Second thinking my mans sexuality.

[kimv_314]

The title says it all. I've known he like anal and when we talk about what we would like to do to boost out sex life he has mentioned a few times about having another guy do him while i eat out another girl. Then about two days ago I found in his truck a bisex dvd and threesomes involving two males.

what do you all think?

 

[insane_beauty]

I appreciate his honesty, even though having you find his bisexual porn stash must have been a bit alarming for you.

I say talk to him about it some more and ask yourself if you would be comfortable you would be having a threesome with him and another man or woman.

 

[kimv_314]

he knows i would never really hve a threesome. i know he would and has but its been with two girls. im just so afraid that he will come out which doesnt bother me about someone being bi or gay but he is my bf and that makes me feel horrible. i mean he does have other vids but the bisex vids scared me.

 

[Davetmat]

I can understand you may be worried, but if he was gonna go gay so to speak and leave you.. wouldn't he have already? I dont know about him but just because he has a threesome doesnt mean he'd change, heck there's as good a chance as him leaving you for the other girl compared I would say.

If ya care for the guy let him have his fantasy if only in his head with you.. talk to him about it, little support for a fantasy could only bring you closer to him.
Maybe even watch a video with him? ..you might seeing the emotions it'd make him give off.


good luck

 

[pokerpimp]

bi curious

sounds like your bf is bi curious and wants to play the fem role. why dont you use a strap on with him and take total control by being very aggresive. this should take care of his fantasy as well as spicing up your sex life.

 

[Lappdog]

I think your bf IS trying to clue you in on his sexuality. By sharing his fantasy that included a bi-sexual element he is basically telling you that he craves some degree of same-sex interaction. Whether or not that works for you and your image of him is the question at hand.

 

[kimv_314]

Ive decided i would participate in having another couple or person during sex. he does love anal as i do love giving it to him. he does tell me to be in control more and that he wants to see me be the dominant person but i just feel silly.