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[Susurration]

@SpicyBean99 - I couldn't decide which reaction to use to your post, but ultimately I went with sad, as I am sad that I haven't been able to interact with you as much as I would have liked and because you are not getting what you want/need from the site. There is a lot that I could say about it, but as someone who comes here to be frivolous in Playground threads, as well as to have more serious, in-depth, and sexual interactions, I see both sides of the argument.

I hope that you will still drop in now and again. It's a place that often draws people back in. I have seen a lot of people come and go in the time that I have been here and I have been here for a long time. You have a stand out thread here, both when you're naked, when you're dressed, and when you're talking about stuff. I wish I'd had more time to chat with you. If you do ever dip back in, I'll keep my eye out. You also know where to find me .

Take care and have a very enjoyable Christmas .

 

[Azuldrgon]

Hey @SpicyBean99 .
First of all, missed you.
I understand what you said and I totally get it.
Running a thread, depending on the content, is work. And not everyone has the kind of time to do whatever they'd like to do without it either becoming a compulsion or worse.
And when the payoff is not that great, it's a great de-motivator.
I am glad you came here. I am also glad about what you're doing with your life that you have shared.
I was honored to be quoted regarding Lit/life balance because it is something I've been trying to pass on since the start of my time here when I became compulsive about my Lit time.
You know where I'm at even though I am a half day away time zone wise.
And I'm know that it'll be obvious that I'll miss seeing your presence.
My DM's are open and well....extra hugs obviously.
I hope the coming year brings you even closer to your goals and your holiday season goes awesomely.

 

[Littemp]

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Hey people.

We’ve been here before and this probably feels like déjà vu, and I apologise for that. However, I’m finally, stepping back from posting in this thread. if you offend easily, and don’t want your ego being hurt I wouldn’t read ahead

I’ve realised that the way this side of the site functions doesn’t align with how I want to spend my time or energy. I genuinely don’t understand how some people manage to run their threads, post from the moment they wake up until the evening, reply to every DM, and remain constantly present alongside full-time jobs and real lives. It makes me question what kind of life that actually leaves outside of Lit. (I used to post most of the day and I can promise you it takes up a lot of freaking time.)

I’ve spent hours, creating genuinely new content for you guys. Not just rolling out of bed and snapping a quick pic, I’m talking doing my hair, makeup, lingerie shoots in the forest, etc etc…. Fresh photos, audios, short pieces of writing that actually take time. Meanwhile, in other threads, I see the same thirty or forty images reposted month after month (that seem like pictures taken originally for private use), in MAYBE, slightly different formats, usually getting…. the same predictable responses…..Usually from one or two “new” lurkers who haven’t seen the same pictures recycled yet. It just makes me feel… for want of a better phrase: not good enough. And umm… whilst I know that’s not true because self love and all, i just seem to be misunderstood here.

I’ve watched people try new things, (such as ASMR audios and attempts at stories), watched them fail, and then return to whatever reliably keeps attention. (Recycled nudes, F1 talk, very minimal sexual content aside from a comment or two… on a SEX site.) You can see that clearly over the last week in several threads. When audio worked on my thread, it worked because it was new and the moment there wasn’t something immediately consumable, engagement dropped off completely. Yet like I’ve said, others seem to repeat the same crap over and over again and the engagement never stops.

I’ve also come to understand the difference between the few men here who engage in good faith, and they know who they are, and the majority who do the whole friendly act, while waiting for something to masturbate to.

Yes, I know what site this is.

What I find strange is how many people convince themselves the attention is genuine rather than purely consumptive. It isn’t. If you think I’m talking absolute nonsense, look at the threads in AM Pics and note what actually sustains interest.

I’ll wait.

I’m not talking about everyone. Scarlet Daisy, for example, clearly isn’t posting for likes, numbers, or leaderboard placement. Someone once actually said; quote on quote; “There are a few popular threads in the amateur pic section, mine being one of the top 10 or whatever. ”) wnd that to me SCREAMS you’re only here for numbers and racking up likes, not the actual engagement others are here for.

Trying to pretend this space runs on anything other than sexual availability is wilful denial, and I’m no longer interested in participating in it.

Interest flopped the moment I wasn’t constantly available. Nothing about my content changed, only my presence. As soon as I wasn’t replying instantly or posting nonstop, engagement dried up. At the same time, there’s endless enthusiasm for empty, baseless “would you rather” games and shock-value hypotheticals that lead absolutely nowhere. Yes, it might be mildly entertaining, but on a sex site it seems far easier to debate something deliberately stupid than to read smut, engage with women about real things, or contribute anything that requires more than minimal effort.

That’s it. I just didn’t want anyone wondering why there are no new videos, Audios or posts here.

Urgh that felt good getting all of that out rant over.

I wish you all the best, have a lovely Christmas, and a beautiful, abundant new year.

SpicyBean

Hi @SpicyBean99 wishing you the best in life and school, go do what you have to do! Your photos have always been amazing along with the audios and stories you shared. I pop in and out because real life calls and this is for fun. I hope you at least keep writing your stories and posting them when you can; on the website and off the forums.

 

[urbangentleman]

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Hey people.

We’ve been here before and this probably feels like déjà vu, and I apologise for that. However, I’m finally, stepping back from posting in this thread. if you offend easily, and don’t want your ego being hurt I wouldn’t read ahead

I’ve realised that the way this side of the site functions doesn’t align with how I want to spend my time or energy. I genuinely don’t understand how some people manage to run their threads, post from the moment they wake up until the evening, reply to every DM, and remain constantly present alongside full-time jobs and real lives. It makes me question what kind of life that actually leaves outside of Lit. (I used to post most of the day and I can promise you it takes up a lot of freaking time.)

I’ve spent hours, creating genuinely new content for you guys. Not just rolling out of bed and snapping a quick pic, I’m talking doing my hair, makeup, lingerie shoots in the forest, etc etc…. Fresh photos, audios, short pieces of writing that actually take time. Meanwhile, in other threads, I see the same thirty or forty images reposted month after month (that seem like pictures taken originally for private use), in MAYBE, slightly different formats, usually getting…. the same predictable responses…..Usually from one or two “new” lurkers who haven’t seen the same pictures recycled yet. It just makes me feel… for want of a better phrase: not good enough. And umm… whilst I know that’s not true because self love and all, i just seem to be misunderstood here.

I’ve watched people try new things, (such as ASMR audios and attempts at stories), watched them fail, and then return to whatever reliably keeps attention. (Recycled nudes, F1 talk, very minimal sexual content aside from a comment or two… on a SEX site.) You can see that clearly over the last week in several threads. When audio worked on my thread, it worked because it was new and the moment there wasn’t something immediately consumable, engagement dropped off completely. Yet like I’ve said, others seem to repeat the same crap over and over again and the engagement never stops.

I’ve also come to understand the difference between the few men here who engage in good faith, and they know who they are, and the majority who do the whole friendly act, while waiting for something to masturbate to.

Yes, I know what site this is.

What I find strange is how many people convince themselves the attention is genuine rather than purely consumptive. It isn’t. If you think I’m talking absolute nonsense, look at the threads in AM Pics and note what actually sustains interest.

I’ll wait.

I’m not talking about everyone. Scarlet Daisy, for example, clearly isn’t posting for likes, numbers, or leaderboard placement. Someone once actually said; quote on quote; “There are a few popular threads in the amateur pic section, mine being one of the top 10 or whatever. ”) wnd that to me SCREAMS you’re only here for numbers and racking up likes, not the actual engagement others are here for.

Trying to pretend this space runs on anything other than sexual availability is wilful denial, and I’m no longer interested in participating in it.

Interest flopped the moment I wasn’t constantly available. Nothing about my content changed, only my presence. As soon as I wasn’t replying instantly or posting nonstop, engagement dried up. At the same time, there’s endless enthusiasm for empty, baseless “would you rather” games and shock-value hypotheticals that lead absolutely nowhere. Yes, it might be mildly entertaining, but on a sex site it seems far easier to debate something deliberately stupid than to read smut, engage with women about real things, or contribute anything that requires more than minimal effort.

That’s it. I just didn’t want anyone wondering why there are no new videos, Audios or posts here.

Urgh that felt good getting all of that out rant over.

I wish you all the best, have a lovely Christmas, and a beautiful, abundant new year.

SpicyBean

You take care of You bean. You’ll be missed. The Wit and the nudes. You are a great girl and fun to follow.

 

[GallantWriter]

I do try to get come on and respond, but I've also been trying to wean myself off of being on lit so much after all these years. You're one of the only people I even interact with at this point. I'm sorry you're not getting the level of return you should be.

I know you're an incredibly intelligent, sweet, and amazing woman. You really have made me like Lit again, and it'll be hard for me to check up on Lit if you're not here.

I know we can talk on other sites and I hope we continue to. You're very important to me and I know you know that. I hope you'll reach out off lit soon and that we can talk more and continue growing closer.

I'm so excited to hear about your schooling and how well you'll do in the world. Plus, you're definitely welcome to come see me someday if it works out that way. I'll miss you, and will continue checking in here, hoping to talk more.

All the love and affection as always for a truly special woman. I know you'll continue to do amazing things. Will always be in your corner. Hope we talk soon!

 

[LilKitKat]

I wish you did not take thinly veiled shots at me on your way out, but you do you and good luck with everything.