husband.

 

[nights1717]

Husband?

You have a husband?

I didn't see him in any of the pics
Is this a where's Willy game?

 

[702Hotwheeler]

You are so beautiful and sexy! Whats your husband thinking? I guess 112 and 904...

 

[HerSecretSide]

Pick The Pics - End

Hi boys and men,

There has been a winner - just one - who picked the pics all correctly. The number of responses was such a surprise and very flattering. I'd rather not give away which pics are which... since it might make it easier if - and I'm not promising I might - I do a "Round Two" that I'm honestly very flattered to have been asked.

Or maybe a different type of guessing game/scenario that involves guessing something relating to something someone said to me while out socially while my husband was away recently. Or maybe turning it into a possible "story idea" or "role play?"

What are your thoughts? Suggestions?

I promise to write soon about which photo had the most Likes as favorite and I will tell if it was with Clark or not, as well as what the actual real "story" of the occasion. I felt this would be a little easier to share because honestly I just couldn't reply to each and every one of you (I hope this makes up for anyone disappointed for not receiving a reply)

 

[Texastuffbbc]

112, 812, and 809 you were not with husband. It is shown in your eyes and I,can only imagine the compliments, especially 112. Wow...you are gorgeous and I actually looked at your face also.