Secret or Sharing

[1Browneyedguy]

Do you share this site / board with someone you love/ your s.o / a close friend or is it secret ?

I'll go first.

NO ONE I know either close to me or whatever knows I'm here posting - looking and no one knows
that I write stories.

Let me revise that... I am in touch either email / texting or IM with a few people that I'm a "writer" but they don't know who I am.

 

[deskuser]

We share this hubs and me. Sometimes I even let him see some of my pm's which gives us both a buzz.

 

[Rainbow_dash]

i know one poster IRL but lots of my friends KNOW I post online, not sure if they know where.

 

[rexhame317]

I am on a dating website and one of the guys I was chatting, when I said I write "adult themed" stories, told me to check out Lit. I let him read my stories (and wonder if he has seen my postings here..lol)

 

[ReKio]

none of my friends/family know--and I would prefer to keep it that way haha

I really like a s.o. I met on here and being that we met on this site im sure he knows im on it lol

 

[magicalmoments]

My wife knows I'm on here, she is able to access my profile and have a look at what I've been saying and who I've been chatting with but as far as I know she never has. We don't share this stuff.
Apart from her no-one else knows and all, except for my ex wife, would be shocked and surprised to know I was. My ex knows I'm a pervert and wouldn't be at all surprised to learn I was on here.

 

[SissySalina]

Yes, She knows and has access to all on Lit. Have not seen Her on Lit. but She knows some of what is posted so She has been here.

 

[NightL]

I have moved a number of Lit friendships over to FB. They hold a very special place in my life. Friendships were developed over years of shared values and mutual respect. I have talked openly about Lit to friends beyond here and several or more know my user name.

There really is nothing I have posted here that I would be ashamed of if known to others. I aim to treat people with the same respect as I would in life beyond Lit and that also includes respect for myself.

 

[BrightShinyGirl]

Secret.

I haven’t told anyone in real life about Lit or my involvement with it, not even my husband. This place is an escape where I can act out a side of myself that I keep completely hidden in my real life. I’m not interested in there being any crossover between fantasy and reality.

 

[sinnndy]

Do you share this site / board with someone you love/ your s.o / a close friend or is it secret ?

I'll go first.

NO ONE I know either close to me or whatever knows I'm here posting - looking and no one knows
that I write stories.

Let me revise that... I am in touch either email / texting or IM with a few people that I'm a "writer" but they don't know who I am.

My husband knows, we share everything and have an open relationship. At least it was open before Covid-19

 

[Jada59]

Not a secret.

 

[trevorness]

Secret.

I haven’t told anyone in real life about Lit or my involvement with it, not even my husband. This place is an escape where I can act out a side of myself that I keep completely hidden in my real life. I’m not interested in there being any crossover between fantasy and reality.

Yeah I am pretty much in this same zone.
Though sometimes wonder if I would want to cross over fantasy to reality.

 

[Goldenfinger]

I share with my wife. I was told about this place by a lady I know.

 

[HoldYouDown]

For me it's a secret.

Well, years ago I told one girl whom I was dating at the time. She created an account so she could log in and look at some nude pics I'd posted. She messaged me and said it turned her on that I posted them and that random strangers were also turned on by the pics and complimenting me. And she said something like "just wanted you to know, I'm touching myself and enjoying your pics right now."

 

[TheShez]

Currently secret. I want to share this with my wife but I do like having access to a world of self expression that is my own.

 

[Replicant2018]

Secret. Spouse doesn’t know.

 

[amofiga]

None of my family or friends nor does my wife know I'm here. The only people are those with whom I PM or who have read my stories. Frankly, none of my friends or family would see me as "the type". I prefer it that way. They see me as a straight arrow. Only those with whom I communicate or with whom I've had secret relationships know the "me" that's behind what the world sees. I've known a fair number of "straight arrow" women like that too. Teachers, librarians, soccer moms who present as so innocent are far from it.

 

[phil1955]

My wife knows I am on here and I sometimes share some of the interesting things with her. No one else knows.

 

[PEAKER44]

No & no....wife would have zero interest. Probably the biggest reason I’m on here.

 

[LeftToRight]

Secret. Though a lady that has been flirting with me while she goes through a divorce was someone I'd hinted to about such a place. I suspect she's just playing around herself - testing the waters - but she seemed very very interested in a venue such as this.

She's the picture of the contended stay at home mom who's held back her whole life on variety of kinks. We all have our outlet I suppose.

 

[Kirsi]

One of my very, very close friends knows that I'm on here, but neither of the two women I've dated since joining (I've been an anon until recently) knew anything about it.

 

[Psychprofgal]

No no no

This is my special escape. He'd probably love to know and share, but I need to have something just for me to be able to really open.

 

[WordsAreErotic]

It’s a secret escape. A place to share all of my experiences and desires in an anonymous place. I think that’s what makes Lit great. You can let everything out and any judgement just rolls off because there are no personal investments with the people you meet.

That being said, there are two people who know I’ve written a couple of stories, but don’t know where they’ve been submitted. One of these women, I’ve contemplated telling because I think she would enjoy the site. But I’m unsure if I want to share my magic escape island.

 

[oneblueye]

hey ...

when it comes to what I write and where I put it--, is mine and mine alone.
Just as when I write my songs poems and stories, what I write-, I write for myself and 'the Muse'. And she is the only who knows I'm here.
{the person I refer to as the Muse is NOT in reference to any screen name already on this site.}

 

[CuriousGuy62]

Yeah I am pretty much in this same zone.
Though sometimes wonder if I would want to cross over fantasy to reality.

I second that.