ok ladies, I am writing about seduction. the question is: how often do you date, meet, or hand out with a man with no real intent of sex but find yourself on your back before the date is over? howmany times has this happened to you? It has been my idea that women knew before the man that sex was in the picture. if this is true then how does a woman claim a man seduced her? I want as many ideas on this as I can get. let me know. i am weary of "i do not know how it happened but we had sex." 